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Hey ladies and unki gentlemen,
Ok so we've seen Tara attempting to regain MJ's memory for the past two days, firstly with the recreation of the darkroom and now the toy horse called Maria. But why hasn't these moments helped MJ remember about his past life? Why is he reacting so violently to Pari getting a small cut and misunderstanding Tara?
Last night's episode he overreacted because internally he's very confused as who to believe and what the intentions of everyone in his life are. For example, he thinks Tara is Sia still and he doesn't know why this lady would be going on about him being her MJ and them having a relationship - Tara is challenging his perception of reality and his way of defending himself is by angrily pushing Tara away and trying to dismiss the possibility that he's living a lie.
But why have Tara's plans not worked so far?
1. For Balli, Tara is still Sia and for that Tara needs to firmly establish that she isn't Sia which I feel may happen when MJ overhears Mannat maybe talking about how Sia is dead. That will make him realise that Tara is in fact Tara and what she's saying holds some truth.
2. Tara in my opinion is trying too hard and she's not thinking clearly about this. She needs to let him ease into the house so that when she does try to make him remember, he doesn't react so rudely towards her. She should have let him be her BG for a little before going in straight to make him remember.
3. I think she is using the wrong factors in MJ's life to bring his memory back. She is trying to remind him of himself when he has no recollection of himself. If you remember, the only flashbacks MJ remembers are his interactions with Tara and not anything about himself. She needs to find ways to remind him which is very specific to their relationshio as husband and wife.
* Namak wali chai which only they liked to share and drink
* The wall talks, this is how they used to communicate with each other because MJ was an adiyal tatou who wouldn't listen to Tara otherwise so she should try and communicate with him in this fashion somehow.
* The pearl and the handkerchief were two items which reminded MJ of Tara and the two objects he would always carry around with him - bring a pearl and handkerchief Tara and place it in MJ's pocket.
* The nicknames! In MJ's flashbacks, he remembers a girl calling him Baalon ki Dukhan so Tara needs to start calling him MJ's most adorable nickname "Golu ki Papa" - probably not now but maybe in an argument or in a banter she will let that nickname slip and he will remember something.
Tara's attempts were commendable but she needs to attack more closer to the heart which are his memories with Tara so c'mon Tara you can do it!
ALSO KALAVATI AND SM MURDER CASE RE-OPENED.
Finally this murder case is being investigated but who re-opened the case? GURUJI MAYBE.
p.s Tara needs to look at this paper article and show it to MJ that this was our family killed by Kalavati and he'll have a FB to when his family was shot dead because he has had that FB when he saw the gun.
p.p.s What will happen tomorrow? Will MJ misunderstand Tara even further? Today was a filler because I think tomotrow some dhamaka will happen!
Shegufta xx
Ok so we've seen Tara attempting to regain MJ's memory for the past two days, firstly with the recreation of the darkroom and now the toy horse called Maria. But why hasn't these moments helped MJ remember about his past life? Why is he reacting so violently to Pari getting a small cut and misunderstanding Tara?
Last night's episode he overreacted because internally he's very confused as who to believe and what the intentions of everyone in his life are. For example, he thinks Tara is Sia still and he doesn't know why this lady would be going on about him being her MJ and them having a relationship - Tara is challenging his perception of reality and his way of defending himself is by angrily pushing Tara away and trying to dismiss the possibility that he's living a lie.
But why have Tara's plans not worked so far?
1. For Balli, Tara is still Sia and for that Tara needs to firmly establish that she isn't Sia which I feel may happen when MJ overhears Mannat maybe talking about how Sia is dead. That will make him realise that Tara is in fact Tara and what she's saying holds some truth.
2. Tara in my opinion is trying too hard and she's not thinking clearly about this. She needs to let him ease into the house so that when she does try to make him remember, he doesn't react so rudely towards her. She should have let him be her BG for a little before going in straight to make him remember.
3. I think she is using the wrong factors in MJ's life to bring his memory back. She is trying to remind him of himself when he has no recollection of himself. If you remember, the only flashbacks MJ remembers are his interactions with Tara and not anything about himself. She needs to find ways to remind him which is very specific to their relationshio as husband and wife.
* Namak wali chai which only they liked to share and drink
* The wall talks, this is how they used to communicate with each other because MJ was an adiyal tatou who wouldn't listen to Tara otherwise so she should try and communicate with him in this fashion somehow.
* The pearl and the handkerchief were two items which reminded MJ of Tara and the two objects he would always carry around with him - bring a pearl and handkerchief Tara and place it in MJ's pocket.
* The nicknames! In MJ's flashbacks, he remembers a girl calling him Baalon ki Dukhan so Tara needs to start calling him MJ's most adorable nickname "Golu ki Papa" - probably not now but maybe in an argument or in a banter she will let that nickname slip and he will remember something.
Tara's attempts were commendable but she needs to attack more closer to the heart which are his memories with Tara so c'mon Tara you can do it!
ALSO KALAVATI AND SM MURDER CASE RE-OPENED.
Finally this murder case is being investigated but who re-opened the case? GURUJI MAYBE.
p.s Tara needs to look at this paper article and show it to MJ that this was our family killed by Kalavati and he'll have a FB to when his family was shot dead because he has had that FB when he saw the gun.
p.p.s What will happen tomorrow? Will MJ misunderstand Tara even further? Today was a filler because I think tomotrow some dhamaka will happen!
Shegufta xx
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