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Posted: 10 years ago
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My answer was from Kangana's POV only. Of course parents work in a team as far as parenting is concerned. Yet a mother is much more close to her child. After all she always has the benefit of those additional nine months which no one else have. That is the reason why the custody case of children are usually won by mother only.


Unfortunately some families in India are too patriarchal. So much that sometimes the father will humiliate the mother in front of her children. As if he needed a woman to produce children only. When the children knows that the woman means nothing in this family they don't care to listen to her either. I see my aunt being humiliated by her husband every time. All its my house and my money kind of bull shit. Overall he believes all women are born idiots. To make a team the family should acknowledge equality first.

Sometimes the woman will herself spoil her son by blaming random people for whatever reason her son has been accused. Again ghar ka chirag logic.


I have been brought up by a single mother . My mother never used any physical punishment and she is not an authoritarian either yet she manages to maintain the discipline of the house and we all are bounded by the rules laid by her.

Sakshi however is a typical case. She always overpowers Rajnath in those cases where Shaurya is concerned. Rajnath simply doesn't care for anything else than money. Not even his children matters to him. All are but bali ka bakra to him. I wonder how should i believe he loves Raima when he has no love for his own daughter.I find no reason why Kangana is to be blamed if she blames her mother for the whole mess. His father probably don't even exists after what he did to her.

The whole Goenka family is full of hypocrites. I cannot take Suchitra is that ignorant about all her family members. ITs all that unless its my own son or husband I don't care about it. Same is with Dev. I cannot believe he never knew what Shaurya was like.







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Posted: 10 years ago
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yes atominis but I was just talking only with regard to yesterday s episode.Sakshi slapped kangana; so kangana targeted sakshi, if rajnath had to hit her then she would blame rajnath. N secondly she also said like that sakshi being women she supported shaurya. We always expect women to teach how to respect another women.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I agree with you tanvi and Debs.
I was just talking from personal experience. I know two very wild and mischievous boys who are controlled and reined in only by their father and sometimes uncle. Neither scolding nor emotional words or wise words from mother impact them. Maybe due to peer pressure, young boys get out of hands and to them mother just appears as someone who nags or worries unnecessarily. That's when they require a serious man to man talk from father or father figure.

Yes Sakshi being a woman herself should have taught Shaurya and rather supported Kangana also for the truth than slap her. She failed there completely.

Rajnath is the most unconcerned and careless householder ever. A man is not called head of family for just being a man or a breadwinner, but for being a guide, mentor and pillar. Rajnath has been utterly uninvolved with his family. He thought only signing cheques was enough. But that is not how families work!
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