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Let me just clear everything up by saying I disagree with the current track entirely.
I do not believe in pre-marital sex but I am not going to condemn, demean, insult or hurt anyone who thinks or practises otherwise.
But I do know sex education is deemed necessary at this era but pre-marital sex is not so.
Call me old-fashioned, rigid, stupid or whatever but sex before marriage is not right. It never has been nor will it ever be.
Being an Indian, I understand modernism, liberal and equality but I hold on to our values, heritage and culture because there is nothing wrong in them and it definitely has righteousness in it too.
I do not think we need to become a full-fledged Westerner to become modern, liberal and open-minded. Just balance between your values and the norms of the era. Thats all!
Coming back to the show, Navya's situation is not something uncommon in today's era nor was it absent in the past.
If Navya was comfortable being intimate with Harshad, at least she should have protected herself properly. Its her choice to have sex and you cannot really hold her back there.
Here, the issue is not sex but the unplanned pregnancy. What about the child??
Seriously? Do you know how it affects a child to be raised by a single mother? Why doesn't the child deserve parents? A mother and a father? I am not saying that single parent situation is incomplete abusive or something but a child, no matter what, deserves both parents in his/her live. Stability, Love, Safety and Care. Important aspects needed for a child's development.
How could both Navya and Harshad subject an unborn child to something less than these aspects for his/her life?
Are Navya and Nandini even thinking about that? No.. They are thinking about having a poll asking other if other students have had sex or not. I get that they want to un-expel Navya but I mean, seriously?
Sex education is to be made publicly available but is your sex life supposed to made public? Isn't some parts of your life suppose to be yours only? Is sex really such a trivial part of people's lives?
The show's track has made sex and unplanned pregnancy a joke, if you ask me.
Also, I am not going to say Navya is bad or whatever, just because she had sex but that does not make pre-marital sex is something right, just because she has done it.
By doing this poll, this show is trying advocate and promote pre-marital sex..
I strictly object that!
I hope some of you, at least, side with me.
Thank you!
Anupamaa
