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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: jyoti06

I loved the kiss moment the way Paro planted that kiss on Rudra's cheeks and shuts him up indirectly 😳 and then the way Rudra expressed his pleasant shock standing like a statue for few minutes with the tea tray as first time probably someone was successful in taming the lion with a kissy 😛😆 but thats it , other than this kiss scene the episode overall was a bit blaahhh for me


Right after the kiss , Rudra was back to his usual self blasting Paro for taking Mala's side as usual and Paro was back to her usual self too trying to compare her past situation with Mala ; How on earth Paro can compare two situations 😕 ; Rudra was himself a victim in Mala case whereas in Paro's case , Rudra was her saviour as he knew she was the victim in hands of Tejawat ... both r totally different scenario as rightly pointed out by Rudra when Paro was trying to compare both scenarios ... Yesterday only I was happy to see Paro questioning Mala but today again it seems Paro goes and stands on Mala's side


Paro need to realise that Rudra needs time to forgive and accept Mala and unless Mala comes out clear with her side of the story , things wont happen overnight ; I understand Paro wants everyone to come together and live happily ever after which is a noble thought from her end but that cannot happen overnight , it will take time and she need to give that time to Rudra instead of daily forcing Mala onto him


Rudra clearly said that he brought Mala back in haveli only because of Paro which goes onto show Rudra's token of love and respect for Paro 👍🏼, so I feel Paro too should respect this decision of Rudra and stop forcing him to accept Mala for sometime and let Rudra take his own sweet time to accept her

Like I said other day , I m a PaRud shipper and so the day I feel Paro is right and Rudra is wrong , I will take Paro's side and the day I feel Paro did a blunder while Rudra is right , I will take Rudra's side 😃 .. Today I felt Rudra wanted to make Paro realise that whatever he did , its for her and he was even pleasantly shocked with her kiss but his later outburst came because Paro once again tried to force Mala's acceptance over him ... Paro should stop discussing Mala with him for sometime and let him take this decision on his own 😊


Also I expect Rudra to make upto Paro tomorrow in a grand way now that he overheard Maithili and Paro's conversation and saw how Paro was feeling a bit down after he yells at her 😭 ; As we saw in SBS , I guess he will give her the mangalsutra and a kiss in return to make her feel good and hopefully during this moment , Paro will again not bring Mala chapter in between 😆😳


Overall like I said episode was a bit blaah with too much of Mala-Mohini rants which actually had no conclusion because we still dunno Mala's back story properly ... So the only worth watching bit was PaRud kiss followed by Rudra yelling at Paro again and then the Maithili-Paro interaction which Rudra overhears ...

Jyoti, that was a great post!👏👏👏 And I totally agree with you that other than that kiss there was nothing much to watch.
But I have one point to make about paro in yesterday's epi. See when there is a family feud dating to long back when Paro was not in the picture, how can Paro expect to bring the family together again or hope for that "ideal family where all are at ease"? Being a relative newcomer in this family she cannot take on this officious attitude that she will try to set everything right. Even if she says "we should all be like an ideal family at harmony" it would be wrong coming from her mouth considering her age and the age of the elders.
No matter even if she is a well-intentioned female lead, there are times when people need to sort out their issues between themselves and will not welcome or react well if someone else much younger tries to butt into their affairs without full background knowledge of their issues.
For example, if in reality we have a daughter in law of a family where for nearly 20 years they have had some bickerings, how will the elders in the family tolerate the new daughter in law to come and say "we need peace here". If I were in that situation I would just tell the daughter in law to keep to her limits and not get into things she does not fully know about!
Paro should limit herself to helping Rudra handle his situation in this mess, but beyond that it looks too nosy for her to be getting into the affairs of Mala, Mohini, Dilsher and Chacha! And it is wrorse when the new daughter in law takes sides in such a situation without fully knowing what happened exactly so many years ago.
Sometimes the characters in a serial go beyond what reality allows and it looks odd when you compare it to reality!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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thanks dear 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: skanda12

Jyoti, that was a great post!👏👏👏 And I totally agree with you that other than that kiss there was nothing much to watch.
But I have one point to make about paro in yesterday's epi. See when there is a family feud dating to long back when Paro was not in the picture, how can Paro expect to bring the family together again or hope for that "ideal family where all are at ease"? Being a relative newcomer in this family she cannot take on this officious attitude that she will try to set everything right. Even if she says "we should all be like an ideal family at harmony" it would be wrong coming from her mouth considering her age and the age of the elders.

thats exactly my point too .. she really does not know the dynamics of this family and she knows how Mohini is .. then her whole mission itself is something impossible and even if she makes it possible , things wont b smooth sailing because Mohini will definitely hv her clashes with Dilsher and Mala along with Rudra ... so the hum saath saath hai concept here cant work ...

From Paro's POV , I feel she just has this fairytale in her mind because she lived her life like a orphan and so mayb wants to see her sasural all together ..

No matter even if she is a well-intentioned female lead, there are times when people need to sort out their issues between themselves and will not welcome or react well if someone else much younger tries to butt into their affairs without full background knowledge of their issues.

true .. hope Paro realises this and stops trying too hard and in the process messes her own married life
For example, if in reality we have a daughter in law of a family where for nearly 20 years they have had some bickerings, how will the elders in the family tolerate the new daughter in law to come and say "we need peace here". If I were in that situation I would just tell the daughter in law to keep to her limits and not get into things she does not fully know about!

yup and in today's times even joint families hv their own share of privacy .. like even if they stay in same house , they hv thier own partitions and prefer to b independent .. the hum saath saath hai concept does not work in today's times
Paro should limit herself to helping Rudra handle his situation in this mess, but beyond that it looks too nosy for her to be getting into the affairs of Mala, Mohini, Dilsher and Chacha! And it is wrorse when the new daughter in law takes sides in such a situation without fully knowing what happened exactly so many years ago.

true .. also her own relation with Rudra is yet to get that strong base .. they r yet to consummate their marriage .. so she should concentrate more on her married life and try to give some peace of mind to Rudra here ..
Sometimes the characters in a serial go beyond what reality allows and it looks odd when you compare it to reality!

true Mansi .. we hv witnessed it in so many shows that how always the female leads r made larger than life and too saintly , they go far from reality at times .. I m hoping against hope that CVs keep Paro human here ...

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Appreciate your response. Well, Mala should talk more that I agree and so should Dilsher. However, Rudra too has to be in a mind space where he will actually listen and process information. Mala said she will wait for that time. But at least he heard from her that she did tried to take him with her and was in touch with Danveer. Of course, Rudra will lash out, the journey to heal the wounds has just started, it will take time to put the demons to rest. It will be painful and long drawn depending the writers. It is like surgery when wounds are first cut to finally clean and heal them.

The lack of connect comes from the lopsided story telling by CVs. In trying to create sympathy for one character they shortchanged everyone else.

Yes Paro is an optimist, just like Rudra is short tempered. It is that optimism that has kept her sane when in lock down and was accused without any proof that she was a criminal. Her optimism does make her take on daunting tasks and she gets single minded about it, sometimes naively, but that who she always was. Otherwise with the losses she endured (writers never bother to dwell there) she would be as bitter if not more than Rudra.

Both Rudra and Paro have character flaws, it makes them less artificial, different traits that make them tick, but due to lopsided narrative, most can only see and tend to justify one side of the coin.

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