SanDhir - What Hurts The Most..

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Okay , So this'll be my last writing on the forum for quite some time , not because of anything else but the fact that I'm a mess , and I need to get things sorted :') Nothing to do with the show either .. (Not because of my exams :') )
Getting to the post.
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Sanyukta : Toh Ab?
Randhir : Hum saath hai par alag hai..


And the stand Sanyukta took , totally agree . Both of them need a lot of time .
Their relation is extremely complex , how can she forget what Randhir did?
Yes they love each , love each other very much but they have problems and those problems need to be sorted out before they can come together .

They know what they mean to each other , and how strongly they feel for each other . But both their priorities are different .. And they need to talk it out . Randhir needs to redeem himself , he needs to value her (what I mean is , value her without a terrorist attack happening ) for who she is . I'm not saying he doesn't , but he is extremely impulsive and his insecurities take the better of him most of the times .. And he hates voicing out care especially to the ones he really cares about . He needs to let it out , he's consuming himself .

For her really she needs time , she's lost her mentor , her strongest supporter , and Randhir is an essential part of her life but he hurt her so deeply . It'll take her time to deal with all of this .

'What hurts the most , is being so close and having so much to say , but watching you walk away'
When you speak through silences , you know you're going to last , last long .
They need to talk it out , inevitably the CV's give us the best Sandhir scenes over their phone conversations .

They're not meant to be . They're there to happen . And for it to happen they need this phase . Of understanding each other's priorities and accepting them . I think this is beautiful .
I think this song suits them very well , the most over used yet heart-wrenching song ' Kyunki Tum Hi Ho , Ab Tum Hi Ho Zindagi Ab Tum Hi Ho .. Chain Bhi , Mera Dard Bhi , Meri Aashiqui Ab Tum Hi Ho..'

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Still miss Vardhan , He's had the greatest impact on me . I'll miss him so much. But I think he'll live through his identity , his principles he instilled in his students .

Vardhan Suryavanshi . *Salute*


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I'll be watching the show , because I don't really have a reason , it's a part of my routine now :")
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TheAphrodite thumbnail
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I will miss this forum , I was here since there were about 8 pages to the forum now there are nearly 800 more .. I'm so proud of everyone actually .. I'll miss this terribly .. I'll hopefully come back soon . :) !
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Awake post

Totally agree with u

Sandhir need tym to handle there inner turmoil
There's lot more to clear first

Once they realise everything

N get over it they will be together
N very strong

U r leaving
We respect ur decision


Come back soon

Keep smiling
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: newmoon18

Awake post

Totally agree with u

Sandhir need tym to handle there inner turmoil
There's lot more to clear first

Once they realise everything

N get over it they will be together
N very strong

U r leaving
We respect ur decision


Come back soon

Keep smiling



Thank You !
You make me smile so I will :)
Ill miss you :)
I'll be watching the show , just won't be on the forum , so when I do come back I'll make a humongous post on what I thought :)
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Your comments please ?
Can I have them for one last time .
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Posted: 10 years ago
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B'ful post dear...
Well we got to knw each other quite recently only...but i already love ur posts...

Sandhir share a complicated relationship..
The biggest hindrance is their EVEREST sized egos ...
Nd yeah ...so true...it took a near fatal terrorist attack for rd to come frm I hate u to ILU!!! Hush d revenge is over..
I support sanyu's stand coz rd needs to earn her back..
But den dis guy wont ever admit or express..
Either he needs to open up or sanyu needs to be intelligent enough to realise his unexpressed feelings..
We'll wait for d day dey'll be together forever..
Vardhan sir will be missed...

So u'll be following d show atleast...dats cool..hopelessly addicted we are..
Come back wid a bang !!

Love
Akriti :)
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ILuvParsh

B'ful post dear...
Well we got to knw each other quite recently only...but i already love ur posts...

Sandhir share a complicated relationship..
The biggest hindrance is their EVEREST sized egos ...
Nd yeah ...so true...it took a near fatal terrorist attack for rd to come frm I hate u to ILU!!! Hush d revenge is over..
I support sanyu's stand coz rd needs to earn her back..
But den dis guy wont ever admit or express..
Either he needs to open up or sanyu needs to be intelligent enough to realise his unexpressed feelings..
We'll wait for d day dey'll be together forever..
Vardhan sir will be missed...

So u'll be following d show atleast...dats cool..hopelessly addicted we are..
Come back wid a bang !!

Love
Akriti :)



Yes very recently , but I guess we've interacted before , I changed my username (Sarunforeva) to this :")

Thank You So Much!

It is their egos , and how hard it is for them to let go of it .
I mean Randhit can't be redeemed so easily , he shouldn't .
Randhir needs to be a little more vocal about his feelings to Sanyukta , she understands him but sometimes rd gets confusing for her too ,.

Yes we are addicted ! I love yours too , all your posts and replies !
I will hopefully :)

Lots of Love and hugs !
Nidhi :)
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I guess yeah we have interacted before then ...Maybe u wrote an os on sanyu-raghu...
Dont worry it will long for Sandhir to reunite nd i suppose dat blissful day will be worthy enough of d wait !!!

Btw why r u leaving..some big mess...Hope u r fine ...
Take care dear :)
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ILuvParsh

I guess yeah we have interacted before then ...Maybe u wrote an os on sanyu-raghu...
Dont worry it will long for Sandhir to reunite nd i suppose dat blissful day will be worthy enough of d wait !!!

Btw why r u leaving..some big mess...Hope u r fine ...
Take care dear :)



Yes I had written that OS .
It's fun writing ..

Not a big mess really , have signed up for a lot of things , so time allotment is getting really hard , and IF is quite distracting , so I have to leave ..

It'll be a long wait , but in the end it'll be worth it , I'm not complaining at all ..

I will take care , you do too! Will be back soon hopefully ! :)
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Very aptly quoted and I agree cent percent with you.
SanDhir are now going through the toughest phase of their lives where neither will their immense love let them divide nor will their past let them unite.
Ego, maybe, but for me the biggest obstacle is the trust quotient that they lack at this point of time.
Even though Randhir has understood where his priorities lie and how a life is precious, Sanyukta still needs time to cope up with everything and so I respect her decision.
Randhir must prove himself worthy of her trust, not that he isn't but he must prove himself that insignificant destructive issues akin to the revenge track won't sway him.

Well, I hope that you'll return back to the forum soonish...
This is Keya here and it was nice to meet you..

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