True love asks for scarifices

Does sacrificing your own feeling of love for loved one's happiness, the right or viable thing to do?

Take references from bollywood, one of my fav's movie Saagar, Kamal didn't express his feelings till the end for the sake of Dimple's / his friends's happiness... shouldn't in his case a chance to express his feeling be taken, you never know 😃

Originally posted by: raj5000

Does sacrificing your own feeling of love for loved one's happiness, the right or viable thing to do?

Take references from bollywood, one of my fav's movie Saagar, Kamal didn't express his feelings till the end for the sake of Dimple's / his friends's happiness... shouldn't in his case a chance to express his feeling be taken, you never know 😃

When you have competition like Rishi Kapoor , it is better to make the sacrifice then be rejected...😛

The sacrifice does make one seem like a hero whereas had he not sacrificed, he could well have been jilted at the alter. Sometimes, it is better to sacrifice than to push and be left with nothing in hand.

More often than not, the sacrifice happens only when one realises that he/ she is not the chosen one..... and will be eventually cut out in the end.

Originally posted by: lighthouse

When you have competition like Rishi Kapoor , it is better to make the sacrifice then be rejected...😛

omg 😆😆 hey Rishi falls short of Kamal, Kamal has attraction hile Rishi is like mitti ka pulta.. lols atleast in movie. But agree on high level thought, cann't match competition back off and keep quiet. 😊

Originally posted by: greatmaratha

The sacrifice does make one seem like a hero whereas had he not sacrificed, he could well have been jilted at the alter. Sometimes, it is better to sacrifice than to push and be left with nothing in hand.

More often than not, the sacrifice happens only when one realises that he/ she is not the chosen one..... and will be eventually cut out in the end.

Woooooooo Hoooooooo absolutely agree...

2nd Para I don't agree..sorry.😳 even though one realizes he/she is better off takes a back seat for loved one's happiness.

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Sacrifice for deserving ones or else go for the challenge and fight the competition 😳

Deserving ones = my best friend or sis who might be in love with same person than I would refrain from showing my feelings. If not than I will put my cards on the table and let the guy figure out if he is worthy of me or not 😊 I am never afraid of rejection. Atleast I can say I tried 😃

"Sacrifice for deserving ones or else go for the challenge and fight the competition 😳 " Thats the spirit👍🏼, never give up and go for it, what will be worse then loosing the loved one, that anyway one is loosing.

Originally posted by: raj5000

Woooooooo Hoooooooo absolutely agree...

2nd Para I don't agree..sorry.😳 even though one realizes he/she is better off takes a back seat for loved one's happiness.

Eeeeeeeeks anshu.... how can u 😆😆😆

Do u truly believe that someone is so altruistic enough to give up without a fight if one has confidence in the love of the other... if one knows that the other loves him / her only and anyone else will only be a substitute.

If someone does that, isnt it more like giving up without a fight..... or rather surrendering without rationale. I mean why will you give up something/ someone who is yours because of a (mis)placed sense of some feeling 😆

Will you, if you loved someone and knew she loved you in return, to the exclusion of others, still forsake your love in favour or another guy, who may be tall, dark, rich, handsome, intelligent and everything else a girl wants, merely because YOU think HE is better for HER! Where is the individual choices here?

Originally posted by: greatmaratha

The sacrifice does make one seem like a hero whereas had he not sacrificed, he could well have been jilted at the alter. Sometimes, it is better to sacrifice than to push and be left with nothing in hand.

More often than not, the sacrifice happens only when one realises that he/ she is not the chosen one..... and will be eventually cut out in the end.

Maratha Manoos, You stole my words and saved me from typing.

Raj ji, Sagar ke baad bhi movies bani hain. Aap abhi bhi waheen atke huyen hain. Isn't your fav. song 'Chera hai ya'. 😃

Originally posted by: greatmaratha

Eeeeeeeeks anshu.... how can u 😆😆😆

oops... "More often than not" not got me here.. still confused lolsss never mind..

Do u truly believe that someone is so altruistic enough to give up without a fight if one has confidence in the love of the other... if one knows that the other loves him / her only and anyone else will only be a substitute.

Yup people do, in situations when they understand the grief loved one and his/her will face after taking such a decision.

If someone does that, isnt it more like giving up without a fight..... or rather surrendering without rationale. I mean why will you give up something/ someone who is yours because of a (mis)placed sense of some feeling 😆

😆 Answer is" Circumstance in Life" make you take this action.

Will you, if you loved someone and knew she loved you in return, to the exclusion of others, still forsake your love in favour or another guy, who may be tall, dark, rich, handsome, intelligent and everything else a girl wants, merely because YOU think HE is better for HER! Where is the individual choices here?

Lols am tall dark and handsome factoring that out... would say for someone's better future and peace of mind/happiness eventhough if she loves me, might be willing to sacrifice. might be is a clause can change depnding on situation lolss😉