Originally posted by: rivya
Himu et all,
I dont hate Bani yet. I know you would argue she is doing all this on AD's instigation, but you have to start to put yourself in the place of the Bani who lifted the veil and saw JW under the burkha, yet kept her faith in him. You have to think like her, standing in the criminal stand, hoping to get some sort of support from her husband, but he goes ahead and declares her mad without blinking his eyes even once. You have to think of her being led to the MA, again looking for answers on the faces, in the eyes of people she called her family. You have to think like the woman who gave birth to her kids only for them to snatched away from her. Again, she had hopes for her husband's support but got nothing but a blank stare.
She may have been wrong all along but did nothing that criminal to be treated as she was for that one week.
I do sympathize with JW and his heart break, but I cannot overlook what Bani went through.
As for AD's role, yes he did instigate her against JW only, but then to Bani's eyes through all the trauma, it was JW who was the perpetrator.
Anyways, I can understand our anger towards Bani, but please do not forget what Bani went through in order to be what she is today. Maybe it is about time, Mr. Blackmailed opened his mouth 😉
Rivs
ps BB I am doing what I can to support you...now u r on your own to support Bani. 😃
Rivu
Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i wish kreatives could understand what you meant in that line.
Loved it honey...mwahhhhhhhhhhhh
ok coming back to BB......😆
Rivu
i agree that Bani has gone through a lot in her life with Jai walia but her faith, conviction in him was wrongly timed, dont you think.
A wife is suppose to believe in her husband and his capabilities. If she had decided not to forgive jai walia for killing her mother accidently, i would have supported her but then she forgave him for that
what came next was horrible. she did not trust his capabilities of hadling his well earned business and property. she decided to take matters in her own unexperienced hands and blew the whole thing out of proportion. what happened next??
it gave repto a chance to molest The jai walia who lost it afterwards. if you can understand bani's pain, so can you understand what Jai must have gone through all those months when a scum of a person Pia and other extras like sahil could easily blackmail him, when bani's lamb pushkar who never had enough courage to even stand on his toes in front of Jai could come and hit him like a third class drunkard for no fault of his. you can understand his pain when his mother like Masi cremated him alive.
you should understand what stakes he were playing at when he refused to accept pia's child even when he knew bani might never conceive again. his manhood was challenged exactly an year ago and then this blow could have tormented any man's patience but jai resurfaced from all that. he told bani that he dont want his heir if bani isnt the mother....i think thats a very bold and courageous step for any man to take in this male dominated society.
At least bani has her own reasons to justify all her so called revengefull acts what about Jai walia???
he is considered a loser by almost everyone for keeping mum and letting the show run the way bani wants it. why o why?? cause he loves her.
cause he wants to see her happy even when that means his destruction.
Rivu, i personaly believe that The divorce alimony fiasco triggered a chain reaction almost as destructive as a real atom bomb, something which could have been preveted than trying to control it afterwards.
and i do feel bani is responsible for that.
Himali
PS: i hope u remember what we chatted last night....😉 i am still with you if you call my munnna a monkey or i call Bani Bhains.😆😆
Edited by himali_kokate - 18 years ago