Mera's musings Oct 22 2014

Perfect post mera

But this is a show

So by the end of this track

Raman would be feeling pathetic and sad for doubting ishita

And ishita would go scot free

And in shows heroines are never wrong

Originally posted by: --mancityfan--

Perfect post mera

But this is a show

So by the end of this track

Raman would be feeling pathetic and sad for doubting ishita

And ishita would go scot free

And in shows heroines are never wrong

Loved your post mera!!!

well said mera.

i see some part of one movie "anubhav" wth padmini kolapure and shekhar suman in this show. especially padmini's character

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Today was Raman realization day...that Ishita is no longer the woman he thought her to be, though a part of him believed she was incapable of such behavior. She was lying to him. The evidence was stacking up against as proof and Raman saw it as a rerun of his past ...just a different decade with a slightly different flavor and a different woman.🤪 Absolutely ! What is worse is that he never doubted shagun because he was too in love, but with ishita it's different, he never doubted her because she told him repetitively that she wasn't a liar. Now if he can't even believe that she is not a liar, he can't believe ANYTHING else! Perfect acting by KP. Everyone's heart ached for RKB in yesterday's epi. I had to wait several hours post-epi to start the review.

Poor Ruhi,😔 caught between two parents in a nasty mood. Ishita ignored Ruhi to answer Mani's call? Seriously, what was the urgency that she couldn't make sure Raman and Ruhi had breakfast.

Thank god Bhalla Senior saw the situation and take her out from it. Both raman and Ishita didn't behave like adults with her, and ishita shouldn't have told those 5 flaws of raman. Now ruhi who is usually always supported by her mother, thought she had asked something wrong... IshRa aren't mature towards each other but now even to ruhi they act like irresponsible dummies !

Was Sarika about to flee the country that they were texting non-stop and calling each other in the middle of the night? Even married men who are away from their family don't call iso late at night until it's an emergency. Mr. Bhalla was sitting right there while she listed the five points about a father and none of them were complimentary. 😲Even a newly married couple who are apart even for a brief period, don't call each other this frequently as Mani and Ishita keep buzzing each other. 😕 completely agree, as Gan said in her post it's no gentleman behavior. Also why did he call her "sweetheart"? I don't think Ishita would be on board with that since she didn't even want to put "I&R" in her palm ("yeee ajeeb lage ga!")

Mani saying "i know her so well... she isn't asleep". Well mani , once again you were wrong!

Way to go Ishita!🤔Where is the woman who proudly reminded everyone she was Ruhi's mother and took Raman to task for hurting/toying with his daughter's feelings? She took issue with anyone who did or said anything to poison Ruhi's mind against Raman and Shagun. Where is that woman today who used to assure Ruhi that Raman was the best Papa in the world and loved her very much? Today she was bad mouthing Papa to beti. Where is the woman who claimed in court before a judge, under oath, that her day began and ended with Ruhi her thoughts only about whether Ruhi was being fed her favorite meals, how she was doing and if she is happy. That was an idealistic Ishita who had never spent a full day with Ruhi until she married Raman.

Absolutely👏. My heart went to Ruhi in this scene ! She hardly gets time with her mother and when she does, she ends up feeling bad for having asked a simple question.

She's intentionally driving Raman nuts with the constant phone calls and texting, enjoying that he is jealous of her friendship with Mani. She doesn't have time for a chat with Raman (as he pointed out) but she wants to save his ABGuild post? If Raman wasn't head of ABGuild would his business suffer? Even Ruhi and her patients that she yearns to treat late at night are being sidelined for time with Mani. She needs her head examined. This whole drama is so pointless. Really. Ishita was especially dumb in yesterday's episode. She took a whole day off from work to sit in the car and chit chat with mani. Couldn't they have simply called each other at lunch break? And how she lied to Mihika without a single moment of doubt. Is this really the Ishita we knew, hell bent on truth and honesty? Is it her love for Raman that made her both stupid and selfish?

After flaunting her friendship with Mani in Raman's face she expects Raman to treat her the way she expects? If her Mani mantra grates on our nerves is it any surprise that it grates on Raman's. nerves too. Her self-talk as she watched Raman sleep lacked genuineness in light of her lies and coverups. Lately she have been putting the blame of all her couple problems on Raman's rudeness and insensitivity when she is the one actually provoking all those tensions by waking up to mani's phonecall and sleeping after mani's phonecall. There is nothing genuine about this ishita anymore. Remember her "apologies" to Toshi, she plainly used flattery to manipulate her saas and to get it her way.

I keep on calling her "this ishita" because i truly believe that this is NOT the ishita this show started with. Beginning of september was the resurrection of Ishita from the independent strong woman to this typical soap Bahu.

Can CVs end the Mihika-Shagun fake friendship already😕...they gave it a try and it's just not working, so time to move on. Maybe Shagun should see the "haar" picture Mihika instagramed Ashok and that should do it.😕 Today i couldn't even make a cap about that. It's full on BS. Why would shagun accept Ishita to come for a shopping session and right after spit on her back to get at Raman? Nonsense. Shagun has always been a grey character but now she is green+grey+maroon. I don't buy her fake sweetness at all!! Those two (shagun/mihika) will definitely part ways. There will be drama ahead with ashok and the fakest friendship will be ended right away.

Does Ishita really think that Raman never thinks about his own life and only lives to resolve family problems?

A damp pillow means a malfunctioning air-conditioning unit?😲 Ishita better not trade in her dentistry practice for jasoosi. So the a/c unit only had one "dosa" size damp spot and that too only on Raman's pillow?😛😆 STUPID. That was PLAIN STUPID. And her comment : "this is why raman is so STRESSED. He slept under the leaking AC all night!" I wanted to slap some sense into her. If Raman woke up when she touched the covers at his feet, doesn't she think he would have also woken up when the AC was dripping on his face and moved to the other side of the bed?!

Sollikudhutha varthaiyum, katti kudutha saadhamum ottadhu (taught words and packed food won't hold). My mother just called Ishita "asadu" (fool/ stupid) and asked "is this how a woman lies to her husband? She doesn't know how to behave with her husband properly". 😆 Mera's mother is absolutely right! Raman should be the one she was pairing with to solve this problem about Ashok/Sarika. Ishita doesn't grasp the concept of marriage.

Did Ishita really think Raman wouldn't find out she had teamed with Mani to ensure he retained the ABGuild post? This is the guy who didn't care about giving up his presidentship of Delhi Enterpreneur Association, he had his priorities right. How many positions does she want Raman to get under his belt so she can continue her jasoosi? 😕

😆 Also Raman gave up his position of DEA because he was blackmailed and had no choice. He wanted Ishita to have her licence ASAP. But now why would he give up his position? Where is the logic behind that. Ishita and Mani have a few days before the nomination is effective, and they want to solve the problem within this time, so why not involve Raman too? Do they think he'll throw his arms in the air and give up the position? NO. Raman is a fighter, he would have both saved his place and his brother.

Ishita is being everything she has accused Raman of..."insensitive and doesn't care". How come she doesn't consider herself a reason for Raman's bad moods or irritable behavior?🤔 Is she invisible to him?😛 😆 ghost ishita ! She knows that she is irritating him, but she is being self righteous again. In her thoughts : Raman should not mind because she is doing that for him. 🤢

Where is Madhu Iyer when you need her to knock some sense into Ishita or even Bala to set Ishita's head straight (oh well, he's no good at the moment, involved in something shady and hiding things from Vandu himself) Ishita obsessive calls and texts to Mani as if the world would end if they didn't save Raman's post on ABGuild in one word is ... ridiculous! Would the Asian Business World collapse if Raman didn't hold the post? 🤪I don't want to badmouth Mrs Iyer but she is not the one who would knock some sense into her daughter, i think that it's her way of rising her daughter that made her what she is today. So let's not get her involved please!😆 But Bala should be the one here to have a talk with her. And toshi, as a saas, she should tell Ishita not to spend so much time with Mani even on the phone. Or maybe she thinks that Mani is a girl like raman did in the beginning? That whole ABG thing is a mess, i don't want to torture my brain over it anymore.

Ishita doesn't want Raman to find out about her jasoosi with Mani to safeguard his position at ABGuild. so they are trying to save Sarika from Lambu's clutches. Yet again she didn't consider that the senior Bhallas may not want Mani involved in their family matters. She does as she pleases without consulting with others in the family. She's not expected to have all the answers.

Exactly. I was telling this to my friend P the other day : it's normal in indian culture (eastern in general) for family to meddle in everyone's matter. It's the Parivaar that decides everything and not one single person. So in a way, i do understand Ishita being so concerned about Romi and wanting to help. BUT as i said it's the parivaar that decides, they should hold a family reunion, think things out, take a decision and all act towards it. But here Ishita decided she was right so she is doing everything her own way with an OUTSIDER. That's not done.

The only truth that slipped Ishita's lips today about Raman was "I don't understand him"...the rest was a load of lies she told herself. The woman who went solo and ran around town at ungodly hours to welcome pervy Param back home, suddenly needs a long-absent friend to solve a problem involving her brother-in-law that could have been sorted out over time. It's not like Sarika was going to pop the baby out in a week or that her harassment suit would be heard and judgment delivered within days?🤔

Well Mera dear, you have more sense than those dumb cv's! Ishita haven't been the same since the day she decided to bring Param back. At first i was rooting for her because she had Raman's approval but after that she brought Shagun, then sanjana and then i finally understood that things were going downhill...

Some things are best kept private between a couple and not shared with friends esp. if that marriage is not on solid footing and neither takes the time or makes the effort to communicate in a mature way that matters.

I think that ishita doesn't realize that mani goes behind her back and badmouths raman in his face. She tries to tell him not to call her so much but Mani is in his own world and won't listen.

It's an unspoken agreement between a couple that they both honor, respect and are truthful to each other...that's the foundation of trust in a marriage. IshRa are definitely not there yet.

Ishita thinks twice before she shares her feelings with Raman and more often than not talks herself out of telling Raman her concerns and feelings. Yet she's ready to share her private thoughts and feelings about Raman so freely with a long-absent friend who doesn't have a good opinion of her husband to begin with. What does she achieve by putting Raman down to her friend? It doesn't reflect so much on Raman so much as it reflects poorly on her. This is absolutely out of character for Ishita. When she wasn't in love with raman, she still spoke of him in not so bad terms with Bala. But now that she is in love she is basically insulting him when she talks with Mani. What if she learned that Raman was doing the same thing on his side with a friend of his, she would break down and call him insensitive YET AGAIN.But yet she is too insensitive to put herself in raman's shoes.

Shagun was back to her authentic self. A leopard never changes its spots😛. Last time Ishita saw Raman in a car with Shagun and he sold her a pack of lies about his whereabouts. Today it was Ishita with Mani and she was selling Mihika a load of lies and Shagun was privy to it. Thanks to Ishita's lies Raman got an earful of degrading taunts from Shagun about being unworthy of love. They say "what you will for others will show up in your life". If Ashok's plans come to fruition with Mihika, Shagun will soon realize her taunts to Raman have showed up in her life and that her new best "fake" friend was instrumental in turning her life upside down.

👏 that would be the only positive thing about this whole track.

Isn't Mihika supposed to be working with Ashok, so why was she running around town withShagun? Didn't Mihika say she'd marry Mihir once Toshiji was back in town. Well, she's back, so how about getting the punditji to pick a muhurat so they finally tie the knot and let Shagun choose whether to marry or maim Lambu's limbs. MiMi have been postponing their wedding for way too long. As the saying goes "Subhasya shigram" (do good deeds promptly). One word : Plot-holes. Also cv's need to keep some space to create drama.

If this is how Ishita deals with a husband she loves, wonder what she'd have done had her feelings for Raman stayed the way they were when she married him. Anytime Raman doesn't toe the line her instant conclusion is "he doesn't care". She conveniently forgets the things he has done for her. Ironically, i feel like she was a better wife when she wasn't meddling so much in his life than now. She has the "he's so insensitive" tape on repeat. It's tiring my ears.

Ishita took offense the night Raman turned off her phone so she could get some shuteye. Shewas up in arms about it...that she didn't get to save a child from a serious oral infection and yet today she cancelled all appointments to hang out with Mani? Btw, when did she have uniformed nurses working for her?😕 Also in yesterday's epi her phone was on silent. She wouldn't have woken up if it was a patient call. Good job ishita. I think a few days back she just needed a reason to lash out at Raman.

Raman has always been consistent with a nasty past haunting him. What is Ishita's excuse for the secrecy about a business position Raman may not care about if his family life was falling apart? Again, something i was telling my friend P : Raman has flaws too BUT his flaws are the same they were in the beginning of the show while Ishita have totally changed from the beginning of september, that's why it's hard to swallow her wrong doings.

Does every track that is about awakening Raman have to have a flip side (like a dosa) with an Ishita version? 🤔 I liked the flashback scenes because i like to see old raman but really the fact that exactly the same things were happening with shagun and ishita was a bit tacky and unimaginative from the cv's.

Ishita may have a lot of 'splaining to do when this jasoosi blows up in her face. Even her concerns about Raman taking on the world's problems on his shoulders was 🤪 given she's adding tons of it by the day and clueless about even as she goes about town with her impulsive jasoosi. I am not looking forward to this part of the track : ishita desperately trying to justify herself like a fish struggling in 2 inches of water.

I already ranted plenty during LU so I'll let you all vent if you care to about the track here.

Please do add your thoughts.🤗

There are so many things I dont understand in this track. First of all why is Ishita interfering so much in Raman's professional life? I dont think she will like him interfering so much in hers. So far Raman has come up from scratch and attained the position by his own merit. Now its like he cannot survive without Ishita rescuing him and now Mani has also joined in with her 😕. Technically Mani is Raman's professional rival. On a personal level he may be Ishita's friend but Mani himself said that his recommendation for Raman was strictly professional. Now he is bending backwards to save him. Isnt he getting personal now? Would he do all this if it was someone else other than Ishita's husband? And why do they have to hide it from Raman anyways? Is it the first time Ashok has resorted to such tricks? Forget Raman why cant they tell someone like Mihir? After Raman wouldnt Mihir be better equipped and the right person to help Ishita? Why is it necessary that Ishita does it on her own without letting even Mihika know who was always her confidante? And the biggest confusion for me is what did Mani and Ishita do the whole day? 😆...oh i forgot one more question 😆...why would Sarika listen to Mani whom she does not even know? Agreed she did not know even Ashok that much but then he dangled the carrot of justice in front of her. Here Mani expects that Sarika would be convinced to give up her quest for justice just because he is too charming to refuse? 😆😆😆

Damn!