If let's say suraj is kidnapped, by right, the investigators/police will try their best to get the suraj released and they will try to negotiate with the kidnappers...the life of the kidnapped person/hostage is as important as the nation...just because suraj is a husband of an IPS, doesnt mean he has to be sacrificed to prove her as an efficient police officer, that's not a way to show you put nation above family...will she do the same if a small kid is taken as a hostage instead of suraj?