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Posted: 18 years ago
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I really believe that love (no matter how passionate and intense) is sometimes not enough. you need compatibility between the couple and the families, friendship, trust and respect (i know this probabaly sounds so cliched but it is true)...if someone behaves with my family the way robbie did with kasturi and her family I dont think I would have ever married him. Whether I would have married someone else immediately after is another question and is very circumstantial but 'robbie' would have been a closed chapter for me. I can never get past people who cant respect the dignity of others. It says a lot about that person and his values. Ofcourse this is in real life and and it is what i would do.

Whatever kasturi presumably did with ronak (which was robbies misunderstanding) her family had nothing to do with it. So his behaviour with her family was unwarrented and uncalled for...like someone said whatever kasturi did she did to save her familys reputation. and i dont think she was thinking of anyone (herself or robbie or ronauk) she was only thinking of her family and what they had to go through because or her...i think she behaved in a way many girls would and it is so easy sometimes to catch hold of the first lifeboat when you are sinking without thinking twice. Your first thought is survival...you are not going to check if the lifeboat has cracks and will sink eventually. Your first impulse is to get on it and save yourself and your loved ones. So I dont blame Kasturi for marrying raunak at all.

And now having married Raunak (who for his own reasons married her) she will have to try to make it work. She owes it to Raunak and his family who without a second thought to her 'illustrious' past accepted her with open arms.

She would have been selfish if she had cancelled her wedding with Raunak or (after marrying him) kept going down on memory lane knowing full well that it was a dead end. Yes it is heartbreaking to see robbie go thorugh all that pain but Kasturi is doing what any sensible person would do.

And whatever she feels for raunak is a mixture of fondness and immense gratitude that is manifesting itself the way it is on screen.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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i agree with you defo..if i was in kasturi's shoes i would defo have done what she did..Choose raunak over Robbie..Robbie's trust on Kasturi was soo weak that it broke on Devika's plots..What guarantee is there that what had happened then wouldn't happen again after marriage??No one can give that guarantee now can they..
Shru di..you stole my words..Im 110 % satisfied with what you said!After what you said main iske sivah aur kya keh sakti hoon?
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: knumnum

yaar shruti, I agree wat u said abt Ronak, But nobody wants her to run away with Robbiee... If given a chance to Robbie to go and ask for Kas family forgiveness, He wud have definitely convinced them.. Iam sure of it... But the thing was Kas was not ready to forgive him at all.. And she shud have thought abt Ronak's life also... She knows he is doing a favor by marrying her which means tat he doesnt have a special liking for her.... So it wud have been more appropriate if she said to Robbie to convince her family first then she will think of forgiving him.....so tats makes sad..

Krishi

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Kasturi was deeply hurt because of Robz, its not the matter of Robz convinicng Kasturi's family to marry her, and it was also too late for that and why, give me one good reason twhy ht Kasturi should have trust him again at her wedding day when comes and asks forgiveness,because it was Robbie who was not willing to listen anybody, than why Kasturi would have given Robbie a chance if Robbie did'nt give a chance to Kasturi, she was right saying that he will leave her again if someone poisoned him about her,, and any selfrespected girl can never tolerate someone humiliating her family to its extreme level specially the one who she loved with all her heart and soul, Kasturi's decision was right about marrying Ronak,she is justified,and she did'nt destroy Ronak's life she see the difference b/w both Ronak and Robbie and than takes the decission.Its Robbie who should'nt be given any chance not kasturi who give him a chance and after all life is not a joke.

MALEKA

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Posted: 18 years ago
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I alwyas say... Whtever robbie is done its not matter but how discusting way he did dht's matter.....

No matter wht, how u luv someone so deeply..but u hav no rite to harm some one like dhis way... its never ever forgivable.. @least m not!!!!!

d most discusting matter is her parents took posion.. & @mehindi cermony whtever robbie did dht was d extream level of humalization...!!!!!!!!!!!!

not only kasturi but everygirl think always first about her family..by dhm she comes in dhis world.. so she is absoulately rite on her decision.. 👏

Now 4 Ronak & her feelings towards him... see its take time to adjust with him.. he knows him batter but to live 24hours with someone its diff.. [ & her luv also live in d same roof.. Infact dht's d main hurdle 4 her to adjust with Ronak...] but m sure d way dhy show dhr understanding & maturity dhy will soon catch d rappo bwtn eachother... & dht's d "JEM OF DHIS RELATIONSHIP..." 😛

Edited by nightangel - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: anu93

i agree with you defo..if i was in kasturi's shoes i would defo have done what she did..Choose raunak over Robbie..Robbie's trust on Kasturi was soo weak that it broke on Devika's plots..What guarantee is there that what had happened then wouldn't happen again after marriage??No one can give that guarantee now can they..
Shru di..you stole my words..Im 110 % satisfied with what you said!After what you said main iske sivah aur kya keh sakti hoon?


oo so i'm not the only one who thinks that😊
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: nightangel

I alwyas say... Whtever robbie is done its not matter but how discusting way he did dht's matter.....

No matter wht, how u luv someone so deeply..but u hav no rite to harm some one like dhis way... its never ever forgivable.. @least m not!!!!!

d most discusting matter is her parents took posion.. & @mehindi cermony whtever robbie did dht was d extream level of humalization...!!!!!!!!!!!!

not only kasturi but everygirl think always first about her family..by dhm she comes in dhis world.. so she is absoulately rite on her decision.. 👏

Now 4 Ronak & her feelings towards him... see its take time to adjust with him.. he knows him batter but to live 24hours with someone its diff.. [ & her luv also live in d same roof.. Infact dht's d main hurdle 4 her to adjust with Ronak...] but m sure d way dhy show dhr understanding & maturity dhy will soon catch d rappo bwtn eachother... & dht's d "JEM OF DHIS RELATIONSHIP..." 😛
u r right😊

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: anu93

i agree with you defo..if i was in kasturi's shoes i would defo have done what she did..Choose raunak over Robbie..Robbie's trust on Kasturi was soo weak that it broke on Devika's plots..What guarantee is there that what had happened then wouldn't happen again after marriage??No one can give that guarantee now can they..
Shru di..you stole my words..Im 110 % satisfied with what you said!After what you said main iske sivah aur kya keh sakti hoon?



i mean robbie said he loves her this and that but how come he didn't believe her, or forget about trust, the way he deal with her parents, it was jsut tooo much🤢

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