Sandhya listened to her heart -when ?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Today Bhabo was telling Sandhya when she had thought about what other's think about. She has always listened to her heart. But I dont know when. Sandhya have always thought about sanskaars, vachans and what not. She was quite a image conscious girl who will go any extent to uphold the so called sanskaar. If she had listened to her heart she wouldnt have married in the first place.
The only person who does things listening to his heart is Sooraj. he had never thought what others will think about him. When throwing Sandhya out, or opting for night college or when walking out , he has always done what he felt right and because Sooraj listened to his heart Sandhya became IPS.

But I liked one thing Bhabo said. Dont worry about victory or loss. Just do the thing. If you dont win it is fine. Get on to next task after that. Yes Sandhya needed that fall back option which the poor girl never had. Not to worry about losing. Only if she is able to handle loss she will evolve emotionally.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

Today Bhabo was telling Sandhya when she had thought about what other's think about. She has always listened to her heart. But I dont know when. Sandhya have always thought about sanskaars, vachans and what not. She was quite a image conscious girl who will go any extent to uphold the so called sanskaar. If she had listened to her heart she wouldnt have married in the first place.

The only person who does things listening to his heart is Sooraj. he had never thought what others will think about him. When throwing Sandhya out, or opting for night college or when walking out , he has always done what he felt right and because Sooraj listened to his heart Sandhya became IPS.

But I liked one thing Bhabo said. Dont worry about victory or loss. Just do the thing. If you dont win it is fine. Get on to next task after that. Yes Sandhya needed that fall back option which the poor girl never had. Not to worry about losing. Only if she is able to handle loss she will evolve emotionally.



yes it was nice and very motivating
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Bhasan was good today according to me... I am not seeing it as bb who always wants her bahu to do everything for her family .. but as a moral support... When someone s depressed its always better if it s shared with others... today it was bb... If Suraj had come before her may be suraj...
Bhasan is temporary ... bb s taking care of Sandy this much as she s the victim for their mistake mainly her son's mistake... Immediately when Sandy wins those tasks nd when something happens that might make her family to get into trouble she will be back to pavilion... Chances are there for K to interfere in Sandy's track via bb or Mohit to get involved in some illegal activities nd get caught by her... BS nt sure...


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Shruthi...BHABHO is Sandys heart/heartbeat 😉 😳 she always listens to her na 😉 May be thats what bhabho is referring 😆 😆
Yet to watch the epi 😊
Edited by Manjuu - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Manjuu

Shruthi...BHABHO is Sandys heart/heartbeat 😉 😳 she always listens to her na 😉 May be thats what bhabho is referring 😆 😆
Yet to watch the epi 😊



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Posted: 11 years ago
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don't know why but i felt today that bhabho gave 'geeta-gyaan' to sandhya, like lord krishna gave to arjun. Her speech reminded me of some words of geeta "Don't worry about the outcome. Don't worry about Victory or Loss. Just do your duty to its fullest. Your way of handling karma will decide about your result." Marvellous dialogues.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Bhabo is a double standard person, from me no pat for her.

She said she can read pain in Sandhya's eyes, but how she failed to read all those pain she gave with MF and LC and so many other things!

She will be always there as per her own convenience!

Also, why Sandhya and Bhabo is becoming a couple?

Why no close conversation in between Sandhya and Sooraj.

It would have been more acceptable if Sooraj was the one comforting her, encouraging her as always he was her shield.

Suddenly Bhabo is becoming the lead and best buddy of Sandhya, her shoulder becoming Sandhya's crying place, totally not acceptable from my side period!!

P.S. Now Sandhya and Sooraj needs to go out for romancing? Thanks to Bhabo for intruding in their private time!!

Edited by NeelM - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Bhabho ws motivating indeed 2dy... sandy needed bhabho only 2 d core
The best thing ws she saying dat it doesnt matter whether she wins or looses...did she really meant what she said??😔
Edited by aroojakhtar - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Only if she is able to handle loss she will evolve emotionally.

She will never evolve emotionally till she gets rid of Bhabho's pressurizing bhoot and take decisions for herself .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Agree with you Shruthi. It is only Suraj who does what he feels right.

Sandhya was maybe before marriage but ever since the marriage, she started doing things to just uphold her parents upbringing or pleasing Bhabho.

The only thing of significance was Bhabho telling her to be brave and move on with her job irrespective of win or loss. This is the first time someone from the family has said it. Otherwise, it is always Sandhya has to win or she is capable of winning.

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