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No people it is not abt Raman's care for Adi or Ishita, I am talking abt Raman himself !! It's not to criticize or bash him, just what I am seeing. CVs you have truly created good of mess.
So at the end of the day, Raman is acting wrong, He is getting bit selfish and yes it is human/real. But still by doing all this he has hurt Ishita. Don't show Ishita mahaan, show her as real person too who despite knowing all is overcome by emotions not willing to let it pass. If Raman has made mistakes, show him correcting them. For every second he has hurt Ishita, show him paying for it and bring joy to Ishita. If you have dragged this nonsense for so long and given too much importance to making mistake, same effort must be given to correcting them !!
Now those who want to say Raman is not wrong and it's all okay, it's grey like real; please look at the facts. Not emotion but facts. Raman himself is shown saying he is wrong, he knows whatever he is doing is wrong. Engaging in illegal acts, choosing to hurt every one of his family members. Only person he is helping is Shagun, everyone else he's hurting including himself !
Those who may want to say that's how it goes in real life, that's called grey, easy to judge as 3rd person but be in his shoe and you'll know. Well well I myself was involved in accident at age 14 driving moped. Like any other father, my father too protected me, consulted lawyer in family and all that. But he followed protocol, handled it all legally ! Also after few years me & papa were at odds to extent i left home to live with cousin for a year. But still papa didn't give into my zidd and stood tall on his ground. So yes have been through such phase in life.
Now may argue well it's a show. Then even in show Mr. Bhalla as father was ready to let go Romi when believe he's wrong. So be it argument for real life or reel, we have enough ppl doing right thing. If saying well as father it's ok for Raman to get bit selfish and do this, well if it's okay for Raman to do all this why hate Saghun? She too acted selfish and can say it was to buy better gifts for her son. So in name of close to real or "grey", you can't stretch this too much !! Just accept the facts.
If it's hard to be in Raman's shoe, well how many ppl would like to be in Ishita's shoe? How many those saying Raman is not wrong wud like to go through what Ishita is facing?
CVs, Raman sure is a interesting character. Sure he wasn't perfect and perfect ppl are too boring 🤪 Sure it is very real to show man with faults, who gets hurt, may act irrational and moves forward. Raman was show progressing at good pace, but with current crap he is shown regressing too much. Simply saying sorry after action, saying it hurts me too, I'm guilty doesn't cut it. If guilt alone was enough to redeem ppl, i wudn't have job (work in prison 😆)
I like Raman as a character. Right now he is shown making mistakes. If CVs want to redeem the guy, he needs to learn from his mistakes. Slowly but surely he should learn from mistakes. Those who say in real life this & that; well in real life ppl do learn from mistakes. Besides don't people want to see a hero who takes responsibility for his mistakes, corrects them and emerges victorious !! Who wants to see hero who keeps making same mistakes over and over?
So CVs, please making Raman cry, self talk abt guilt and all is not enough. You have shown him making mistakes and act wrong, well how do you plan to show him acting right? If you have put him down so much, must do enough to redeem him and bring him up in real manner. If at the end you plan to show Raman knew it all and it was his plan blah blah well come up with something new 🥱
Even if you ppl wanted to show such track with drama, I can imagine better presentation. Such track cud have explored Raman's ability to let go of his weakness, Ishita's ability to truly forgive and of course show how "mature" couple may handle the issue together but then forget abt it.
So at the end of the day, Raman is acting wrong, He is getting bit selfish and yes it is human/real. But still by doing all this he has hurt Ishita. Don't show Ishita mahaan, show her as real person too who despite knowing all is overcome by emotions not willing to let it pass. If Raman has made mistakes, show him correcting them. For every second he has hurt Ishita, show him paying for it and bring joy to Ishita. If you have dragged this nonsense for so long and given too much importance to making mistake, same effort must be given to correcting them !!
Yes I understand this is a daily soap and "drama" is necessary but you reach a point it gets ridiculous. Know your audience and realize what they want.
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