Snort why should it always be about Rudra?

I don't understand this bit about kowtowing to Rudra's wishes pain fears feelings which he has anyway been living with for the last 15 years with no success period so what is new not being dismissive just puzzled over the OTT reactions Paro is an individual in her own right and she made a decision tonight sure it may piss off some of you but hell its not like they are a couple and they are sharing a marital bed Sometimes he sleeps on the ground and sometimes though more often than not her so in her reckoning sleeping anywhere is just the same and he any way indicated he preferred to sleep somewhere else Logically he should have objected in the first place to his mum being there in his room but he did not so that gave more reason for Paro to ask her to stay on and gosh if Paro gave into Rudra's feelings and acted like his devotee RR will never move a tiny inch and yes I like Paro's characterization who though she took on her mother figure for being callous in her treatment of her son but was also equally able to take care of her needs and wants she knows right now giving up their room is the right thing as Dilsher and she have not sorted out matters and there is something called dignity space and respect thank god she was not shown fan girl sort and honestly that joke bit I also understand its called making the best out of a situation with humor and it helps rather than wallow in self pity and anger

And ok a football kostin those who are watching THE MATCH who are you supporting Chile or Spain
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she made a judgement , why should she be right , or may be she is , its stemming from her experiences and biases , i think thats more important

sorry sawthi no answer to football kostin as i see only cricket...

Uh, obviously USA.

Good one!

FLS first will answer your Football wala kostin.

Not watching religiously myself but we are a divided lot at home right now. 😃 Me and my girls support Chile. And the husband Spain!

Back to the post - I say as well - what's the big deal?

Now I think Paro has done the right thing on many counts

1) Having the manners to offer their personal space to an elder who is a woman let alone her husband's long lost mother. Isn't this one of the many ways to make someone feel welcomed?
2) Since the house is now divided, there is no other option. Or else Sunheri could have been asked to join her parents (Since I presume Danveer anyways takes to the floor)😉. And the room be given to her.
3) Like you say Rudra and Paro have been using the angan since the previous night. So why not another few nights?

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P.S. if anyone should be feeling bad about this, it should be Dilsher! Apni biwi apne paas rakho, why that smiley then😉

Swathi ...nowadays I am also seeing a strange violent tendancy towards paro in the forum 😕Ppl call her retarded , bi polar , want to stich her mouth and also smash mala's head to the wall ...

Swathi, Nice post... I agree. Paro asking Mala to stay in their room is not her fault... The poor girl already has so much on her plate. And in the midst of all this chaos, where will she go and who will she ask about Mala's staying arrangements??? Am I happy about the turn of events??? No.. I want Mala out of their room ASAP... But, is it Paro's fault for asking her to stay there??? I don't think so.

And, we need to remember Paro too is a human being with emotions and feelings... It is not written anywhere that she has to always act rationally and do the right thing without being carried away by her emotions, pain and helplessness... I don't understand why few viewers dissect everything she says and does into bits and pieces and look at it through a microscope... God!! She is trying her best to handle everything from falling apart, in the worst situation... Better than any individual in that house including Mala, Dilsher and Rudra. What else does she have to do? And on top of it Rudra keeps snapping at her (I do understand he is pissed).

About football... I am watching it but not every game... Timing of few matches doesn't match with my schedule 😔. Like right now.

Yes, why should it always be about Rudra ?


Paro has her own individualistic way of handling situations, and her aim is always to unite, not break. She knows in the long-run any present churlish behaviors will be forgotten, so she takes the liberty of bypassing the need to kowtow to the person in front of her.

PS. reading n writing from my phone - 😆 Hope I didn't miss the question in your post altogether, Swati 😆

Originally posted by: Hope

Swathi, Nice post... I agree. Paro asking Mala to stay in their room is not her fault... The poor girl already has so much on her plate. And in the midst of all this chaos, where will she go and who will she ask about Mala's staying arrangements??? Am I happy about the turn of events??? No.. I want Mala out of their room ASAP... But, is it Paro's fault for asking her to stay there??? I don't think so. And, we need to remember Paro too is a human being with emotions and feelings... It is not written anywhere that she has to always act rationally and do the right thing without being carried away by her emotions, pain and helplessness...

About football... I am watching it but not every game... Timing of few matches doesn't match with my schedule 😔. Like right now.

One person's hero is other's villian same is the case here, mala has done wrong to her child for whatever reason but she has done right by paro and now paro is stuck between her mother and her husband and she is trying her hardest to be fair to both of them and dilsher is the only one who understands her predicament until now ( u never know when cvs can make a positive character negative)... I sympathise with paro that she is stuck in the middle, she is sincere to both the persons and desperately trying to solve the issue without hurting anyone of the two people she loves the most...she has already lost two mums and doesn't wanna lose another one, before getting married to rudra mala's love was an act of kindness but now paro wants it as her right as she is her mother-in-law now.