Rudra Horrible Behavior - Page 2

Originally posted by: DiyaS

I agree, I found his behaviour unforgivable today ... I don't know why Myrah is still in love with him.

His character has shown no growth at all ... in the name of a bad past, and his own tragedies, he behaves like a complete jerk. His behaviour comes across as completely insensitive and very immature ... blaming Myrah for the entire fiasco when his own decision was in a huge way to blame for what happened.

Myrah has shown growth in a few short weeks ... Rudra has regressed back to where he started.

If Myrah is not Paro, I do not want a Myrah Rudra ending ... they will never be happy together - or rather, Myrah will never be happy with him. I would much rather she walked away with her fiance.

Originally posted by: Zeeliciousxo

His bad past can only be used as an excuse for so long - it no longer works on me. What right does Rudra have to control Myrah? What gives him the right to hold and drag her around like that? What gives him the right to put her down just because she isn't Paro?

First of all, it's damn right stupid that Myrah is in love with this man when she's only known him for a few days, and that too when during the first couple of days she hated him. Yes, she can be attracted to him and the love she sees in his eyes, but there is no way she can be in love with him...she knows nothing about him. How can you love someone you don't know? Paro's love was sudden but she knew Rudra by the time she fell in love. Myrah does not know Rudra, and after he behaves with her in such a rude and insensitive way, it's crazy that she still believes she's in love with him.

Honestly, Rudra is a jerk. Paro needs to come back so he starts acting like a human again. His behaviour used to be understandable in the beginning as it was one of the main things that drove his animosity toward's Paro hence it drove the story, and I guess it's being used to drive the story now too but it's just annoying and most of us are over it. It's time Rudra learns to act like a gentleman with everyone, including with people he dislikes or is upset with.

Originally posted by: DiyaS

Agree with both your points ... I don't understand why Myrah is in love with Rudra at all ... she barely knows him, she got carried away seeing his love for Paro, that was one of the most attractive things about him ... and she also got carried away by his own actions ... his coming close, his care, his behaviour that night when she was not in her senses.

Now she knows the reason he was behaving so hot and cold with her ... she can understand him better after learning the truth, she may even respect him for his deep love for Paro ... but how can she be in love with him?

As for Rudra, I agree completely. There is only so long that he can get away with using his tragic past as an excuse for being such a complete jerk. Dhruv has lost his mother ... and Dhruv behaves much more maturely than Rudra does. Rudra's animosity towards Paro was understandable, and so was her love for him ... there was a proper story behind it. His behaviour with Myrah makes him look like an insensitive, self-pitying jerk ... the makers really need to tone it down, and show some growth in him. He can't get away with lashing out at other people all the time ... that is really immature behaviour. I could still excuse his first tongue lashing ... even though he went over the top there as well, with his lecture on why he hates Myrah and she can never be Paro ... dude, she was never trying to be Paro, it was you who was looking for Paro in her !!!

But the way he went after her when she left and dragged her back ... without the basic courtesy of telling her why he was doing it ... that was completely out of line.

CVs, please show some growth in Rudra ... it's very hard to empathise with his pain when he behaves like a jackass. He's a grown man, a father ... this behaviour is ridiculous.

Originally posted by: kidrauhlforever

First of all I don't understand why people say myrah isn't in love with him but she's inlove with the idea of being in love with him.

Remember how Paro ran to the BSD office and told rudra to marry her? That was instant love just because she got to know he was the same guy in the bus?

People used the same words for her. That how could she fall for him so instant and now same is being used for Myrah. Why is always female lead bashed?

Rudra can say all shit but everyone will support him because he had a past. Do we know about Myrah? How can we judge her? Yesterday Rudra blasting Myrah about Love was so disgusting of him! He knows she love him but still he said those cruel words?

I'm not taking his shit. I won't support him in his this attitude.

Originally posted by: Zeeliciousxo

Nobody on this thread is supporting Rudra and his behaviour, everyone is against it.

And saying that Myrah is not in love with Rudra is NOT bashing the female lead, please don't just jump to conclusions. I think Rudra is a jerk AND Myrah is not in love, and yes I can think both things at the same time, just because I think Myrah is not in love does not mean I don't think Rudra is a jerk.

Myrah is not in love with Rudra because she knows NOTHING about him. She has known him for less than a week. When Paro fell in love with Rudra it actually wasn't in just in an instant, and cannot be compared to Myrah's situation, because Paro knew Rudra by then, she knew so much about him: his strengths, his pain, his fears, his vulnerabilities, his family, his love...and Paro wanted to make the little boy inside Rudra happy. Paro knew SO MUCH about Rudra. She was in love with him.

Myrah supposedly fell in love with Rudra because she saw love in his eyes...well news flash, that love was for his wife anyway, and falling in love with someone solely because you see love in their eyes is not real. Otherwise, please, do tell me...what exactly does Myrah love about Rudra? What does she even know about him that she can love? I really would like to hear about what Myrah's love is based on - because to me it has a very weak foundation. Myrah's love is not love but a school girl crush.

And if you look around on the forum, MAJORITY of people are not supporting Rudra anymore. His terrible past was an understandable excuse in the beginning of RR but now nobody is buying that crap. And yes we can judge Myrah, we don't need to know her history to judge her, her nature/personality and actions are enough. Just like how Rudra's actions and personality is enough for us to all say that he is currently being a big fat jerk. His history cannot be used as an excuse, he is not damaged anymore. It's been seven years and he is a grown man and father. He needs to act like it. Oh and I'm sorry, but what did you expect Rudra to do when he saw Myrah dressed in Paro's clothes? Hug her? Tell her it's ok because she's in love with him? Rudra's first outburst could be justified though it was a bit OTT, but it was his second scene with Myrah that has made us more angry - the scene where he forcibly takes her back to the haveli. Rudra had no right to hold Myrah like that or behave with her like that.