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The track seems to be coming further is a redemption track. Agreeably, Raman has done loads for which he has to work really really hard and repent all his previous mistakes.
This redemption is about what he has done in the past with ishita .. its about a man who says i love u to a girl & then backs away the next moment .. this is about a man who calls her 'fat' calls her naagin ..
this is about a man who was about to slap her one day .. this is about a man who called her a gold digger ..this is about a man who 3 days after his wedding was found drunk in the bed of his ex wife ... this is about a man who marries a girl one day & the next day talks about a divorce if they do not get custody of his child ... this is about a man who never answered her when she asked him .. u love Shagun ..
...Credited to Ruby
This is what he will have to redeem himself for. Even though he has always cared for Ishita he has never been vocal about his feelings. Agreed, actions speak louder than words, but for a person like Ishita, who has already been burnt once, words will hold a lot of importance coz that is when it'll be believable for her.
Raman has come a long way from the Rvan Kumar he used to be, Ishita knows that too. Thats why she had started seeing the man she cud love in him. She herself said that u arent the Raavan Kumar i knew, u are a new and improved Ishita's Raman.
Last few episodes we saw Raman trying his best to be nice to her, show his care for her, not coz he wants to prove to Mani that he can be a good husband, but coz he doesnt want any reason for Ishita to be not happy with him and this relationship. We all know all this insecurity of his stems from his past where even though he showered lot of love on his wife, she left him for someone else.
The poor guy tried but failed miserably. Got insecure with his wife's growing dependency and fondness for her friend and with that again came out his Raavan Kumar side which led his wife to tears. Once realizing his mistake he wanted to say sorry for that and repent for it but ended up doing a bigger blunder. He didnt think that the bit about his accident will affect Ishita so much! Which, whatever be the reson behind it, was a big mistake.
We later saw Ishita being angry with him on these points. She has every right to be angry after his "harkate" and i'm really glad that she gave him the silent treatment. Raman again tried showing his care but in her anger and hurt she was unable to understand his thots behind the actions. In further episodes we may see Raman still trying to woo her and trying to make her happy and forgive him. But will that be enough??Shud Raman alone struggle to set their relationship right????
Ishita also has a woeful past. Her certain actions today result from that. So as with Raman her actions are also justifiable in their own way. Like why she is so insensitive about being called a liar or a cheat. A lot has been said in the forums regarding each of their behaviors and people have agreed on the fact that both are right and wrong in their own way. So shudnt both of them try to repent for their mistakes and understand the other??
Ishita always calls Raman rude and insensitive which he is sometimes. But that same insensitive guy knows what most of her insecurity is about without her even saying a word! He has always helped her heal. He gave him Ruhi, always highlighted the fact to her that Ruhi is hers- whether by sending Ruhi to her during Param- fiasco by going against his family or by many times clearing that She is Ruhi's mother not Shagun!
During Bala and Vandu's anniversary, when Ishita was hurt and upset due to Shagun's story he understood that it was due to her insecurity as a woman (she didnt say anything but he understood!! We all praised Raman that day) and he healed her in is own way for that.
Ishita has always been the more mature,understanding and sensitive one of the relationship and she knows alot about his past and can realize his insecurities. But this time she didnt think about them. She didnt understand what effect her idolizing another man had on him. She needs to realize what she did was not right (whether unintentional). He has helped her heal her wounds, but she, she PLAYED with them!! In some way that was what had caused all this.
What I expect further from this is that Raman will keep trying hard to make it up to her so Ishita shud help him heal too. And that will happen when she gives due importance to him and understands what he is trying to do. She shud tell him that she accepts him the way he his, and loves him for that. In my opinion that is what will heal Raman! Being Accepted finally by the one who matters to him the most.
One other thing that i really want to happen is Mihika to tell Ishita what she witnessed in the hospital when she was in the ICU. That "insensitive" man was all shattered. I had expected CVs to really use the fact that Mihika was there and witnessed him all broken. But now Mihika madam is busy with Ashok and Shagun completely ignoring her Akka, Jiju and the fact that this is about their Mohabbatein not Ashok and Shagun's!!!
I'm just hoping that all these things are shown in the further episodes.
Sorry for the really long post. A lot of things had been going on in my mind. Wud like to know if I'm making any sense here and if anyone feels the same.
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