Mera's musings Oct 21, 2014

Originally posted by: felciya

Nice Post.She never had reason to look for the moon back then bec' she's the daughter of Mrs. Fullmoon Light😆. Now Mrs. FL is in Amavasyan(new moon) mode. 😛There was a lunar eclipse on Oct 8/9 and a Lunar eclipse is coming on Oct. 23. Does that mean Sun (Suraj Lambu) will go missing too?😛 These lines are really cracked me I agree with you about Ishita was once very sensible but after Mani's entry she is royally ignoring R&R. Raman has given her full freedom n trust her that doesnt mean she can go any where any time do any thing with out his knowledge. This attitude of her is going to bring lot of problems in her life near future.

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Ishita recently has complained that Raman doesn't understand her, but does she understand him? If she even suspects he's falling in love with her, why alienate him with the ongoing Mani mantra?🤔

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Loved it Mera!! Absolutely loved it... I ranted a lot yesterday, so I will put a lid on it today, until I watch Ishita in an hour... i.e.,

I LOVED the Tamil analogies, she seemed so totally clueless

What got to me was she never chased him downstairs to check what he ate. The whole "kukd kud bhi karenge" was SO FAKE on the terrace, like she was saying "He fasted because he wanted to why is he complaining now?" DT was extremely poor in that shot

Thanks for that Prateek reminder... I guess she has been completely butchered hasnt she?

Originally posted by: mnr123

Apparently the Cvs r showing us that by making Raman jealous Ishita thinks that he will confess his feelings out of jealousy. 😆 But while thinking this Ishita has forgotten that he might doubt her character n this might actually destroy their relationship. 😆

Well cvs might do a turn around n show that Ishita did all this so that Raman doesnt get in problems etc n how Ishita is always right in solving things n Raman is wrong in working out things.

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Episode started off with Tomato Ishita and Eggplant Raman lost in each other's eyes as they were getting ready to break KC fast today...but was it really time for some Eggplant Parmigiana😉...after all Raman likes Italian food😛. A ring-ring from Mani and the mood became a moot point.😕

Ishita is privy to Raman's history with Shagun and has heard stories of how devastated he was due to her betrayal. Shagun had an affair with Lambu right under his nose and left him high and dry with Ruhi when she walked away with Adi into Lambu's arms.😕

Yes Ishita knows about Raman n his past but when was she sensitive towards it? Even when she got Shagun home n Raman yelled at her she portrayed herself as victimized by inlaws n her husband.

Seriously, Ishita is nuts these days. Was it a matter of life and death to answer Mani's calls with such urgency all the time...that she had to teach Mani to make sambar when Madhavi the Madrasi masterchef who taught Ishita how to cook was right across the hall with time to kill on her hands? Raman wondering why Ishita chose to walk away from him before she answered the call was a reasonable one.

A timely word of caution from Toshiji ...also a symbolic message for Ishita to remember not to sour her marriage (add the amchur powder in rajma). What's with Ishita's need to take Mani call again and again while Raman and Ruhi were waiting for their breakfast...it was way OTT the way she runs around clueless to Raman's moods🤔.
I am ok if she ignores Raman coz apparently she married him Ruhi ke liye so that emotional equation or bond with him was never really grown to that level where her first priority will b Raman. But what wrong did Ruhi do that she had to ignore her? Was she trying to make Ruhi jealous too so that Ruhi says ILU to her 😆. This woman prefers chatting over the phone with her best friend than giving food to her child. Even poor Ruhi observed that, for once this woman cud have said m busy to Mani n answered his call later on.

Which wife or husband would tolerate their spouse lying to them? I liked Raman's self-talk " Why is she lying? What was the need to hide her chat with Mani when I never told her not to talk to her friend?"
Exactly if ur friend calls y wud u go to a private place n prefer to chat especially in front f ur husband. We have seen Ramsn lying during accident track n also when Shagun called during Sanjana track where he said Credit card walon ka phone hai. But never seen Ishita lying n the way she gets worked up for lying is hilarious. Clear inconsistency in this character by CVs.

Shagun on the balcony was looking for the moon...all for Lambu's lambi life. She never fasted for Raman and her marriage was short lived too. She never had reason to look for the moon back then bec' she's the daughter of Mrs. Fullmoon Light😆. Now Mrs. FL is in Amavasyan(new moon) mode. 😛There was a lunar eclipse on Oct 8/9 and a Lunar eclipse is coming on Oct. 23. Does that mean Sun (Suraj Lambu) will go missing too?😛
Shagun cant smell Ashok's drinking breath 😆 n Ashok knew Shagun cant ever do anything for any person n she was doing it to show off. Well this couple is also playing the same game as Mihika's - try to trap other person while getting trapped urself. Only difference is Ashok n Shagun r doing it for themselves n Mihika an idiot doing it for her recent Best friend who can anyday kick her for her selfish reasons n then again Mihika will play the victim n get out f the mess.

One glance at Lambu in "mischief maroon with copper trim" robe and we knew he was up to no good. He's getting downright sleazier by the day. Yikes! He was having a roll on his bed with a call girl, drooling over Mihika's "haar ya jeet" picture (crazy idea) and announcing his plans to break Shagun's KC fasting all in the same breath. To top it off he insulted the call girl that she wasn't worth expensive diamonds😲😕😆. This Kodak moment captures Lambu views on women...just someone to use and abuse, who deserve no respect. Who is his mother and did she raise him or did she run away with another man?🤔Why did Lambu want to steal a married woman (Shagun) from her husband?🤓😕
Seriously good observation with Mihika's HAAR. As far as lambu bros n their use n abuse f women kind well there r no specific reasons y people behave in certain ways. Even Shagun uses men to her advantage - Raman through Adi n Ashok through his wealth we dont know how her Dad was n thank god for that otherwise Ishita might have another JJ mission LOL

Lambu's idea of fasting was drinking daru (alcohol)🤔. Holding Shagun in his arms he was ogling and speaking to Mihika, the other paagal aurath from the Iyer family who chose to wear the "Haar" (a hint she's going to lose the game with Lambu?😕) he gifted through an unsuspecting Shagun. Let's hope Vandu keeps her sanity among the Iyer girls. What was Mihika's need to play spider to get the "fly" into her web for the sake of nanad in waiting Shagun? Shagun knows how to handle the likes of Lambu brothers. At the rate Lambu is taking Shagun for granted, he better take cover when she decides to hurt him where the sun don't shine when the sun (Suraj) isn't around to protect his bigada hua bhaiyya.

Lambu's bakwas about Raman using Ishita to get himself appointed head of ABGuild. A classic case of "self-projection". He blabbered enough to sow the seeds of doubt in Shagun's mind about Raman's marriage and nature of Ishita's friendship with Abhi Raghav aka Mani. Shagun drank it up like a thirsty camel.😕The joke was his claim that he wanted to earn his title as head Asia Business Guild with his hard work😆. His definition of hard work is not a generally acceptable one in his case...he only works hard at avoiding Shagun while ogling and itching to get his hands on Mihika these days...some hard work eh?
Shagun noticing new Bakra in town i.e. was nice, I hope both settle down b return back to turkey n leave Ishra happily ever after lol. Ashok if worked even 1% harder than what he does then he can achieve great success looks like Raman was doing all the hardwork when he was Raman's boss n Ashok was always enjoying. Hence he desperately needs a potential candidate (Mihika probably)who can slog n do his share f hardwork while he paints d town red. [/i]

Has Ishita lost her mind?😲🤔 She promises to protect Raman and his happiness with what...her lies? She saw Raman's "yellum kollum vedikara" (exploding) expressions and still didn't realize he was bothered by something that may have happened earlier in the day?

She didn't seem to be bothered by her lies to Raman today. Where is the woman who spoke the truth to her fiance Prateek about sharing an auto ride with Raman Bhalla months ago? There was no need to hide that she was speaking to Mani. For a man burnt by Shagun's lies in his past, trust is fragile. Her actions picked on the scabs of his emotional wounds and he's bound to react for his self-preservation.
Yes she herself knowingly is playing with fire n then when her hand gets burned she too is gonna play victim card like she cried yesterday after Raman said we r just together for family. It was funny that Raman mouthed sbout 7 janam n said next 6 janams i will manage myself I was like so next 6 janams too he is gng to marry Shagun n Ishita LOL. Well these two care a lot about Past n Future but forget about Present.

An important lesson for a couple to learn early on in a marriage is to know when to speak and when to be quiet. Lies however trivial have a way of rotting at the root of a relationship and the marriage of convenience that Raman and Ishita entered into, trust is very fragile Ishita knew it early on to pay attention to Raman's moods, but recently she's OTT with her constant mani jap that she can't seem to function if she didn't answer Mani's phone calls every time he rings. Agreed they are friends and that's great, and Raman's okay with it though he finds it annoying and jealous at times. These days Ishita gets more phone calls and texts from Mani than she got from Raman in all these months of marriage.🤔

Ishita seems to be operating in a parellel universe than the one Raman is living in, since Mani came to town. She lacks what in Tamil is called "Ingidha gnanam" (intuitive/instinctive knowledge) when it comes to her relationship with Raman these days. At times she gets a kick out of knowing Raman is jealous of her friendship with Mani but she doesn't know when to quit and turns around and blames him...that he doubts her. Why is Raman expected to tune into her moods/state of mind and understand her when she fails to tune into his...after all women are more emotional beings and men more pragmatic/practical in their approach to life. CVs better salvage her character sketch sooner than later.😕
WORD! Well Cvs r portraying Ishita as that woman who is overly understanding towards people like Param (man who tried raping her), Shagun n Sanjana etc but lacks understanding factor towards Raman y is he getting angry when he was mellow n sweet a while ago etc LOL. Cvs want to show us that Ishita has no emotional depth when it comes to analysing Husband when it comes to others I mentioned above she analyses them as if they r an open book. I dont think CVs r really in a mood to salvage her character as such.

If Shagun(Auspicious) and Mani (Time, Bell, Ring) were to hook up they would be the "Auspicious Time" or "Auspicious Ring" couple😆. Maybe Raman can give Mani some words of warning about his ex-wife. Will Ishita approve of her dear friend getting cozy with husband's ex...she herself brought a drunken Shagun to Raman's bed to sleep it off...so anything is possible in tele land.😕
it will b good Imo if Shagun n Mani marry, coz Shagun will know that what is it like living with a Man who doesnt give u attention n Mani will know that its easy to call somebody else a failure but when it comes to urself managing a marriage is not easy. Sadist thought from my dide but really love that LOL.

Please add your thoughts.🤗