Do you ONLY support a man's OR woman's 2nd marriage? or any GOOD one?

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Telugu

@Telugu

Beginner

Posted: 11 years ago

In good cases and if there is real reasons to, I know some people only support a man's 2nd marriage, but the change people misled by the fights of rights. And shock, some people support a woman's 2nd marriage, but not a man's!

If you are one of them, you are still a narrow minded and you have to grow up.

What about you? Do you support anybody if they marry 2nd marriage (when after the divorce and no cheating) OR only one side?

Edited by Telugu - 11 years ago

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Neha Jain

@Adr_Rush

Sparkler

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Posted: 11 years ago

I though its the women who dont really get to marry a second time! Here there are some people who believe that a man can do anything he wants, marry again if he wishes too but if a women thinks of doing that it she gets considered cheap and people start gossiping that the women didnt love her first hubby thats why she could think of remarriage... Thats how it was earlier and the proofs were superstitious beliefs like "Sati" However times have changed for better 😊 though there hasnt been a complete turnover

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 11 years ago

It's not the question of supporting a remarriage blindly.

Support depends on whether it is happening for the right reason or not.

If a man who feels that his current wife is not fulfilling his expectations and there fore goes for a remarriage - NO SUPPORT WILL BE GIVEN

If a woman who has been looked down by her husband and abused emotionally and abandoned yes her remarriage to an able good man who knows her worth will be supported.

Support for remarriage depends on the fact whether it is happening for right reasons or not.

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seetha74

@seetha74

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

Giving divorce and getting out of a relation ,which involves both body and mind of the concerned persons ,and the commitments they have with in the family frame as a unit until then ...will disturb them at core level and will have it's impact on their lives for long !

In Anandi and Shiv's case ...yes .. the isolation she faced from Jaggiya ,the loneliness she felt with pain, Shiv watched from the close quarter--Shiv is a systematic person ,he won her heart first ,then eliminated Jaggiya from the arena ...then patiently waited for her consent ...owned her completely !

Regarding the general outlook ..

Nothing has progressed. There still seems to be a great deal of stigma surrounding divorce and the subject remains taboo in most social circles. What happens in a marriage is private -- what happens in a divorce is public ,should remain private as well !But unfortunately ..it never ...mostly ,society makes the woman as an easy target if she remarries for her private reasons !

Yes ...the outlook is slowly changing ...but within the four walls ,never an easy task in extended families like KB family !She is still facing the trauma ...those psychological upheavals she faced in her earlier relationship ...difficult to adjust in the new environment with questioning looks from every quarter ...never an easy task to any woman to adjust in second marriage !The new development of Nuclear families are in a way giving required space to her ,to adjust in her own pace !

The emotional upheaval is a day-to-day roller coaster. Divorce is a monumental life experience much like a marriage, birth or death esp ..to a woman !

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Avyakta

@Avyakta

Rocker

Posted: 11 years ago

Whether to marry second time. Or not it is pure individual choice. Others will support him/her is not a matter of concern. Times are changing and we have to change our attitude accordingly . In earlier days family support and sympathy of society was there , but now ,in the modern world ,one has to live according to their wish ,and convenience.

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Telugu

@Telugu

Beginner

Posted: 11 years ago

I asked this to show the riverse-attacks in the society.

I know not all people are same. But some people think really reverse.

I mean, some people accepts a woman marring 2nd marriage, but not a man's even if the man had no faults in his first marriage failure.

Male, or female, people should not judge one-side. If a man was innocent in his first marriage failure, society should support his 2nd marriage. If a woman was innocent in her first marriage failure, society should support her 2nd marriage.

If anybody sees only one side, it is not called a development. Agree?

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Do you ONLY support a man's OR woman's 2nd marriage? or any GOOD one?

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