Why are we being so negative about Mala

Why are we being so negative about Mala , without knowing her side. I am not saying she is right. I feel she is a human being not a godess. She has her own view, thoughts , needs , expectations , demands , ego and a past that may have forced to take such a step. Abusing her that she had a she had a illegitimate relationship just because she was a wife and a mother is not justified. Because we have accepted rudra having the same relationship with Laila. If he has his own reasons for having such a relationship then why not Mala . Seeing the flashback we know she was not happy with dilsher. But she loved her son and wanted to take him with her. So she is not a bad mother , and this is what paro wants to prove. Paro is a very positive character. She always finds good things in bad , be it situations or persons. This is her nature that makes her special. She feels rudra has his own reasons to have relationship with laia , and this didnot change anything between rudra and her. Now she feels the same with Mala. Little rudra was too young to understand what happened and why this happened. Grown enough to understand , he does not want to . As a little boy he felt betrayed and was always a victim of his fathers anger outburst . It is after Paros entry to their life dilsher wants a complete family. We can see that some where he feels that whatever happened is not only her fault. If it is a broken marriage then both husband and wife are responsible fot it. We can see the guilt to face his wife. However time wiil tell how things are revealed and how paro will make rudra understand the other side of the coin. The best part is rudra is very lucky to have paro as she will not let rudra loose anything , be it happiness , joy , love or his mother. This is destiny and this is what parud love story is all about.

I've given her enough chances but I just cannot connect with her character I'm afraid

Originally posted by: ...Pwincess...

I've given her enough chances but I just cannot connect with her character I'm afraid

is that a serious question?? first of all agreed that she is human being and not a goddess. well part of being a human being is also realizing one's mistakes and repenting for it rather than trying to justify them. mala is all lovey dovey and a big cry baby coz now she has nowhere to go and she just got ditched by her beloved thakur. i dont see one bit of repentance and instead paro's constant nicety is messing up the situation coz she is trying to control rudra and literally force rudra to forgive his mother. basically she is imposing her own ideologies on rudra when she has no right to do so. mala just entered lives of dilsher and rudra at her own will and now she and paro wants that rudra should just forgive her just coz mala wants forgiveness?? did mala once asked herself once that if she even deserves forgiveness for what she did? more than dilsher it is rudra who got hurt in this entire scenario when he was not even at fault. moreover listening to her side of story is already done. she was busy justifying herself last time she opened her mouth to tell her side of story. so sympathizing her is out of question. paro's support for mala is annoying enough right now.

Originally posted by: john909

is that a serious question?? first of all agreed that she is human being and not a goddess. well part of being a human being is also realizing one's mistakes and repenting for it rather than trying to justify them. mala is all lovey dovey and a big cry baby coz now she has nowhere to go and she just got ditched by her beloved thakur. i dont see one bit of repentance and instead paro's constant nicety is messing up the situation coz she is trying to control rudra and literally force rudra to forgive his mother. basically she is imposing her own ideologies on rudra when she has no right to do so. mala just entered lives of dilsher and rudra at her own will and now she and paro wants that rudra should just forgive her just coz mala wants forgiveness?? did mala once asked herself once that if she even deserves forgiveness for what she did? more than dilsher it is rudra who got hurt in this entire scenario when he was not even at fault. moreover listening to her side of story is already done. she was busy justifying herself last time she opened her mouth to tell her side of story. so sympathizing her is out of question. paro's support for mala is annoying enough right now.

Originally posted by: psonali

What's your take on rudra and laia relationship . I really disagree with you that paro is trying to control and force rudra to forgive Mala. What sheds doing is asking a chane for Mala to put her words. She asked rudra to open all his emotions , anger , betrayal , to her. Let her know that what hewent through. How he feels. Demand a answer from her . Fight with her . And listen to her what she has to say .For me whatever she is doing is for rudra . She has seen his pain . She knows that the wound can be healed only by his mother. Though paro is soft towards Mala her first priority has never changed , rudra.