well its quite unbelievable the way diandra went from absolutely hating gautam for 8 weeks to having romantic feelings for him in 4 days. diandra is 35 year old woman, but acted like a hormonal 16 year old, it was quite silly. either you are serious about a guy to take it to first base. or all you want is a casual fling to get there and beyond.
it is obvious that gautam was attracted to her for her boldness. and on strings attached attitude that she showed, and got carried away by her personality. totally unaware that the whole thing would backfire only on him. gautam is only 26 and at an age where everything is an adventure and one doesn't look for a serious relationship.
both were wrong diandra for initiating the intimacy, provoking and cajoling gautam into it by calling him fattu over and over again when he tried to keep distance. or have people forgotten that.
and gautam for not keeping he head and falling for her viles. for letting himself get carried away without thinking of the consequences.
but diandra has no right or reason to now play the victim. upen and ali pounced on the fallout putting all the blame on gautam. even gautam didnt put all the blame on diandra. he maintained that they would be friends but would keep a decent physical distance, what is wrong with that. yes he didnt accept openly that there was an attraction. but he did accept that he made a mistake in getting carried away.
not once did diandra apologized for her behaviour, and her part in it, if people have noticed. even for when she got upset with gautam who told her to keep distance and she responded by kissing him in front of everyone so boldly. has she apologizes for calling him fattu,and provoking him to respond to her and going into the bathroom with her.
she kept mum in front of salman, and upen and ali by pretending to show silent dignity, and then playing the victim and putting all the blame on gautam. now is that right??
yes gautam called it quits and he didn't do it in a entirely proper discreet manner, and probably given his lack of experience and agitation of the situation should be considered.
but diandra should also take responsibility for her bold behaviour.