Originally posted by: dsr11
vani,
@bold
she knew about the abuse but she didn't think that it is a big deal. as you said, sojal is dumb. that is the reason why she might have thought that it is okay to make abhay beat jyothi as a revenge against anjali, who used to abuse sojal then. she might have equated abhay beating jyothi to a mother/mother-in-law punishing a daughter. she does care for people though. whenever a family member was suffering, like when anjali's feet hurt for not wearing chappal or when shlok/aastha had an accident, she was worried for them. she definitely cares for varad and kavya.
if mansi thinks her relationship with varad is right, she should tell that to sojal and kavya. if she is hiding it from them, she cannot be right. she may not be a bad person otherwise but she is selfish to put her convenience above others needs. it is convenient for her to not marry varad and enjoy the freedom but still get all the love and attention from him. sojal's life is not that simple and hence her irritation. mansi is expects to spend time with varad just like sojal and kavya! how is she better than sojal?! sojal is truthful at least. she speaks her mind without thinking and doesn't fake to be nice.
Rekha, I didn't know she knew about the abuse. ...if she did know then and still told abhay,,, then means thst she is thinking that as she herself is suffering from anjali and family ,than so they can too suffer logically correct in her way...must say it is a normal reaction to ppl like sojal,,,,,, but they do really care for ppl sometimes ,,,,, in their own way ,,,,, and yes sojal many times seems to care when they are in physical trouble,,,,, not emotional problem, ,,, as she doesn't think more than themselves . But she definitely cares for kavya and varad ,,,,, only as u said her environment and her not having freedom, and attention ,,, is the problem,,, I think...
Agree to the @bold completely.,,,,,,,,, Mansi is negative and be generous as she is having everything her way at the moment ,,,,, but once she finds that she is not getting whst she wants then varad will have to face the band ,,,, bhaaja,,,, bharaat,,,,,, will then think that sojal is good ,,,,,, as sojal follows all the rules and still is freespirited too,,,,,, only needs to have her way somtimes ,,,,,, then everything will be fine,,,,,