Reverse Psychology or Emotional manipulation ?

Before the Mala-Rudra track started off, most of us had so much of expectations, this was touted to be the most awaited and important track of the show, and even the first week of this track had garnered a good rating, it saw a jump. But CVs have butchered the show, the characters and mostly the expectations we had, everytime we expect something, they give us the exact opposite stuff. One or two episodes of forced and cheesy Rudra Paro romance, and is that enough ?

Good post DR :)

sorry double post ..

Originally posted by: harshu.sundas

Good post DR :)

This makes me feel that when Rudra's step brother enters, Paro will force Rudra to accept the brother also.🤔

I will just say every female lead is this annoying, Paro has taken the standard to new level. Such a boring character.🥱

agree .. paro is in a way forcing rudea to accept his mother . i understand she wants to make his family complete .. bt still he has faced all those years in emotional pain .. how can they xpect him to forget everything nd be normal .. now too paro is emotionally forcing rudra to accept his mother .. i needs some time ...

lets c what happens next

Originally posted by: DexterRocks

@bold:- ohh that horrifes me already . i hope CVs have some pity on us.

Originally posted by: harshu.sundas

whatever has to happen will happen, hope they give a good end to Mala's track. I want Rudra NOT to forgive her so soon.

Originally posted by: riyaroses

agree .. paro is in a way forcing rudea to accept his mother . i understand she wants to make his family complete .. bt still he has faced all those years in emotional pain .. how can they xpect him to forget everything nd be normal .. now too paro is emotionally forcing rudra to accept his mother .. i needs some time ...

lets c what happens next

Yesterday's episode would have been so much better if Paro had just meant it when she said, she understood that she was forcing the Mala issue rather putting on an act. Rudra was so clear when he said that he remembers all those happy memories but it also comes with the sadness he felt when his mother left. That's the underlying issue here which is not understood by Paro. Yes, Mala was a wonderful mother who filled his childhood with joy. She was a courageous woman who walked out of an painful relationship. But, she also left her son behind in the same abusive environment. Is is so easy to forgive and embrace such a woman back in your life? Its not easy to trust her not to be selfish when there is a crisis. Paro is aware that family is not a priority for him and that he would rather spend time with his BSD colleagues. She doesn't fuss when he calls his father by name or doesn't address the rest of the Ranavats unless necessary. Why does she think that Mala's relationship has to be rebuilt when she accepts his dealings with everybody else in the household. And what is the point of pushing Mala and everything related to her out of his life. Rudra is ignoring her anyway why not just follow his lead and ignore her. He hates what his mom has done so far, but he wouldn't want her to be hurt by Paro's U-turn either. He will reprimand her for being rude because he is a nice person in spite of the gruffness he shows to the world. That doesn't imply he cares about his mother or is ready to forgive her.
I really hope Mala realises soon that her son is not a five year old who can be won over with his favorite food. She made a grave error which turned his world upside down. Its time for her to talk, to apologise for the past and assure him that this time she will stay. She made an effort to talk to Mohini and sort things out. She has to stop piggy backing on Paro and appeal to her son to let her back in his life. She told Dilsher that a child rejecting his mother is the same as rejecting his existence. Well, a mother abandoning her son falls in the same category. When her bad days of marriage were a good reason for her to walk out of her marriage. His bad memories of his childhood are good reasons to keep her out of his life. And for heaven's sake she should spying on her son so much. He needs time to cope, she is not helping by lurking in the shadows. Its plain creepy.
I hope the CVs don't end the track by making Rudra accept his mother. This is an important track which is not working because of the pace. Nobody will expect an estranged son and mother to get back to a normal happy family routine. Emotional scars take years to disappear. And rushing the process will just belittle the pain the broken child went through. The reason people don't relate to Paro is because she gets over things too fast. That may be her character flaw. But it shouldn't become the show's flaw to.

Originally posted by: rithureuben

Yesterday's episode would have been so much better if Paro had just meant it when she said, she understood that she was forcing the Mala issue rather putting on an act. Rudra was so clear when he said that he remembers all those happy memories but it also comes with the sadness he felt when his mother left. That's the underlying issue here which is not understood by Paro. Yes, Mala was a wonderful mother who filled his childhood with joy. She was a courageous woman who walked out of an painful relationship. But, she also left her son behind in the same abusive environment. Is is so easy to forgive and embrace such a woman back in your life? Its not easy to trust her not to be selfish when there is a crisis. Paro is aware that family is not a priority for him and that he would rather spend time with his BSD colleagues. She doesn't fuss when he calls his father by name or doesn't address the rest of the Ranavats unless necessary. Why does she think that Mala's relationship has to be rebuilt when she accepts his dealings with everybody else in the household. And what is the point of pushing Mala and everything related to her out of his life. Rudra is ignoring her anyway why not just follow his lead and ignore her. He hates what his mom has done so far, but he wouldn't want her to be hurt by Paro's U-turn either. He will reprimand her for being rude because he is a nice person in spite of the gruffness he shows to the world. That doesn't imply he cares about his mother or is ready to forgive her.
I really hope Mala realises soon that her son is not a five year old who can be won over with his favorite food. She made a grave error which turned his world upside down. Its time for her to talk, to apologise for the past and assure him that this time she will stay. She made an effort to talk to Mohini and sort things out. She has to stop piggy backing on Paro and appeal to her son to let her back in his life. She told Dilsher that a child rejecting his mother is the same as rejecting his existence. Well, a mother abandoning her son falls in the same category. When her bad days of marriage were a good reason for her to walk out of her marriage. His bad memories of his childhood are good reasons to keep her out of his life. And for heaven's sake she should spying on her son so much. He needs time to cope, she is not helping by lurking in the shadows. Its plain creepy.
I hope the CVs don't end the track by making Rudra accept his mother. This is an important track which is not working because of the pace. Nobody will expect an estranged son and mother to get back to a normal happy family routine. Emotional scars take years to disappear. And rushing the process will just belittle the pain the broken child went through. The reason people don't relate to Paro is because she gets over things too fast. That may be her character flaw. But it shouldn't become the show's flaw to.