Pot calling kettle black

It is Shekhars fault that they do not want to stay with anandi and take responsibility.

They want to shift the responsibility and fly away.

If they can abandon their own daughter in law and grandkids in such a callous way, what should we call them? Sub humans?

Further Daddu took away anandi's independence treating her like a clueless kid just because of Nandini incident.

They forgot they spoiled Sanchi so much that she was almost lost but for anandi.

Ira just washed off her hands and blamed anandi for Sanchi's misdeeds.

And less said about DS the better.

The Shekhars and DS who did not have great records themselves are deciding where anandi should live and how she should live.

I think DS has learnt her lessons and is not like earlier she was. And I don't think DS meant that Anandi cannot take of her kids. Its just the old fashioned mentality that being alone means lonely and miserable life! Even for practical reasons, Anandi getting some support while bringing up her kids will be considered good. I cannot say anything about daddu's thinking because KB ppl are shown in erratic ways - sometimes good and supportive / sometimes mean and not very understanding. Very non-dependable sort of characterization.

Originally posted by: Sunna_Deewani

I think DS has learnt her lessons and is not like earlier she was. And I don't think DS meant that Anandi cannot take of her kids. Its just the old fashioned mentality that being alone means lonely and miserable life!Even forpractical reasons, Anandi getting some support while bringing up her kids will be considered good. I cannot say anything about daddu's thinking because KB ppl are shown in erratic ways - sometimes good and supportive / sometimes mean and not very understanding. Very non-dependable sort of characterization.

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<div>But in all this they are not realizing that BH pplhow much ever apna they are, still they are not real maika. In some relations, its better to have a distance.Peace at BH depends mainly now on Ganga's attitude to Anandi. Anandi's characterization will not be butchered, but other character's mahanta is at CV's mercy only😆. To bring drama and to highlight Anandi's plight they can do anything. Some even doubt that leap ke baad ganga hogi hi nahi even after she becoming doctor news😆.

It's natural for problems to arise or else why did they bring in Anandi at BH.Nways What do u feel? equations will change after leap or same!

yes shekhars r indeed irresponsible characters .they r not bother about nandini and anandi .they have not left any good memories for which they should be remember .it is request to cvs that dont send them back

Shekhars are typical un sketched characters of t.v serials

Originally posted by: libsrocks

Shekhars are typical un sketched characters of t.v serials

They don't have much uniformity in their perspnality

A woman like Ira was able to see the bright side of the fact that Anandi lives with her in-laws even after being a divorcee but could never make out her daughter's immaturity.

A man like Daddu was so attached with his grandson Shiv, his haveli and his great grandchildren but did not thought twice before leaving it all behind to go to foreign place.

A woman like Meenu showed reasonable concern for AnSh's relation before marriage and has shown to be strong woman but everything goes downhill the moment husband comes back...CVs just don't know the art of getting strong woman standing with her husband...do they?

Its useless to blame Shekhars...from very start they were just representing the negative points of city people, the narrow mindness behind the mask of open mindness and pakke umar ke kacche rishte.

For Dadisa i would say even if Daddu would have not asked her she would have made an effort to bring Anandi to BH...its not about obessission with Anandi but simply her care for her...no one will like that their grand daughter or daughter is left alone to fed for herself...parents know that hardships make people tougher but still can never wish the same for their kids...in the end it depends on the kids to choose how to want to really live...It depends on Anandi if she would have preferred to live alone with Shiv's memories or provide her kids a sense of family away from her husband and their father's house.

I think Daddu was majorly wrong to take a promise from Anandi or to order her like this...i get the concern but one must look at the emotional side of the person too...for their sense of satisfaction they are making Anandi go through such tough task which is rude. He should have tried to convince her but not force her like this...in reality, manyatimes sense of losing such emotional connection makes a person more weak despite having others to help her/him. Ofcourse they would show Anandi being thankful to Dadisa but i would have preferred Anandi living independently in Udaipur. Besides Anandi has already establishes a good alliance with Udaipur's current collector which will help her find Nandini...shifting the whole issue will be problematic as i don't think Jaitsar's Collector will show much concern in the issue.

Daddu tries to dominate and succeeds also. DB was able to flourish for such a long time because Daddu did not want to see to what extent she could go.
He knows anandi cant say No to him and he also made sure of it by involving DS. It is kind of exerting emotional pressure on a vunnerable anandi.
Dadisa should also think of anandi's present condition and her bringing anandi to face Jagya ganga on a daily basis is heartless.
Daddu who was so concerned about DB(how can she live alone) did not think twice before leaving for Singapore making anandi and her kids orphans to live in a borrowed house BH. Anandi maybe familiar with BH but not grownup Amol who was schooling happily in Udaipur.

I dont know how good or bad episode today episode will be but one thing is good that shekhars r no more part of bv serial .I never feel shekhars important characters of bv serial

Cvs failed to create strong characters in shekhars.
In Singhs be it any characters, they were impactful.
Ds-authorative
Sumi- obedient, not so gutsy
Gehna- rebellious
Basant-ds ka ladla
Bhairav - sensible

Those were like iconic characters...

Cvs dint create Shekhar family in that much detail.

Therefore they could never create an impact like Singhs.

Shekhars characters are way too unreal and their exit too completely unreal and stupid When a family loses their son they try to feel his presence in his children Shekhars lost their Shiv but they are one unique family who handed over their grandchildren to their daughter in law's ex sasural and themselves left 😲What exactly was the need to go to Singapore ? Creatives and their senseless creativity is reaching to the level of complete stupidity and they want us to believe this ?

Don't know why cvs have to be unreal and fake for their dramas Better than this they could kill entire Shekhar family in some accident Believe me that would be more believable than this

and Creatives can kill Khajan Singh too Then they can keep shouting Singhs are Anandi's only maika otherwise it seriously too fake of them calling Singhs as Anandi's maika while her father is still alive?

i don't think Ganga's character will be butchered She has no reason to be insecure of Ja An relationship Time to time cvs have tested this and even made people fuel her but she never became insecure and turned against Anandi so why she will later ?

People are making guesses on Ganga i really don't think she will turn wrong in anyway but my guesses are on children Everyone know Mannu and Amol will be pure angels baki bachay two younger ones Abhimanyu and Shivam which are in suspense😆 Since children are teenagers or pre teenagers post leap so they will have their story so these children might bring drama in parents lives as well

Perhaps Shakhers were meant to be temporary characters - so creatives did not make effort to establish them. Singh's characters were developed in detail. Another thing is - Singh's characters were developed when Anandi and Jagya were young children - so the story revolved round Singhs and their interaction with them. Shakhers entered when the leads were adults - and people want to see jodis and action around pair only (so many posts about wanting only Anandi and Shiv in limelight and not the 'mob' and why DS comes in Jagya's track etc.)