the trust was built (open plz)

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Okay guys I went though a lot of posts today and a lot of people were upset with the blind trust and faith ishita had for raman so I thought I should make a post on what I think . As the title suggests raman built the trust ishita has for him .
Let's rewind on the day they got married it was " sirf ruhi ke liye" ishita was ruhi's mom ONLY but then she became a bhabhi bahu and etc . So raman and ishita were strangers just like when we go to universities and college our roomates are people we don't know like total strangers
With time raman did so much for ishita to begin with is the PARAM case . He proved her innocent so she started trusting him then he did so many small gestures like spending time with her taking her opinions about various things making her feel important joking around and teasing her and confining in her that's where the trust comes from
YHM shows reality . If a man does soo much for ur family like what he did for amma from paying bills to staying in the hospital to getting worried , crying for amma , spending time with her and also he fulfilled ishita 's bet just for her
If a normal person would do soo much ofcourse u would trust him
See what does a person see before trusting : we see the other persons heart, deeds , thoughts and way of living and how that person trusts u basically .
The accident case really brought them closer ( ishra closer ) ishita had all the reasons to trust raman that too blindly its not like she did not get angry she did get angry create a huge fuss but then when she thought about it she realoized that raman is not wrong
A wife never takes her bedroom fight out side the room . Same with ishita infront of ashok and mihika she kept her trust very firm and did not show her doubts like she did when she was in the bathroom alone
Any sensible lady would trust her husband like ishita did :D
So guys the trust was built according to me :D

Feel free to post ur thoughts If u agree with me good if u don't agree also good so post it her and we can get to know viewpoint of each other and increase form activity

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Posted: 11 years ago
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No one agrees with me :0
Did everyone find the trust being out of place n too melodramatic?v
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Posted: 11 years ago
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point to point I agree
I felt it very natural ...a man who is invhis guilt offending behaves like that
and I ppl taking word shut up seriously...
here fr my view he wanted to take control of situation which he utterly failed coz his wife is shooting up with Rapid fire questions
he lost there so he yelled andvhere again Ishita showed her maturoty by being calm coz if she too yells it becomes a street side drama she didnt want to and let her husband ex see tasha... She behaved as a trustful wife who trusted her husband an innocent wife who couldnt listen anything against her hubby and a hurt wife whoz heart got shattered!!!
good post saira
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Posted: 11 years ago
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totally agree.
It's bad that she got hurt in the end for trusting him but in the beginning she had no reason to doubt him.

on the contrary i could say : is she started doubting him right away, i would have felt weird.

Her hurt was justified because it's not easy to see your husband go on a picnic with his ex wife, but it was an occasion to show her trust to him. That's what makes a relationship stronger. Her trust was needed.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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finally ONE SENSIBLE POST in this forum...

both raman n ishita's reactions r justified today...its NOT lik Ishita suddenly started hvin blind trust on him...it ws a gradual process n the current stage where they r it ws NATURAL for her to hv blind trust on him..

Raman he knew he ws hurtin her...he ws playin with her trust n he IS guilty abt all these...bt he din expect things would come in OPEN LIKE THIS...he ws NOT angry on ishu,he ws bein angry at himself for causin all the mess n ultimately makin ishu realise he broke her trust...he feared this situation rite frm day one n when it came today for real-he just lost it..!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Competely agree..
Nyc post...
Ishu behaviour in trusting raman was completely justified...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nikki_Titli

finally ONE SENSIBLE POST in this forum...

both raman n ishita's reactions r justified today...its NOT lik Ishita suddenly started hvin blind trust on him...it ws a gradual process n the current stage where they r it ws NATURAL for her to hv blind trust on him..

Raman he knew he ws hurtin her...he ws playin with her trust n he IS guilty abt all these...bt he din expect things would come in OPEN LIKE THIS...he ws NOT angry on ishu,he ws bein angry at himself for causin all the mess n ultimately makin ishu realise he broke her trust...he feared this situation rite frm day one n when it came today for real-he just lost it..!!


The POV of the original post and rest make full sense. The trust of Ishita towards Raman was built brick by brick. Here is a lady, who went and complained about Raman in the media, now she trusts RKB more than herself. For anyone to move from 1 extreme to another, it's very tough. It takes a lot of trust to trust the same person whom you felt untrustworthy. Now, however, for Ishita to trust RKB back...wow! it's going to a herculean task. As she said in her earlier episode, trust needs to be earned not asked.
One thing that has been bothering me is, why isn't Raman shown as trusting Ishita. Even a tiny bit? In every scene, he does things, that hurts Ishu (from the Param fiasco to Mihir's engagement including the Salsa dance sequence) then explains it to make it right. He didn't trust to entrust the information to Ishu before doing it.

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