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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: pp29

Ummm kwerky,

I don't know if you understand the meaning of homophobe. Please check a dictionary.

As for tanna, since I don't usually comment on pritam or sonali whose examples you have given, tannas behavior I am not making an inference on by analyzing her behavior. I have never made a comment on her character or her relationship with men or her sexual orientation before. I have only called her a cheat because she has done it on national tv and has herself said it out loud.

Not inferring anything by myself by putting bullet points and images to understand a contestants behavior. I say only what they say and do themselves

I don't try and read between the lines, which is what this post is.



And moral police uncle, Who defines what is right or wrong? Who defines morality? Karishma is not married so she can do whatever the hell she wants to. She makes out with Upen which means she has broken up with her man. Don't you guys frikking get that? Where did cheating come from? If you are making out on national tv and your boyfriend is seeing that, it means bye bye to the relationship and not cheating. 😡
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: sonamoberoi



and why should punk stop because you asked him/ her too🤢😆


of course he won't stop...can't expect grown up reaction from punks... btw... thread reported ...as
getting personal abt contestant.

fyi i have reported the other threads e.g one on pritam too that are along same lines.


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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: sonamoberoi

Punk is right. Wisian is right. Boyfriend is trying too hard to defend a homosexual which is not a crime. If he is gay, it's fine. We are all liberal. the problem is not coming out openly and accepting your homosexuality. The issue is the pretense to be a macho man which you aren't.

As for Karishma, she has clearly admitted on national tv that she's a cheater by making out with Upen. She is a bold girl who doesn't need any closets to hide her reality. Power to the girl.



Why is it a problem on his ''coming out''? Shouldn't that be an individual choice? What is wrong in wanting to keep the private life private.. I don't see other contestants airing their private lives in public.Who cares who gautam is bumping his uglies with? Atleast I don't care about others sexual lives or preferences.The only gutsy gal out there was sonali.She didn't air her private life.But still kept her genuineness in the show.tANNA taking her ex's or boyfriend's name in television and talking about him, when he is not a part of this thing and also not present to defend himself, is no signs of boldness but a clear sign of inconsideration for her past relationship.I mean come on,no one wants to be dumped on national television.

That being said,Gautam has done wrong by dragging pritam's wife in the middle of this.I applaud pritam for not punching gautam at that moment.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: angeala95

Wisian you are owning this thread!! 😃



Naah!
Wis is just using the stupid hashtag!
not going to do anything to us !

Pp29!! Ur awesome !
Very intelligent ..
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Okay am not defending Gautam here but there are some things i wanna clarify..If a person is gay, he doesn't owe it to any of us to come out of the closet & confess that he is not straight..Why should he? He has every right to remain silent..I have seen ppl question celebs like Karan Johar too..IMO, he owes the truth to no one..Its his sexual orientation..So we have no right to expect anyone to come clean..Secondly, we are not liberal..No way..The society is filled with homophobes & i don blame these ppl if they prefer to keep quite & not come out of the closet..And thirdly, i don know why ppl associate feminine traits with homosexuality..Gays can be macho men too..Take Matt Bomer for instance 😆 Anyways, this rant has nothing to do with Gautam..I just have issues with ppl expecting gays/ lesbians to come clean or associating stereotypes with them..They don owe us an explanation for god's sake..

P.S. Sorry for the rant..No offence meant to anyway :)

well our choice maybe different but ur posts r anything but offensive ...ur rants are awesome 😳...very logical points must say 👏
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: sonamoberoi



And police uncle, I have slept with numerous guys while being in a relationship. Does that make me a bad person? NO. It's my hyper sexuality. Who defines what is right or wrong? Who defines morality? Karishma is not married so she can do whatever the hell she wants to. She makes out with Upen which means she has broken up with her man. Don't you guys frikking get that? Where did cheating come from? If you are making out on national tv and your boyfriend is seeing her, it means bye bye to the relationship and not cheating. 😡



No dear its still called cheating unless you have especially told your partner that look dude we are done.If a couple is exclusive like tanna has claimed again and again in the show,then the least she owes to her boyfriend is a goodbye.When two people get into an exclusive relationship then it means no hooking up with others.In this matter kudos to gutsy sonali.She was single and played the field.But she was s**t shamed by tanna herself.But I get it its her life,she cheat or not cheat,thats on her.If she is happy with upen then she owes no one any explanation except for her ex.We under no condition have any right to judge her.Its her life,
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: sanaLuvs1D



Why is it a problem on his ''coming out''? Shouldn't that be an individual choice? What is wrong in wanting to keep the private life private.. I don't see other contestants airing their private lives in public.Who cares who gautam is bumping his uglies with? Atleast I don't care about others sexual lives or preferences.The only gutsy gal out there was sonali.She didn't air her private life.But still kept her genuineness in the show.tANNA taking her ex's or boyfriend's name in television and talking about him, when he is not a part of this thing and also not present to defend himself, is no signs of boldness but a clear sign of inconsideration for her past relationship.I mean come on,no one wants to be dumped on national television.

That being said,Gautam has done wrong by dragging pritam's wife in the middle of this.I applaud pritam for not punching gautam at that moment.



Because he tries to be a macho man in a very obnoxious way by putting others down. His name calling Ali and Karishma all the time, his horrible behavior with Arya and Upen. The other day Upen came to inquire about his situation and he got up and said boxing karni hai just to show that he is a man and can't be challenged. He is so gay that he is desperate to make people believe that he is a real man. Only your insecurities can make you do that. It has been proven time and again that he needs someone's support to go ahead in the show. He has been called Fattu by the host. His sexuality has been challenged numerous times and he wants to prove that he is a real man which he may not be and it's fine. Just come out and accept it or act in a decent manner towards others and no one will say anything to you. Dare you bring someone's family and people will shoot back at you. He has a terrible habit of getting personal.


HORRIBLE HUMAN BEING -GAUTAM DHONHI GULATI AKA FATTU AURAT
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Okay am not defending Gautam here but there are some things i wanna clarify..If a person is gay, he doesn't owe it to any of us to come out of the closet & confess that he is not straight..Why should he? He has every right to remain silent..I have seen ppl question celebs like Karan Johar too..IMO, he owes the truth to no one..Its his sexual orientation..So we have no right to expect anyone to come clean..Secondly, we are not liberal..No way..The society is filled with homophobes & i don blame these ppl if they prefer to keep quite & not come out of the closet..And thirdly, i don know why ppl associate feminine traits with homosexuality..Gays can be macho men too..Take Matt Bomer for instance 😆 Anyways, this rant has nothing to do with Gautam..I just have issues with ppl expecting gays/ lesbians to come clean or associating stereotypes with them..They don owe us an explanation for god's sake..

P.S. Sorry for the rant..No offence meant to anyway :)


True. All of that is correct.

But are we on an immoral path if we - the audiences - want to speculate whether someone is gay or not? 😳
Having asked that question, let me also add that I personally, will not judge Gullu any more harshly if he were gay or not.
To me, the answer to the question whether or not he is gay is only just as good or bad as whether he should start wearing shirts more frequently. Certainly, I'd prefer that he would start wearing shirts, but if he does / does not - it will not change my opinion about him.

#SumitKaGullu has a persecution complex.
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