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Posted: 10 years ago
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Aur expect bhi kya kiya ja sakta hai ekta mata se
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I feel u completely but unfortunately such kids are around us. Most of them become so good at hiding their fears that to a normal outsider it feels like something is wrong. Pschopaths are born sociopaths are raised. In that sense he will turn into a sociopath. I am not saying what CVs are showing is wrong just their way of execution isnt enough. They do also need to show that his parents are doing something about it. I think that is wht Ishita had made statement when she was in jail about them needing to do something about his anger issues.
Also with kids having poor impulse control(ADHD) they act on what they have been influenced into.
Both instances he acted right after PAram instigated him. He did show hesitation both times but unfortunately an adult in his life told him it was ok.
I think CV are doing a great job by bringing such issue to forefront. I dont think mental has been talked about constructively in indian shows. There are so many shades to mind set of a growing child.
Sorry for long post. I hope the cvs do right thing by showing tht he is gonna get the help he needs and support of his family.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Hima-

Hi! Good post👍🏼

I agree.. Adi is only eleven and to show him plotting and scheming that too at this time slot where kids watch the show because of Ruhi and Sravu is pathetic.. sending wrong messages to kids for sure.

About Adi.. I feel he inherited his father's anger and his mother's deceptive tendencies.. he does not know how to control both.. like Ishita said, he does not have anyone to guide him and tell him what is right and wrong. You are right, both his parents love him but unfortunately, Raman is never around him and Shagun is too self-absorbed to teach him anything. But I did think Bala would have had a positive influence on him by now🤔.. but that angle has not been explored.

And now, the way Param is manipulating this boy is disgusting. Adi agreeing with Param's plan to humiliate Ishita though hesitating just a bit only goes to show that he does not know right from wrong. He was NEVER told that to lie was wrong.. he had also lied in the court against Raman before and was encouraged to do so then. So, I can understand why he does not understand that it is wrong to lie. Note that he refused to even apologize to Ishita after getting her arrested. He did it because he thought he was doing it for Shagun.. which is similar to the way he lied against Raman in court for Shagun.. He is only applying what was taught to him by his MOTHER.

I don't think he is a psycho.. he is just confused.. needs to be loved in a way Ruhi is now by both a father and a mother figure.. He has gone through a lot more than what Ruhi went through.. and was simply never addressed of his problems. Here, I completely agree with Ishita.. he needs to be guided.. I feel for the boy actually!

And like you said, he should be taken to a psychiatrist for counselling but even for that, Raman and Ishita should get custody of Adi.. only they can do whatever it takes for Adi to become a kid again and feel loved. I think Ishita will be the one to suggest this too.. that he needs counselling and all.. I see him becoming very close to Ishita one day. Don't want him to despise Shagun but I think it will be better if he stays with Ishita.

Edited: Now that they brought this issue up, I hope they do well with the track and end it properly.. give a message about the need for proving love for kids in marriages ending in divorce.. it is the kids who are effected the most.. so, they need to show how to handle such situations.. Ruhi was one such kid.. but they showed her transition into a love-filled family beautifully.. hope they do justice to Adi too.. he too needs a loving family!
Sorry for the long post😳


Great post! If this track is handled well, CVs would be sending a good message to society on how harmful spoiling a child could be. I just hope they handle it well and Raman-Ishita eventually get the custody fo Adi.

Adi is not an evil kid and I don't hate him. In fact, I hate Ashok, Shagun and Param for influencing him and teaching him the wrong way to live. If a kid does wrong things, the adults in his life are responsible for it, not the kid himself.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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i completely agree...beautifully written post...👍🏼
there is a limit to everything...adi's track is going overboard for no reason and its setting a bad example to the society when such relationships do exist in real life...

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