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Posted: 11 years ago
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This might turn the tables purab might Mu bulbul .
Truth will be dragged much longer creating problems for abhigya .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mages



I am glad that you have moved on and happy ...thats what life is all abt...unlike my cousin who lost his love on his wedding day to death...he lost his fiancee on his wedding day to her...in a road accident...a few hours before marriage...its 3 yrs and he has not moved on yet...neither he wants to get married to anyone else...its painful to see him like that...he fakes his smile and the pain is evident in his eyes...he is so reserved in nature...he doesn't even share his feelings to his parents...its all hidden in his mystery heart...

loosing the person you love is not easy...it bleeds the heart...thus we all could understand purab's pain

sometimes I believe with friends and family support...one can moved on...but purab is surrounded by people who is either blind in emotions or not fond of him...or takes advantage of his goodness...with such people around him...its difficult to move...the emotional person he is...he is craving for love

purab is reserved in nature...thus he shares his happiness to everyone but not his pain...a person like him who is a one women's man...he loves one...he will die for her only...its tough to move on since there is no support ftom anyone to heal his pain...but I hope he moves on in life...its not easy to see the women you loved more than your life with another men...its painful...I don't want purab to suffer like this...

as alfor abhi...he is not going to be negative towards pragya...since pragya is equally as strong as him...they are going to have a cute nhok-jhok after martiage that will lead them on the path of true love


Oh, gosh, sorry about your cousin Mages. I really hope he eventually finds happiness in his life. Dealing w/the death of a loved one is hard & it can really take a toll on one's life.

Having the support of friends & family is crucial, especially during these times when u feel your life is crumbling but you're right, there is quite a lack of this support w/Purab 😭.
Edited by edabella - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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The problems that Purab is facing are mainly because of he kept three important people in his life in the dark.
First Abhi:
Abhi and Purab have shared everything and time and again Abhi has told Purab how much he trusts him and how much he believe Purab will never betray him. When Abhi proposed the idea of Aaliyah's pairing with him, he could have politely refused saying he didn't look at her that way. He didn't, although he didn't seem to be in love with her. He had one year to tell this to Abhi, he still didn't. And later when he started falling for BB, he should definitely have told Abhi. Had he told earlier, Abhi would have been mad, but not this mad to throw him out of his life.

Second Aaliyah:
She had every right to know that Purab did not want to marry her. She had even more rights to know when he developed a relationship with BB. But Purab had almost forgotten her. Had Aaliyah been in the loop for the whole while, she wouldn't have come across this vicious (can't vouch for her though given her wacky nature). Nevertheless, she needed to know.

Finally BB:
BB should have known his situation. He should have told her about Aaliyah, his promise to Abhi for sure before confessing or at least after that. Had BB known earlier through him, she would have stood by him now. She would have understood his "majboori". She would have at least been nice to him even if she didn't want to continue with him.

I feel bad too looking at Purab suffering. But I feel a lot of it is his own making.
At least now, he needs to gear up. He needs to face people and fix things. He needs to help himself now.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: tiaradeol

The problems that Purab is facing are mainly because of he kept three important people in his life in the dark.

First Abhi:
Abhi and Purab have shared everything and time and again Abhi has told Purab how much he trusts him and how much he believe Purab will never betray him. When Abhi proposed the idea of Aaliyah's pairing with him, he could have politely refused saying he didn't look at her that way. He didn't, although he didn't seem to be in love with her. He had one year to tell this to Abhi, he still didn't. And later when he started falling for BB, he should definitely have told Abhi. Had he told earlier, Abhi would have been mad, but not this mad to throw him out of his life.

Second Aaliyah:
She had every right to know that Purab did not want to marry her. She had even more rights to know when he developed a relationship with BB. But Purab had almost forgotten her. Had Aaliyah been in the loop for the whole while, she wouldn't have come across this vicious (can't vouch for her though given her wacky nature). Nevertheless, she needed to know.

Finally BB:
BB should have known his situation. He should have told her about Aaliyah, his promise to Abhi for sure before confessing or at least after that. Had BB known earlier through him, she would have stood by him now. She would have understood his "majboori". She would have at least been nice to him even if she didn't want to continue with him.

I feel bad too looking at Purab suffering. But I feel a lot of it is his own making.
At least now, he needs to gear up. He needs to face people and fix things. He needs to help himself now.


Thanks for this reply Tiara. I agree, a good chunk of the reason as to why Purab is suffering is his fault but at the same time I feel bad for him & I just hope the CV's don't give him a bad fate due to all this. At the end of the day, like Abhi & Suresh, he too deserves to be loved. Gosh, I know I was hella sympathizing w/Purab in this thread but now that u mentioned how he kept Abhi, Aliya, & Bulbul in the dark, I feel like I have an overall more accurate view about exactly how much Purab himself is at fault. I think Purab should just move on & not repeat whatever mistakes he made but I don't see him movin' on anytime soon, especially movin' on from Bulbul.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: edabella


Thanks for this reply Tiara. I agree, a good chunk of the reason as to why Purab is suffering is his fault but at the same time I feel bad for him & I just hope the CV's don't give him a bad fate due to all this. At the end of the day, like Abhi & Suresh, he too deserves to be loved. Gosh, I know I was hella sympathizing w/Purab in this thread but now that u mentioned how he kept Abhi, Aliya, & Bulbul in the dark, I feel like I have an overall more accurate view about exactly how much Purab himself is at fault. I think Purab should just move on & not repeat whatever mistakes he made but I don't see him movin' on anytime soon, especially movin' on from Bulbul.


Edabella Dear,

I totally understand why you would feel pain about Purab not receiving love. In these family oriented Indian TV soaps, female leads always are the good and right characters. Look at Pragya- It's easier to stand by her. She will hardly go wrong. If there are females with flaws, they are portrayed as vamps. Male leads are generally flawed. Not just flawed but stupid pea heads. Female characters are more author -backed than males.

Out of the three flawed males in this soap, everyone has their own pick. Whoever you choose, it's hard to stand by them. Because the creatives will have them do silly as well as atrocious things. I choose Abhi out of the three. It's because I appreciate his impulsive, passionate nature and go-getter kind of attitude. But then, for the same things he receives a lot of bashing on this forum. I do have my heartache days like you. When you choose something, you have to stand by it, hmm? Gosh! It's hard.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well, fortunately on this show, Ekta & co (CV's) haven't seriously butchered any of the male characters yet but I have seen a few male characters on her show getting ruined quite badly & I feel bad for the fans who reallt liked these guys- for ex. Jai ("Kasam Se"), Prithvi ("Kaise Ye Pyar Hai), & Arjun ("Pavitra Rishta"). Just hopin' Ekta & co. don't go this far & ruin any of our KB heroes.

. This forum is not too bad when it comes to bashing but yes, I have heard some things that I don't agree within regards to Suresh especially. One of the matters I am thinkin' of is the anti-Surul stuff. I am just finding it unpleasant. For ex. Like I am having a hard time wrapping my head around how all of a sudden age difference matters w/Surul but not Jai & Bani (Kasam Se) & Raghav & Kalpi ("Ek Mutthi Aasmaan"). Hearing Suresh being called uncle bothers me. Anyways, w/Suresh who is my deary by the way, I think it's not reall bashing that I have issues with since he usually doesn't get bashed on the forum but it's more people attitude in regards to certain things having to do w/him like shipping him w/Bulbul for example.


I like all three of the heroes on KB & in terms of AT's I actually am more active on the Suresh/Faisal one for a couple reasons. This topic post u made really had me bringin' out my emotions for Purab- typing them out. Although there are AT's for different characters on this show, a good chunk of the time, I find it easier to post on a topic post rather than an AT for a character, & I think it's mainly because a topic post is more specific so it's easier to gather my thoughts & specifically write about the topic so bring on the Abhi topic posts Tiara 😃.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Even am thinking y did she need to lie
Being married nd not P sista
I don't think the MU wl end soon

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: tiaradeol

The problems that Purab is facing are mainly because of he kept three important people in his life in the dark.

First Abhi:
Abhi and Purab have shared everything and time and again Abhi has told Purab how much he trusts him and how much he believe Purab will never betray him. When Abhi proposed the idea of Aaliyah's pairing with him, he could have politely refused saying he didn't look at her that way. He didn't, although he didn't seem to be in love with her. He had one year to tell this to Abhi, he still didn't. And later when he started falling for BB, he should definitely have told Abhi. Had he told earlier, Abhi would have been mad, but not this mad to throw him out of his life.

Second Aaliyah:
She had every right to know that Purab did not want to marry her. She had even more rights to know when he developed a relationship with BB. But Purab had almost forgotten her. Had Aaliyah been in the loop for the whole while, she wouldn't have come across this vicious (can't vouch for her though given her wacky nature). Nevertheless, she needed to know.

Finally BB:
BB should have known his situation. He should have told her about Aaliyah, his promise to Abhi for sure before confessing or at least after that. Had BB known earlier through him, she would have stood by him now. She would have understood his "majboori". She would have at least been nice to him even if she didn't want to continue with him.

I feel bad too looking at Purab suffering. But I feel a lot of it is his own making.
At least now, he needs to gear up. He needs to face people and fix things. He needs to help himself now.



Didn't he try to say? He tried to say to everyone

:To Abhi

:To Aaliya

:To Bulbul

:To Pragya

But who cares? Who listens to him?

Everyone in dis show other dan Purab r keen in giving lectures and he is the one to listen n suffer..dat's all

B4 Bulbul entering his office n life..he don't know dat love is imp. For marriage..so he decided go things like his frnd said..but later falling in luv with Bulbul, he understood frnship is not the only thing essential for marriage

And after falling in love with Bulbul, at dat time he is at ek boond happy enjoying his love..SORRY.. BECHARA..He didn't even get time to enjoy moments of his budding love

wen did he get time to speak..all incidents rushed suddenly opening gateway to hells FOR HIM

Even if none of these incidents happened too, they wud probably shut his mouth b4 he say anything saying'' U r my best buddy..u'll never break ur promise..u did many sacrifies to me..so do all thru ur life..do wat I say ok''

'O Purab darling..u r my obsession..let our marriage happen faster'' collar tight

'Someone cheated my sis..u won't darre cheat me r8?'' again collar tight

It's indication dat dey'll kill him if he's supposed to not do like dey want

Even a Pet is treated better dan Purab

'Dekh Purab..now my marriage tension..don't dare to come to our house and create nuisance..Bulbul will talk late''

When when he die?

The thing is he don't want to hurt anyone..so sweet to hurt others..but his surrounded ppl r not as sweet as him to not hurt him..y don't they kill him..rather than killing every day with tension..Bechara..no smile..no happy..at 21yrs only became a roasted egg by everone..they r eating him recycling

Everyone though wedding isn't quite happy but late enjoy their marriage..

But PURAB..A LOST SOUL ..WANDERS STILL IN DARKNESS SEARCHING FOR NEVER FINDING LOVE

Wen I was started watching KB..the first person attracted me is Purab..the main reason 4 watching..at dat time I didn't know dat he is the victim n sufferer of dis serial n CVS N Ekta..even Gopi Bahu too didn't suffer dis much..she atleast have someone with him..Khanaji..Vidya



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