Ishita Needs a Time Out - Page 3

Originally posted by: Wings-of-Fire

I never said Ishita is not flawed. Please don't make it a Ishita v/s Rman post to see who made more mistakes. I'm merely saying that the situation she is in is impossibly hard and that she needs to get away for a few days so that she regains the mental peace she requires to handle all of it.

I agree Raman comes with lots of "baggage" - divorced Ex and kids from his Ex.

Originally posted by: Wings-of-Fire

Please, don't 'dude' me, cause I'm not your 'dude' and I don't consider everyone blind, but I do get that everyone can't READ. I mentioned Raman's ex and her BF, I mentioned Raman's BIL, i.e. Param for the fiasco he made, I mentioned Simmi and Toshi (his mother and sister) for the post Param behavior and I mentioned Romi for his Bala and Sarika kand. Again I'd tell you NOT to interpret things on my behalf. I can do that myself.

Ok .."NOT so dude".. you think Raman's past and present as baggage (which includes Ruhi as well). You think Raman's mom, brother, sister and whom-not as baggage but not Ruhi! Is it believable? Are you preaching "selective baggage"?

@Bold: It's stark naked what DID you mean from your main post. And, btw you made some fluffy remarks about me assuming your words as Ishita's. So before interpreting anything and teaching others how NOT to interpret anything, you better check your deigning tone.

Agreed!!
She needs a break from all this crap

I totally agree with you Wings, but the min u write some positive about ishita the bashing starts. I wonder if these very ppl wud marry a guy with a baggage like Raman? These days girls want to live without in-laws who they think r baggage. Ishita did tell Raman his problems are hers, but what is he doing now. He is dumping his problem on her and totally not taking any responsibility for it and blaming Ishita. He is happy to have Adi which is thanks to Ishita, now he needs to think of a long term solution - he is just dumping everything on Ishita.

He gave Mihir a lecture on how Ishita got him back from the airport and asked him not to run from his problems but face them head on. And he is preaching Mihir how to face problems and not run away??/ What is Raman doing right now? he is again running away from Adi-Shagun problem, and that is a fact. he wants Adi not shagun but does not know a solution for it, so he wants Ishita to become Adi's Ishima overnight and since she has not he is again blaming her for it.

Fact is Raman is a coward and has always run away from problems. when he thought Ishita was in love with mani, he was drunk by the roadside. when he finally thot his past was catching up, he tried to run to Singapore. The only problems he can solve are the ones which involve him giving away some deals or some post. he cant solve any emotional or relationship based issues. That is a fact. He cud not handle Rahu till Ishita came in his life. Finally Param issue too was resolved in some way by ishita. He just screams or gives away deals to ashok...

I love Ishra with all their faults, but this is a reality check for Raman once again!

I agree with the part that Ishita needs a break and perhaps Raman needs it too. But I don't agree with the baggage part. Your post sounded like everything about Raman is a baggage to Ishita. It's clearly not and marriage doesn't work in this way. There are lots of things about Ishita that can be termed as baggage. Latest of them can be Mihika's reckless act. None of the craps would have happened if Mihika wouldn't have done the kaand of marrying Ashok.

I honestly feel sorry for her. Even though she brought those two to the house she's being made to take up their entire responsibility. What the hell is Raman doing?

Double standard of bhallas..first they say stay away from their ghar ka chirag and now blaming her.. Rubbish..pathetic bhallas..