what is offensive and what is not!!!!

I have seen pritam has been questioned on who was right and wrong between Ali and gautam. I feel he seems confused as he couldn't say Ali is right nor did he find gautam s over- reaction justified. Infact in house, after coming out Washroom area.. everyone seems discussing the issue and wondering what made gautam affect so much if Ali said all fake. To get affected something should be real. None said Ali did such a wrong thing... Disgusting but later in front of Farah they said Ali was wrong.

I think all housemates acted cunningly felt gautam must be getting all sympathy, why should we look bad, Ali s image is a nywheres bad.

Pritam felt in trap as he couldn't behave like the rest.

So my point is what is offensive and what is not isn't it subjective to every individual?
Doesn't it depends on a person who takes a joke...

When sushant and karishma joked on gauty s funeral that time mohit gulati found it offensive
When gauty wrote kill Ali wasn't that offensive! If Ali s parents saw that episode, wouldn't they feel bad. Ali took it sportingly. Ali also could have made a scene out of it...

So who decides what offensive is and what is not. The individual him or herself. There is no benchmark set. Of course if someone give gali; drags parents, upbringing, hitting... This is offensive.

But one can't force someone to feel offensive about something which he found offensive /bad. I mean the way gauty and the caller, Farah all were behind pritam to call gauty right and Ali wrong.Anyone who understands Ali, says something in his favour is wrong. Gauty also if u stay with me u will look positive.

If you ask me; Pritam should have taken a firm stand on the issue. He was swaying both way. If he really felt both were wrong, he should have maintained that position strongly, he would have looked better. Didn't have to take any side conveniently... Even if u ask my opinion, I won't blame Ali alone st all...

GG was replying to everything with equal dirt, but Ali won hitting something which GG was scared to expose...Sumit is real and he is probably a closet gay, I don't have any problem with that, but he couldn't take that truth, was scared to be exposed, so over dranatized it ... To divert and get sympathy..

I would have applauded Pritam, if he would be firm in criticizing both, instead of being in a 50-50 position..

Thats one minus point of pritam..he gets confused n then he dnt have clear answer ..But atleast he is not hypocritical ..Whats wrong is wrong ..When ali started to provoke gautam..gautam said apni family dikha raha h..Why drag family ? For me thats offensive too...

everyone want to play safe and everyone knows Ali has a foul mouth, so they decided to stay away from him WKW...

Originally posted by: -PD-

everyone want to play safe and everyone knows Ali has a foul mouth, so they decided to stay away from him WKW...

about Gautam-Ali incident.. it is pritam who found mostly supporting Ali not other HM's (you can watch the show again)... they said GG is over reacting but no one said Ali is not wrong for using such bad words... may be it is sambhavana who is with pritam but other HM's avoided Ali

so it is pritam who has to give explanation for supporting such bad words of Ali

Next coming to Gautam writing "Kill Ali" and KT & sushant talking about Gautam funeral

lets take this in general sense ... in friends or with whom we stay 24/7 we talk generally "i am going to kill you" as common sentence... atleast i heard many saying this while talking in fun... and Gautam - Gajhni incident is such one...

but saying "i hope you die so that i can come to you funeral" does not it sounds worst... you mean you want someone die ... from where you find it funny???

and one more thing Gautam didnot create any scene on funeral thing after knowing it from his brother... he completely left the matter, if he want he can also create issue out of it

My point one can take it offensively or one can understand it and ignore it. It's up to an individual. Ali has taken a lot of crap sportingly.