First of all everyone is entitled to his / her opinion regardless of positive of negative feedback on a character whereby it Is his /her prerogative to identify with a character a much as possible.
Just because someone views are not in alignment with you does not give you the right to accuse anyone of bashing.People should feel free to express his / her views in accordance to forums rules and regulations.
Now with that being said. I do not like Adi, I dislike his attitude and mannerism. Firstly he has no right to speak to elders the way he does.So what if Ishita is his step-mother, she is older than him respect her.
Secondly a child's second home is the school. He went to boarding school, Adi studying who will pay his fees. Well ashok and Raman wasted money sending Adi to pay school because he learnt nothing from school. no manners, no politeness nor was he given any training by his teachers. Then it clearly showing that those school is no good.
Thirdly Adi was born and grown up into the Bhalla's family from birth to 5- 6 years old... so when people come to say Adi didn't have proper family life that is so total distorted.. what happen during the irst 5-6 years of adis life he was living in a bubble???? he had both his mother and father's love unlike Ruhi.Was Ruhi's mother nd father present to see ruhi's first smile, what were ruhi's first words mama papa or grandpa or grandma? Adi still had his blimming mother does not matter hobad she was... what ruhi had? Or I forgot she had grandpa and grandma so that made it all the better.. What Adi had in the fist 5 years of his life which was critical years , Ruhi didn't have.
But yet Ruhi turned out fine unlike Adi who is just cod, calculating and a criminal genius to be thinking like an adult for non essential issues.. I guess the real debate should be NURTURE VS NATURE, not bashing kids,because from my point of view Adi was born into a loving stable homefor 5 years.He had all the comfort,ecurty andlov..Even when he was with Ashok his basic survival needs were met ,food ,clothing and shelter ...He was not on the road hustling to make a quick buck to buy food.He was never deprived an education, he was sent to pay school where only the people with money can pay for their kids. From where I am sitting the nurture part was more than 85 % covered.
Yes Adi' mom was a vile woman who filled his ears with poison, but he was going to school. He didn't learn anything from school.But Adi stil had a mother he was not an orphan. He love his mother unconditionally which means he can love,ruling out the nurture factor.
Which leaves the nature factor,that is Adi is jus mean and bad from inside.There are not any real external forces pushing Adi to behave the way he is behaving ..He is jus one good for nothing psycho child who needs prison or mental institution period.
I am sorry if anyone feels that I am bashing but I have seen children from broken homes who are traumatised by witnessing their fathers beating their mother senseless or their father tried kidnapping them and to deal with what they have witness they run under the bed or lock themselves in a cupboard shivering..They were no older than Adi when Raman and shagun separated. And these kids didn't come from a luxourious lifestyle. They never wanted to go outside because they were afraid they would be kidnapped .That is trauma not having the logical thinking or planning and executing plans to kick step mother out which was caused by parents divorce and big bad mother .
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