I've been in Gautams place.

You can call me Jackie :)

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Posted: 11 years ago

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I'm saying this from experience that I've been in Gautams place & it hurts like hell.

Some of u may not feel that cuz uve probably never been isolated in ur life. But when u are in that place then u'll understand how it feels. Letting out emotions is not a joke. And its not easy to always be happy. Gautam has gone through it very strongly. Crying is something that comes out on the side once in awhile cuz its built up. Its better to let it out than hold it in.

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devsriya

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Posted: 11 years ago

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True, if Praneet and Preetham don't want to make Gautam captain then why did they we would make you captain after Upen nominated them. Why telling something and not sticking to that? They will come back to Gautam again if Bedroom group nominates them. Gautam was playing his game and Praneet simply cheated him by giving keys to Dimpy. Gautam's point is correct. It's all about trust factor. Only people who got cheated by friends would know the pain. Anyhow Gautam should not trust anyone including Puneet.

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Sarun_wahifan

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Me too my friend n m glad that gautam is an emotional
Person so he is crying it out. Coz it is way more worse if
U can't vent it out.

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Aleena

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Posted: 11 years ago

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True.. i feel pritam and praneet ditched gautam.. Cuz they did decide to make Gautam the captain.. Par ab phook un mein jag gayi.. Insecure praneet!!! Im sure he never wants gautem to b the captain.. cuz he is jealous of him

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CupofCoffeee

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Posted: 11 years ago

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We all face such situations at some point of time...and its true that it hurts a lot...to get over all the betrayal, insults n humiliation is not easy n Gautam is going through it everyday...we atkeast hav our near n dear ones around, but being in BB house where no one is ur frend n no one truly feels for u...is pathetic!

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Diya Poonith

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Posted: 11 years ago

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I can very well understand what Gautam is going through, Ihave been isolated by my friends so many times for NO fault of mine, I Used to sit alone in my class. No one would talk to me, It was the worse experience I have gone through, I used to cry so much, If I would nt have cried I would have got into depression, I was so much Hurt, So I can Imagine what Gautam is going though, and I cannot blame him if he cries out his emotions

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MsAnu

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Posted: 11 years ago

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every time gautam cries..i feel emotional too ...fake samajh mein aata hai .. and gautam is not fake ..

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Aashmi

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Even I've been in Gautam's place. And it is really hard to be in such a situation whereby everyone is just trying to pull down. But it is then only when you know who are your real friends or you got to learn that there is no such thing as friendship. But in the end, you emerge as winner.

In BB8 case, many people advocated that puneet will ditch gautam one day or the other, but praneet and pritam did it first. Last time gautam forgave puneet and pritam for the captaincy task when he came to learn about these two intentions in WKW. He was kept on forgiving praneet every time on puneet's request. But i guess it's enough now. You can give second chances not anymore.

Gautam needed this, to realise the truth about his "close circles" and their hidden agendas or dark motives.

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liberiangirl

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Posted: 11 years ago

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I've personally not been through anything like this, and God willing, I hope not to.

But I have a very close family member who is going through exactly the same situation. She goes through hell on a daily basis. Her every action is ridiculed, undermined and found to be wrong. Since it's my family, I know the truth and I know that she's not totally wrong always. Yet, other members do not see it. She tries to be strong for the most part, but breaks down every now and then and I think that's good too. She is so hurt...so depressed...now she just doesnt care about anything or anyone in the house. I guess that's the defense mechanism that's she built to help her cope this situation that she is in. She too was extremely hurt, upset and unforgiving when she felt that people who she was very close to, didnt stand up for her when she needed them to. It's tough...very tough to see what's she's going through 😭

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ImSTS

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Frankly speaking it needs lots of mental strength to bear all this, I hv gone through all this in my school days so I know how difficult to sustain like this! & Gautam feelings aren't fake, even if he is not a good guy or playing game any person will cry in such situation!!
hats off to him to bear all this!

everyone is not Krk or Dolly Bindra!

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