Real Feelings - Verbal or Actions?

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Do we understand caring / good deeds untill expressed in words donot represent the right feelings?

For example - One does deeds or actions that displays the respect and love towards a person VS verbally communicating how much a person respected?

Debate : Does your actions reflect good feelings as compared being verbal about it? Yes / No?

Feel free to ask me what I mean here, assuming its understood.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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actions speak louder than words.. but only sometimes in this fast world! Don't forget the action but add words too.. - that's my thinking.
eg. buy roses and also say " i love u sweety" simple.
don't just say yet do nothing either.

it's like the wedding vows, not only "you do" but you also say "I do" 😆
Edited by mermaid_QT - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

actions speak louser than words.. but only sometimes in this fast world! Don't forget the action but add words too.. - that's my thinking.
eg. buy roses and also say " i love u sweety" simple.
don't just say yet do nothing either.

it's like the wedding vows, not only "you do" but you also say "I do" 😆

...and also...no gifting those things that you already desperately needed in the first place....like getting a new car and pretending it to be your wife's birthday present when you know very well ki purani car ki dhajjiyan udd chuki hain aur nayee toh laani hee thhee.....can go on and on on this one😡

Edited by Gauri_3 - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Gauri_3

...and also...no gifting those things that you already desperately needed in the first place....like getting a new car and pretending it to be your wife's birthday present when you know very well ki purani car ki dhajjiyan udd chuki hain aur nayee toh laani hee thhee.....can go on and on on this one😡

OMG each birthday aane ke time wo beechara Hubby ka kya haal hoga?😉

best gift is dimonds ....my friend told me that...cos duplicates avilable😆 😉 😛

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Actions alone are not enough. They also have to be verbalized at times too. We all love to be recognized for what we do. It affirms our actions and feel actions have not gone unnoticed. Personally I feel they go hand in hand.

Edited by Dabulls23 - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Actions alone are not enough. They also have to be verbalized at times too. We all love to be recognized for what we do. It affirms our actions and feel actions have not gone unnoticed. Personally I feel they go hand in hand.




well said dabulls 👏 👏 👏 i agree with you on this.
Edited by raunaq - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Some express a lottttttttt some express very little..
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Actions alone are not enough. They also have to be verbalized at times too. We all love to be recognized for what we do. It affirms our actions and feel actions have not gone unnoticed. Personally I feel they go hand in hand.

That would be twice the gift...😛 .. It is impossible for us to be recognised and rewarded ceremoniously the way movie stars do in an award show.

In a perfect world..Actions speak louder then words because it takes more effort then to just say it...

After all we are heightened version of ourselves..😉

Edited by lighthouse - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: lighthouse

That would be twice the gift...😛 .. It is impossible for us to be recognised and rewarded ceremoniously the way movie stars do in an award show.

In a perfect world..Actions speak louder then words because it takes more effort then to just say it...

After all we are heightened version of ourselves..😉

You Betcha. Thanks Praveena I take that as compliment 😃 Feel great for your post which is an act and verbalization with recognition 😉 😛 So double gift to you too 😃

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

actions speak louder than words.. but only sometimes in this fast world! Don't forget the action but add words too.. - that's my thinking.
eg. buy roses and also say " i love u sweety" simple.
don't just say yet do nothing either.

it's like the wedding vows, not only "you do" but you also say "I do" 😆

😆

Anshu wo bechari kab tak tumhari adaain dekhi gi ...... say it now 😆

Edited by Morning_Dew - 18 years ago

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