Expecting RB to speak up.

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-Maryam

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Posted: 11 years ago

I'm expecting RB to speak up today and stop all that's happening. They should make a final desicion whether they want Naman and Muskaan to stay or not. If not, they should just leave.

It'll make things simpler for everyone. Plus, it'll be better if Naman and Muskaan leave coz they aren't clearly wanted in the house.

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rvmluthra

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Posted: 11 years ago

Agree and like all your posts.

At the same time as a mom I think about Devyaani's feelings and what I would feel in her position.

I hope Rajbanna has the maturity and life experience to make a right decision. Life is never the way we plan it to be. There are a lot of unexpected twists and turns.

As a mom in Devyaani's situation I would think that a mother if put in a situation of having to choose her kids or her husbands family without hesitation a mother would want to be with her kids.

Right now she is thinking of her husbands family and putting their happiness over her own.

Naman and Muskaan are the victim of circumstances. They were denied being raised by a mother who really cares for them. If someone was to tell me you can't be with your mom because she is remarried now it says children are second priority. In mothers eyes children always come first.

Based on the way the show is going and some of the views reflected in the forum I don't think any women who has gone through a marital breakup would want to get remarried. She will be forced to compromise her own happiness because her husbands family will always be first priority. She will always have to put her own happiness and her childrens happiness aside. As a society we pride ourselves on having such a modern and updated outlook on life but reality is peoples mentality hasn't changed and there is a double standard when it comes to women.

Personally i would rather stay single all my life and take care of my kids and be happy then to put up with all the friction in the Singhania house. Devyaani shouldn't have to deal with all this. She is an educated women who has a right to live a happy life the way she wants. It is disappointing to see regressive views sometimes posted by viewers because they have ingrained in them that old thinking mentality and the show also reflects that mentality. Hopefully Rajbanna make a decision that everyone can live with.

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-Maryam

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Posted: 11 years ago

I'm just thinking about how Naman and Muskaan would feel if devyani chose her new family over them. The very fact that she has to make that choice is so saddening.

Secondly, although personally I'm not finding this track entertaining. I am glad CVS introduced this track because it shows the reality that despite living in the modern era people still have trouble with such stuff and there are people who adjust well & others who don't. I just hope cvs wrap this track up in a meaningful way with a message that love is above all relations, be it blood, adoption, whatever.

Truth is Cvs are showing too little of Rb's opinion on this whole matter coz honestly, devyani and him need to deal with. So really hoping in today's episode he says something. And doesn't just sit there eating samosas 😛

I guess remarriage is something which like to each his own, some people bear the loneliness and need a companion. Others deal with the situation. I think RB was unable to deal with the situation.

I think devyani wants them to stay with her deep down inside but she's too worried about her new family which is okay I guess. But I guess she should give equal importance to both. Since now she is married to RB and Muskaan and Naman are her children. I'm saying exactly what you said that hushed putting their happiness over her own. Which is well just sad..

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noor321

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Posted: 11 years ago

I fail to understand how a mother should give priority to her new family over her own kids.

RB would without a doubt do it for Naitik so why this double standard. I'm sorry but this isn't the Devyani who when got married made sure she voiced her opinions. Why can't she tell them they are wrong and are being heartless, but constantly reminding and mentioning to her that oh spend time with your kids but don't forget we are more important.

argh I have so much to say, just can't be bothered to write it all down lol.

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rvmluthra

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Posted: 11 years ago

I was disappointed today that Rajbanna kept quiet but glad everything came out in the open.

I didn't agree with Akshara's outburst but I guess she is just defending her family.

At that moment when Ashara spoke the split came Devyaani and her kids against the Singhania family.

Given the scenario maybe it was best for Naman and Muskaan to rent a place of their own.

Hated seeing Devyaani's pain and was really disappointed as the Singhania's stood like statues without emotion as Devyaani's kids left their home feeling unwelcomed.

After Akshara spoke her mind in anger why is she feeling bad for Devyaani now.

I think this will definitely effect Devyaani's feelings for the Singhania's and put a strain on that relationship.

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: rvmluthra
I was disappointed today that Rajbanna kept quiet but glad everything came out in the open.
I didn't agree with Akshara's outburst but I guess she is just defending her family.
At that moment when Ashara spoke the split came Devyaani and her kids against the Singhania family.
Given the scenario maybe it was best for Naman and Muskaan to rent a place of their own.
Hated seeing Devyaani's pain and was really disappointed as the Singhania's stood like statues without emotion as Devyaani's kids left their home feeling unwelcomed.
After Akshara spoke her mind in anger why is she feeling bad for Devyaani now.
I think this will definitely effect Devyaani's feelings for the Singhania's and put a strain on that relationship.

I hope Devyani reacts, why is she sitting like a statue. Granted she married in this family doesn't mean she has no rights. It is RB's second marriage as well, so why is he and his family treated like the masters and she and her kids the slaves.

I know of a real life situation were many years ago a woman had lost her husband and she had two kids. My mother told me she didn't want to marry I think, but she was made to but she had to leave her kids behind. The husband never accepted them. How unfair is that? Knowing your mother is out there but because of others you can't even love them properly.

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-Maryam

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Posted: 11 years ago

I don't think devyani had expected much therefore she is accepting things and she has lived with the pain of being ripped off her children for all these years. She's dealing with things on their own. I'm glad she isn't acting like the damsel in distress! This time shes probably satisfied that her kids know she exists and love her.

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: -Maryam
I don't think devyani had expected much therefore she is accepting things and she has lived with the pain of being ripped off her children for all these years. She's dealing with things on their own. I'm glad she isn't acting like the damsel in distress! This time shes probably satisfied that her kids know she exists and love her.

But she is acting like a damsel in distress right now. I really want her to give it back to them, she doesn't need to be rude, but should hold a mirror up to them.

I miss the Devyani who made sure she was heard in the beginning.

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-Maryam

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: noor321

But she is acting like a damsel in distress right now. I really want her to give it back to them, she doesn't need to be rude, but should hold a mirror up to them.

I miss the Devyani who made sure she was heard in the beginning.

She isn't going on and on about it. In the precap she was fine! Rather it seemed lie akshara was regretting all that happened

But she saw how everyone got mad at her in the beginning and I'm sure she doesnt want to disappoint RB