Abhi and shivam are natural - Page 2

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

I remember Shivam going for food during that naamkaran function. And now he is eating abhi's sandwiches too.

And Nandini going for book? I dont remember.

Shivam could have asked abhi, Can I eat your sandwiches if you dont want to eat them?

Anandi could have prepared something special for Abhi and made him eat. Poor fellow, he is starving himself.

When a child feels neglected in favour of the other one, the former should get special attention and make him or her feel good.

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Shivam could have asked abhi, Can I eat your sandwiches if you dont want to eat them?

Anandi could have prepared something special for Abhi and made him eat. Poor fellow, he is starving himself.

Shivam likes sandwiches or not is not the problem here His intention was to provoke Abhi or not there but i found it rude of him to eat Abhi's sandwitches without asking him , not even bothering to ask from his own mother or Kakisaa Ganga? That in Abhi's room there are some sandwitches if he does not wish to eat can i ? Now Shivam is not that small child that he does not have basic manners that if you wish to use even your blood related siblings stuff you ask from them ? Shivam has grown a bit over confident with others leniency to him only his mother corrects him others dont say much ( poor kid does not know why ?)but he thinks he is such a good boy , can do anything no one will say anything to him and he does not take mother much seriously the way he was replying to her

if Abhi is suppose to respect Shivam as his younger brother then shivam should also learn to respect Abhi as an elder brother I think Anandi should have firmly told him to behave and that you cannot eat up others sandwitches like this Here it does not matter he ate Jagya's child's sandwitches if he would have eaten up Nandini's sandwitches without asking from anyone would be quite rude of him and he should learn these manners I never used any of siblings stuff and ate their food without asking permission from them because my parents taught me this much manners Anandi should also do this

i agree that in sat's epi shivam din't cum across as that gud as CVs r trying 2portray. till now i was reserving my views on both abhi & shivam. but on sat i din't like shivam at all whether its saying hes DS fav.or wid A saying wat shud e do if all luvs him.he luked arrogant.he din't even came across as sum naughty kid who was teasing his sibling by saying hes fav.

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

They are kids and let us treat them as kids. Let us not make them anandi's and ganga's.

Shivam provokes him sometimes and without Shivam's provocation too, abhi threw that ice cream
away. Shivam tried to reach him during icecream issue by taking it to abhi and ganga.

I'm not talking about who's whose child. I talked about the situation I saw and how I understood it. All kids ,no matter whose children they are deserve love and attention but its also adults duty to teach them good manners and how to become a good people. Shivam is not so small kid that he'd not know he should not take something from other people's rooms without asking. These are the basis of a good education.
But since you yourself mention Anandi Ganga issue, allow me to express my impression about it as well.It doesn't have to be correct but it is simply my perception. So far I have seen Shivam asking ice cream from Jagya, Dadisa reading him a story which is very nice, Dadisa and Ganga welcome them from school, the children who retell the event that occurred in school ( the sports match) to Dadisa and Ganga , Ganga who also has her job but makes them food. It would be nice to see his own mother to spend some time with him. The very same Anandi who used to be everywhere whether it be Nandu, Sanchi, Chotti ma, Dadisa, Jagya ... And what convince me even more is the way Shivam was replying to her

Previously they pitted 2 brothers against each other. anup and alok.

Now they are pitting 2 boys against each other.

It will snowball surely for trps sake.

If Abhi was not in room then Shivam should have this much manners that he goes and ask from Ganga or Anandi can i eat those sandwitches It really does not matter he ate Abhi's sandwitches and that he should be careful as Abhi has problem with him No the point is not this but this comes in basic manners if you wish you take things which belongs to others or are for them then at least show manners to take permission first . If here he would have eaten Nandini's sandwitches it would be same Do you think Nandini would have liked it or would not have complained to mom see ? If Mannu would have eaten up Abhi's sandwitches like that won't he would still be complaining to his mother or father see what he has done

i agree with @sidra and stephi shivam has grown a bit over confident because others don't scold him and he thinks he is their favorite and a very good boy Its only his mother who ask him and to me he sounded pretty arrogant towards her the way he was replying to her O yeah i am a good boy do you want me to turn bad so i can get scolding ? What was that for ?Anandi should really put him some limits otherwise he will cross that Today he has eaten sandwitches tomorrow he will pick up other stuff from Abhi and Mannu's room and thats not correct Even real siblings don't like that

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Previously they pitted 2 brothers against each other. anup and alok.

Now they are pitting 2 boys against each other.

It will snowball surely for trps sake.

but i hope these boys issues get resolved sooner Getting a bit bored of their daily tu tu mein mein though its been a week and few days more for leap I cannot take it longer The only interesting thing for me here is how Jagya will clear Abhi's misunderstanding that my dad loves Shivam more than me which is of course not true but he thinks rest it is not an interesting track Wished to see some professional tracks for Dr couple instead of children's jhik jhik