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I like the way Sandip's father (Shukla ji) explains anything. (As I remember from one episode, his name is Shukla. Correct me if I am wrong). He asked Sandip what was Sandip's personal achievement after helping people of that locality. Some may think that he was teaching Sandip to be selfish. But no, he was teaching Sandip to be practical. In real life people take undue advantage of a person like Sandip. Such a person keeps helping others and does not rise as high in status as he can based on his talent. Rather others grow on his expense. When others grow, then only few remember how much he had helped them. Now, that person is not of much importance to them because they do not need him.
In ACHPM, people are far better than in real life because even though they have taken Sandip for granted, they do respect Sandip a lot.😊 But, still it is bad to take somebody for granted. They should not expect Sandip to solve each and every problem of theirs. They should learn to solve problems themselves.
As Sandip said, his father himself had asked Sandip to help others. This means he does not want Sandip to be selfish. But he also asked Sandip to have some achievement of his own. This is a very balanced view. You should help others but also take care of yourself. Very nice thinking. Very practical.👏
When Sandip went to Shukla ji to find how to get rid of the fake Sadhu, how nicely Shukla ji explained about people's beliefs. He knew that just by telling people that the sadhu is fake, nobody will believe him to be fake. And he is right. If somebody strongly believes in something and you start telling him that he is wrong, then his belief will become even stronger. He will not like to listen to whatever you say. That is why Shukla ji rightly said that only belief can cut belief.👏
In 13 August's episode, how nicely he distinguished between relation and convenience. The way he was talking, it is quite clear that he knows Sandip has likeness for Urmi at least in some corner of his heart. But he knows that Sandip will not directly accept this. This is why he did not straightaway asked Sandip if he loved Urmi. But he dropped hints. One hint was when he said that the mohalla people would have readily agreed for Sandip's and Urmi's marriage. Another hint was when he said, "Urmi is also a nice girl."😆
Often people see only one aspect of anything. But Sandip's father sees all aspects and comes to a balanced conclusion. Others depend on Sandip whenever they have any problem. It is good that Sandip can always approach his father whenever he has any doubts.👏
In ACHPM, people are far better than in real life because even though they have taken Sandip for granted, they do respect Sandip a lot.😊 But, still it is bad to take somebody for granted. They should not expect Sandip to solve each and every problem of theirs. They should learn to solve problems themselves.
As Sandip said, his father himself had asked Sandip to help others. This means he does not want Sandip to be selfish. But he also asked Sandip to have some achievement of his own. This is a very balanced view. You should help others but also take care of yourself. Very nice thinking. Very practical.👏
When Sandip went to Shukla ji to find how to get rid of the fake Sadhu, how nicely Shukla ji explained about people's beliefs. He knew that just by telling people that the sadhu is fake, nobody will believe him to be fake. And he is right. If somebody strongly believes in something and you start telling him that he is wrong, then his belief will become even stronger. He will not like to listen to whatever you say. That is why Shukla ji rightly said that only belief can cut belief.👏
In 13 August's episode, how nicely he distinguished between relation and convenience. The way he was talking, it is quite clear that he knows Sandip has likeness for Urmi at least in some corner of his heart. But he knows that Sandip will not directly accept this. This is why he did not straightaway asked Sandip if he loved Urmi. But he dropped hints. One hint was when he said that the mohalla people would have readily agreed for Sandip's and Urmi's marriage. Another hint was when he said, "Urmi is also a nice girl."😆
Often people see only one aspect of anything. But Sandip's father sees all aspects and comes to a balanced conclusion. Others depend on Sandip whenever they have any problem. It is good that Sandip can always approach his father whenever he has any doubts.👏
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