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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: MonalisaJ

There was nothing too much...😕

Even I hug my friends and say them "I love U" thousands of times but that doesn't mean that I have any affair with them..😆
C'mn we need to grow up...😕
I don't think Ishu is at fault..😊
And raman was ri8 in his place too.. its just the situation which made him think like that...
But "WE" should not act as if a married woman hugging a guy is crime.. 😡😡
And her dialogue about leaving hubby and bacha was justified too.. bcoz we very well knew what she meant...
I seriously don't understand why people always blame ishu.. just bcoz she is a woman.??? 😭🤢
This is pathetic...😭



sorry.. If any of u find this offensive..
Iam just writing down my POV...
No offence...😊



Ppl would have said the same thing if Raman was hugging Mihika every chance he got. Yeah, we can say they are friends, but looks very weird. Its good if you are cracking such double meaning jokes to do it in front of family than in private coz if you are having such conversations on the phone and alone, anyone overhearing would have misconstrued it. If you flirt in front of family like Bala- Ishu used to do then even Vandita never minded it or misunderstood it.

Please dont bring Feminism into this.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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no one can be as dumb as ishita
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: DivAniTanni

Why you guys are so hyper about that scene?
Friends do say I love you, friends do such fun. It's normal.
I have real example of this as my friends.



Friends don't ask friends - marry me?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sanaasr



Friends don't ask friends - marry me?


She said it in a joking way. Everyone says stuff like that in a joking way. Like when someone gets angry and they say I am going to kill this person. They aren't actually going to kill them. Should we arrest them?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: skh37


Thank you so for saying this!!! I hug my friends all the time and even say "I Love You" to my best friend. Love isn't only used to express a romantic bond with someone. Everyone is going crazy about this scene.


Me too!! Thank you!!
There are plenty who see this for what it really is and thankfully there are still a few left here who are voicing it and haven't just left the forum in resigned disgust.
2 FRIENDS hugged, one said i love, the other one pulled her leg saying ...marry me, having earlier congratulated her by calling her mrs ishita raman kumar bhalla. Of course the cvs are not going show puttar seeing and hearing that earlier bit. Otherwise where would there be the drama?
Some ppl just get more enjoyment out of taking sides and vilifying one character and idolising the other than actually watching a show. Set section of indian soap viewership. 🤔What intrigues me is...dunno about pakistani serial, but you just don't get this with western soaps ANYWHERE in the world..😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: shazam1



Ppl would have said the same thing if Raman was hugging Mihika every chance he got. Yeah, we can say they are friends, but looks very weird. Its good if you are cracking such double meaning jokes to do it in front of family than in private coz if you are having such conversations on the phone and alone, anyone overhearing would have misconstrued it. If you flirt in front of family like Bala- Ishu used to do then even Vandita never minded it or misunderstood it.

Please dont bring Feminism into this.


There is nothing WEIRD about it... It is common these days..
I can quote u many examples...
It's just the thinking of people...
@double meaning joke-I don't think ishu and mani ever cracked any in private.. they always discuss something useful ...
Lastly Feminism.. well.. there is no need to bring it.. it already exists in our mindsets .. this is a fact which cannot be denied.. neither u nor me can deny it...
People always blame a woman even if she is not at fault...

Don't feel offended... but this is what it is...
Edited by MonalisaJ - 11 years ago

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