Today's episode compared to real life

When I watched the episode today, I still couldn't understand why there was so much negativity on this forum. I mean, come on, aren't we the same fans that praise YHM for being more realistic than other shows. The reason I say that today's episode wasn't that bad was because CVs kept the feelings and actions of the characters realistic.

A lot of people are saying that they fail to understand Raman's obsession with Adi and that Raman is crazy about Adi for no reason, but there is actually a very similar situation in my own personal life where my uncle is divorced and had 3 kids(2 stay with him, but his first child stays with the mom). My new aunt and my uncle are in love and get along very well (much more than Ishra), but there are times where my uncle does end up hurting my cousins that live with him and his new wife because of his first wife and child. I have seen it with my own eyes that my uncle would yell at my cousins and my new aunt, but my aunt and cousins never argued back with him. One day I asked them why they never stop him and whether he actually loves them or not. My aunt simply smiled at me and said he loves me and our 3 kids equally, but he can't bear to stay away from his child. I asked her why does that matter since he has his other 2 kids with him and all she said was"No matter how much he loves these 2 kids, his heart will always long for that child".She said that no parent is able to stay away from their children no matter how bad or good the kids are. Every since that day, I have compared Raman's situation with my personal life and I find whatever Raman did today was realistic.

A lot of people also felt like Raman should have told Ishita about the whole Shagun situation, but I feel like Raman hid this from Ishita since he doesn't want her to be hurt and broken. In yesterday's episode he was worried about Ishita being hurt by Adi's word and today I feel like he thought Ishita will be hurt and leave him because of what he did.

That's it for my post here, but before finishing off this post I want to say sorry if I have offended anyone here and I also want to say that there is one more thing I wanted to talk about tell everyone about myself since I am new here, but I saved that till the end. I am only a 14 year old teenager and this is a big thing for me to be putting up this post because I have always hated Indian daily soaps and I had never sat through 2 full episodes of any Indian TV show and when my mom would put on a Indian serial, I would avoid it and go into my room and start doing something else, but YHM is an exception to this .I can say that YHM is a show which I don't run away from and most probably this is the only show that I proudly tell my friends about. The only reason I made this post is because this is the only Indian show that me and my friends watch since it isn't like the stereotypical Indian show and I felt like YHM was getting bashed for what is known for: Being Different and I have a feeling that the CVs probably have something different to add to this track.