Minisha showed dignity- and kept a cool head

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Posted: 11 years ago
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i first thought that minisha was faking the story about her conversation with Arya before coming to big boss. And everybody called her a lier.

But today proved completely that what she said was true. Arya discussed a strategy with her, to play closeness in front of the cameras in big boss. hold hands and hug etc. he even offered to talk to her boyfriend who he has met, to probably assure him it was only an act. minisha refused as she was not comfortable. and this is what she told Diandra. that was it

she said she know him on the outside of Big Boss house. so obviously they must be friends or even acquaintances. she never exposed the level of their friendship. romantic or other wise.

true minisha spoke about it to diandra. and may be she shouldn't have. but that does not make her a lair. Arya comfirmed this and respected her refusal. as he told salman.

many of big boss contestants are from the same fraternity. so obviously they meet each other at some point or another.

but there was absolutely no reason for arya to get personal and reveal a personal relationship of the romantic kind. between them. period.

his behavior was out of spite and pettiness. that she called him Thali ka baingan. Arya got a pure case of verbal Diarrhea . and reveled way to much then what he should. and that was not a cool thing.

and this is not about minisha being a woman. it is about not reviling your personals relationships past or present in public and that to on national television in a mud slinging match. just to clarify something that did not need any clarification.

But I truly salute minisha for handling it an a dignified manner. by refusing to play the blame game. she didnt play the woman card. and take the matter further. now that's class.šŸ‘

PS :mind you i'm not a big fan of Minisha. but i have enough wisdom to give credit where it is due

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MsAnu thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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yes ..no guy should ever kiss and tell in the first place ..Salman correctly told Arya that he is immature
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Arya did not ask her to fake romance. All he asked was that whether his hugging create problems in her personal life they have had a history. Not to forget he had a valid reason for it as well.
Before you say his question implies he was indeed looking for a romantic angle then that hugging and holding hands wala ques was completely logical. He wanted to be sure his closeness won't affct her relationship since even he has a friend who is insecure knowing their history. You r going to stay with your Ex under the same room...things could create problems btw the personals lives of the two.
This is something guys ask in real lyf too when they need to interact wid their frnds who are in a relationship to avoid any problems.
There are bf's/guys who are protective and don't like other guys being close to their gals even if it is in a friendly manner, whats so wrong is a guy asks a gal about this. When in real life something like this is called looking out for a friend thn why is this such an issue inside the house ?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Right! Arya revealed something really personal... He shouldn't have done so...!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yes, I did not like Arya discussing all that on TV. He just stretched too much. Salman was actually going to bajao Minisha but dumbo Arya turned the tables. I thought Salman just wanted to say ke dont discuss outside things in the house and was indirectly supporting Arya but Arya is so stupid.
And what he said about womens respect. Oh really Arya in Karsihmas case you supported her talking about womens respect, ab khud pe aaya to palti mari.

Wow

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Posted: 11 years ago
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And what was that about you can check the itemized billing of my mobile Phone, it will be at my office and home and blah blah blah. It was so immature of him, he shouldn't have revealed so much.
Now, he looks like a fool in front of everyone.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: njani123

Yes, I did not like Arya discussing all that on TV. He just stretched too much. Salman was actually going to bajao Minisha but dumbo Arya turned the tables. I thought Salman just wanted to say ke dont discuss outside things in the house and was indirectly supporting Arya but Arya is so stupid.

And what he said about womens respect. Oh really Arya in Karsihmas case you supported her talking about womens respect, ab khud pe aaya to palti mari.

Wow


Where is his DAAYRA now, he crossed the boundary and is feeling the heat himself. He showed the middle finger on national TV and threw his MIC in the swimming pool.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I do not completely blame him. Minisha should not have start it on the first place. I hate how they expect woman should be respected and all that. Woman also needs to think twice before opening up a subject.
Arya has been vey sweet with Minisha since day 1. He has not said anything against her but Minisha started a topic. I knew when Arya will come to know he will not take it easily and she even knew that people are watching whatever she has been saying and Salman will ask for clarification. She is not dumb.

I will not blame Arya for anything. If Arya shouldn't have said anything than Minisha should have think twice before opening her mouth.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well its clear how fake he is..filmy..immature i ws shocked he already has a gf..and still.wanted 2 do tamasha wid Suku and Mini..šŸ˜•šŸ¤¢
Yes Minisha ws quiet but m sorry she ia.not dudh ki dhuli either..on national television after getting humilated..any1 wud say stuff to save their phase but looks like she didnt have anything 2 say..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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What is Minisha's problem now? She was the one who brought up the whole issue up in the first place. Had she kept her mouth shut - none of this controversy would've taken place.

IS she regretting that her romantic history is now current affairs - well she should've kept that door and the one on her lips locked.

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