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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yesterday, we saw more of Sunidhi...to be precise to what extent she can go in revenge. She is not only drama queen, opportunist but also poisonous...earlier she used to bite indirectly but now she has declared an open war against Pratibha. As far our dear Prats is concerned I am still unable to understand that how can someone be so nave...that she failed to understand Sunidhi...after living with her for years...assuming 5-6 years. Pratibha lacks confidence, she cannot exert her point, stammers while talking...looking at her loosing battle, unable to face Sunidhi's shoots, I think Prats has not learnt anything and lives far from reality...people say, one learn from experiences...but Pratibha...has not.
How come she is not able to take her husband in confidence...??? After so may years of marriage, at least this is something women in middle class families are able do...they learn the trick of the trade...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Pratibha is so frustrating that everytime I watch her I just want to go through my tv and shake her to wake her up from her slumber. You would think that she would know Sunidhi like the back of her hands, after living with her for many years, so that when Sunidhi attacks she's already 10 steps ahead of her and ready to counteract all her attacks.

I myself don't understand how come she doesn't take Mahen into confidence, being married for so long. It's like she got married, got caught up in the responsibilities of the household and just totally shutdown.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Gingerly

Pratibha is so frustrating that everytime I watch her I just want to go through my tv and shake her to wake her up from her slumber. You would think that she would know Sunidhi like the back of her hands, after living with her for many years, so that when Sunidhi attacks she's already 10 steps ahead of her and ready to counteract all her attacks.

I myself don't understand how come she doesn't take Mahen into confidence, being married for so long. It's like she got married, got caught up in the responsibilities of the household and just totally shutdown.

Completely agree with you. She must be married for at least 15 years...and in all these years if she is not able to win the trust of her husband...the I think she herself is to be blamed. Though I was not born and brought up in India but visit the country from quite frequently to be with in-laws...my experience says that indian middle class men do hear their wives.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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P is aware that S is immature and rude at times, but I guess she was not aware of to what extent S can go to get her way and make P look bad. Jealousy is very devilish emotion, and if it stays in your heart for too long, people say and do things they would normally not do.
The reason though, that P has no respect in her house is really because she does not have the support of her husband. People in joint families do say things that are rude and will blame you for things that are not your fault. Sometimes you try to speak, but you have to just remain silent. What helps in those situations is having the support of your spouse.

I have not watched this show from the beginning, but it seemed to me that Mahen did support P because during the Pihu school incident, he was so happy that she went to Pihu's school and supported and praise P in front of everyone. He lost some trust in her because she tried to lie about going to Pihu's school. She should have tried to explain to Mahen what really happened. P has to be strong enough to get Mahen to listen to her, even when he's upset. A successful husband and wife relationship is built on trust and good communication.

She has to communicate how she feels to Mahen and explain her intentions to him. I know he's going through a lot of tension right now, but that's life! A husband and wife need to always be able to share any concerns with each other. Once she gets Mahen to understand what she's trying to do, I'm sure he will support her against his family.

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