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@Amina - Don't put words in my mouth. Show me where I have said that a divorce woman don't have any rights to live. I have said in my every post and will repeat again that this case is different. IF Devyani before marriage was living with kids or even if she had told Singhania's that if they are back then there is a chance that they would be staying with them and even after that if singhania's behaved this way then I would have blamed them but in this case I won't. And that won't make me backward or narrow minded but realistic.
You don't know me personally and you're passing personal remarks on me. I never wanted to reveal on this open forum but now I will. I'm a proud product of broken family. So I understand what Naman and Muskaan are going through. I was accepted by my Father and his family wholeheartedly. But my mother never hidden the fact that I will be staying with them. She found a father for me rather than a husband for herself. I'm proud to be their child. I'm not talking in air. I'm a lawyer by profession and have seen lot of such cases coming to family courts. So I am speaking from my experiences.
A woman can do exactly the same what a man can. She has equal rights in the society. I'm myself a woman. Why would I degrade a woman? Why would I take away any rights from her?? But equal rights means equal duties. Had Devyani spoken about her children possibility of coming and living with her than Singhania's would have been wrong. But now they have a choice of not accepting them. Cause they were not aware about her children living with them when they decided to go ahead with marriage.
Marriage is an unwritten contract where certain things are decided and you have to abide by it except in some cases. A woman with children can re-marry exactly like a man can. I have never said they can't.
Singhania's would have never got Rajshekhar married to Devyani if they knew about kids staying with her cause that is what been shown to us in the show. They wanted a companion for him so they took the proposal to Devyani thinking that she is divorcee with no kids. She is alone except for her father.
Then a day before marriage they got to know about her having kids but they don't stay with her neither she has any contacts with them and won't likely to have any in the future. Still they were apprehensive about this marriage but they went ahead cause she spoke the truth as well as her kids any which way don't stay with her. So that concludes that they won't have gone ahead with marriage if the situation is what it is right now.
Sorry to say but passing remarks on members and their choice of opinion is wrong. It is as wrong as someone said to you that you are hina fan and that's why you are blaming naitik,/karan. It is as wrong as when some said that hina fan always bash naitik cause they don't like karan. I defended then and I would defend now. It wss wrong then it is wrong now.
@Maryam - I was having healthy discussion only. I have never attacked anyone personally. I have not passed any snide remarks on anyone. Infact I have asked people not to assume and pass personal remarks.But I was targeted just because my views are not popular viewd of this forum. Then, some members say this forum is dead, pepeople don't comment etc etc. Tell me how they will feel comfortable when people like me are attacked for having opinion which does not go with majority of this forum.
Coming to your above post. Devyani and Suresh are definitely divorced cause she can't marry before divorcing.
This is my last post in this forum. I won't be commenting here after. Already requested mods to de-activste my id. It's a request don't pass personal comments on anyone cause you never know what that person has gone through or is going through in their personal life.
You don't know me personally and you're passing personal remarks on me. I never wanted to reveal on this open forum but now I will. I'm a proud product of broken family. So I understand what Naman and Muskaan are going through. I was accepted by my Father and his family wholeheartedly. But my mother never hidden the fact that I will be staying with them. She found a father for me rather than a husband for herself. I'm proud to be their child. I'm not talking in air. I'm a lawyer by profession and have seen lot of such cases coming to family courts. So I am speaking from my experiences.
A woman can do exactly the same what a man can. She has equal rights in the society. I'm myself a woman. Why would I degrade a woman? Why would I take away any rights from her?? But equal rights means equal duties. Had Devyani spoken about her children possibility of coming and living with her than Singhania's would have been wrong. But now they have a choice of not accepting them. Cause they were not aware about her children living with them when they decided to go ahead with marriage.
Marriage is an unwritten contract where certain things are decided and you have to abide by it except in some cases. A woman with children can re-marry exactly like a man can. I have never said they can't.
Singhania's would have never got Rajshekhar married to Devyani if they knew about kids staying with her cause that is what been shown to us in the show. They wanted a companion for him so they took the proposal to Devyani thinking that she is divorcee with no kids. She is alone except for her father.
Then a day before marriage they got to know about her having kids but they don't stay with her neither she has any contacts with them and won't likely to have any in the future. Still they were apprehensive about this marriage but they went ahead cause she spoke the truth as well as her kids any which way don't stay with her. So that concludes that they won't have gone ahead with marriage if the situation is what it is right now.
Sorry to say but passing remarks on members and their choice of opinion is wrong. It is as wrong as someone said to you that you are hina fan and that's why you are blaming naitik,/karan. It is as wrong as when some said that hina fan always bash naitik cause they don't like karan. I defended then and I would defend now. It wss wrong then it is wrong now.
@Maryam - I was having healthy discussion only. I have never attacked anyone personally. I have not passed any snide remarks on anyone. Infact I have asked people not to assume and pass personal remarks.But I was targeted just because my views are not popular viewd of this forum. Then, some members say this forum is dead, pepeople don't comment etc etc. Tell me how they will feel comfortable when people like me are attacked for having opinion which does not go with majority of this forum.
Coming to your above post. Devyani and Suresh are definitely divorced cause she can't marry before divorcing.
This is my last post in this forum. I won't be commenting here after. Already requested mods to de-activste my id. It's a request don't pass personal comments on anyone cause you never know what that person has gone through or is going through in their personal life.
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