Only if Shagun was a good mother ?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Shagun is selfish but she loves Adi in her own twisted way, only if she would have been a proper mother, I could have supported all the dialogues which she told The Bhallas and Ishita today, as they were true to the core

Bhallas and Ishita were fine taking away her child from her but now that they have come to know of exchange, Ishita wants things to be reverted. She wants Shagun to think from her heart. The pangs of separation strikes all of them.


But alas, since Shagun is not a proper mother, it's difficult to support her.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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very interesting. I also thought about this after watching the episode. No matter what, a child is still a child and mother will love her children. Shagun also loves Adi in her own twisted way and hence all this revenge from IshRa by snatching Ruhi from their life.


We have to see both sides and have to understand that pain is in everyone;s heart.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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u r right...i also felt the same thing..,but u know where is the difference...Shagun is more interested in breaking Ishita n raman n rest of the Bhallas...she doesnt want to reverse the papers...she is ready to let adi go in exchange of ruhi...just to break them... she doesnt say "good, they learnt their lesson...now they will not mess n take away adi..."...she says.." now i will have ruhi's custody...

sad part is adi n ruhi's situation...first time cud see bro sis love...n they just cant be together... such is the result of bitter divorce... sad indeed
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Totally agree! Shagun's words were right, only if she was a good mother!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Maybe its the fact I know Shagun is evil...so her I can never see her actions in a postive light...
Her facts were right, BUT I think her intentions weren't as genuine, I think she wanted to do that JUST so she can have the upper hand, make the Bhalla feel paiin not becaus she loves Adi and fear of losing him...
Well she fears losing Adi, but as possesion like he is her truimph card or something
Ishita's fear is that of mother losing her child...There is big difference hence I think she doesn't love anyone truly !

If only Shagun was a good mom many would be happy! That includes her!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: shalz_123

u r right...i also felt the same thing..,but u know where is the difference...Shagun is more interested in breaking Ishita n raman n rest of the Bhallas...she doesnt want to reverse the papers...she is ready to let adi go in exchange of ruhi...just to break them... she doesnt say "good, they learnt their lesson...now they will not mess n take away adi..."...she says.." now i will have ruhi's custody...

sad part is adi n ruhi's situation...first time cud see bro sis love...n they just cant be together... such is the result of bitter divorce... sad indeed

And also i very happy to see no love for ruhi... She only want ruhi custody to make ishra life hell tats all...
And she loves adi
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Firstly, I don't believe in the concept of what if- that's the worst way to think; it gets you nowhere. Secondly, I wrote in another similar post that the whole thing is not about Shagun or IshRa. It's about Adi. If anyone is a victim, it's him and his own mother victimized him. No child deserves to grow up like that.

Besides, let's say Shagun was a good mother, then what of the stunt she pulled with Raman today? She deceived him! Her pure motive was to break up IshRa. What boy deserves to be with a mother who is so wicked? The fact that Shagun is a horrible person remains unchanged irrespective of how good or bad she is as a mother. Adi deserves better than that.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: shalz_123

u r right...i also felt the same thing..,but u know where is the difference...Shagun is more interested in breaking Ishita n raman n rest of the Bhallas...she doesnt want to reverse the papers...she is ready to let adi go in exchange of ruhi...just to break them... she doesnt say "good, they learnt their lesson...now they will not mess n take away adi..."...she says.." now i will have ruhi's custody...

sad part is adi n ruhi's situation...first time cud see bro sis love...n they just cant be together... such is the result of bitter divorce... sad indeed


I disagree... Shagun took this step to take revenge itself, to make Ishra feel the pain of separation. She also mentioned many times in the episode that if they are able to revert the order -- Adi stays with her and secondly, in front of lawyer also that they will now understand her pain.

She is aware that for 3 days court is closed, so her revenge gets over and then from monday when Ishra would start the process, she would get her son back. She feels she is in a win-win situation as both her desires gets fulfilled with this one step.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: geethavenkatesh

And also i very happy to see no love for ruhi... She only want ruhi custody to make ishra life hell tats all...
And she loves adi


True she wants Ruhi's custody only to avenge Ishra fro separating her from her child, Adi otherwise she has no feelings for Ruhi.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Wings-of-Fire

Firstly, I don't believe in the concept of what if- that's the worst way to to think; it get's you nowhere. Secondly, I wrote in another similar post that the whole thing is not about Shagun or IshRa. It's about Adi. If anyone is a victim, it's him and his own mother victimized him. No child deserves to grow up like that.

Besides, let's say Shagun was a good mother, then what of the stunt she pulled with Raman today? She deceived him! Her pure motive was to break up IshRa. What boy deserves to be with a mother who is so wicked? The fact that Shagun is a horrible person remain unchanged irrespective of how good or bad she is as a mother. Adi deserves better than that.


Shagun had already played her card to save Adi by asking for a very high maintaneance, so she could not pull her feet back now when Raman had accepted and fulfilled her condition.

Seeing her plan being foiled and she understood that now she has no chance of retaining Adi, she decided to avenge Ishra by making them go through the same pain of getting separated from their child. So the victim here is Ruhi and not Adi here, coz Adi's fate was sealed in the first deal.

If Ishra decides to let go of this deal - they lose Adi and if they stick to the deal - they lose Ruhi forever. Its Ruhi who will not be comfortable with Shagun but Adi is comfortable at both places.

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