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Posted: 11 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: Naksh_Duggu


Dev, I beg to differ on this. It's an awkward situation I agree but not an embarrassing one. For God sake she is legal and biological mother of those kids. She has not done any sin that it should be hidden from the world. She has every right to be known as there mother.

Society is made for the man, man is not made for society. Why care about others they don't come and feed you. People like Rukmini will talk rubbish for 2 days and then won't bother, for people like her you can't base your life decisions.

Not accepting Naman and Muskaan is fine as they are not obligated to but taking motherly rights of Devyani is not right.


I respect your views Naksh_Duggu. Whats your good name? :)

And I agree that its an awkward situation, I will correct it just now. It was not about doing any sin , as even I support Devyani to be with her kids , spending time with them. But not living their whole life with them.

Its easy to say that but we have to live in the society only. right.:)

I agree with you though. They are not taking her right. They support her. Personally, I dont want them to live with singhanias.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@Dev - My Name is Reva

I agree we have to live in the society but we don't need to follow everything that's been said. Be the change you wish to see. There were lot of things which society never accepted before but now they do.

Time to hit the bed. Good night to you and everyone here. Had nice time.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Naksh_Duggu

@Dev - My Name is Reva

I agree we have to live in the society but we don't need to follow everything that's been said. Be the change you wish to see. There were lot of things which society never accepted before but now they do.

Time to hit the bed. Good night to you and everyone here. Had nice time.


Nice name, Reva.:)

yes, but for making a difference, we first need to be bold enough and courageous to accept the truth then only we can do this. Rajshekhar can help devyani in to this. If he agrees, all will agree. Only then can we see some change.

Same here, Good night. Yes, even I enjoyed discussing with you. 😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Dev.*

well, duggu is a kid who doesnt know about the society and is pure at heart and YRKKH being a family show revolves around society so hence this becomes a awkward situation and the elders are behaving very real , infact more maturely then what happens in real life.

what did Devyaani do for which Singhania should be ashamed of? For god sake we are living in a 21st century!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Naksh_Duggu

@Dev - My Name is Reva

I agree we have to live in the society but we don't need to follow everything that's been said. Be the change you wish to see. There were lot of things which society never accepted before but now they do.

Time to hit the bed. Good night to you and everyone here. Had nice time.



I agree with you, I don't give a damn about society and do what I want to (of course if my parents are ok with it), I always end up having arguments with my parents over this 😆 . See when we go through a bad phase in our life's this society just gossip about you, they don't offer a helping hand, they don't try to ease your pain infact they make sure that they increase the pain. I know this because when I got a divorce this same society talked about it for months, they would see me coming and would start gossiping. So as far as I am concerned the society can go stuff itself.

I believe in living for yourself and your immediate family (parents, siblings and grandparents) and not the so called society.

I want Naman and Muskaan to live with their mother forever, they deserve that love that they have missed all their lives.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Amina_

what did Devyaani do for which Singhania should be ashamed of? For god sake we are living in a 21st century!


Amina,
first of all, please get rid of digging Devyani's name everywhere for no reason. Secondly, so what its 21st century, society still plays vital and very important role at least in our country India , especially in Rajasthan state. I myself have lived in that state and is aware of the fact about the society. Having said that, this doesnt means that society is not good enough, nope, society norms and rules are also appreciable, not all rules, but some rules are really made for the betterment of the peoples living there.

Now, our show has always portrayed society in the key role right from the start where Rajshree was worried for Akshara's marriage and what will society think.

Now, answer to your question is, Devyani did not done anything and there's nothing to be ashamed of. Kindly do not change the meaning of the sentence. Awkward and ashamed of are two different words.

Not devyani but her Kids who are now grown up have done the thing which is making awkward situations for her and even for them!. Again repeating here, these kids are from her first marriage and when they fixed her marriage, it was said that she have no connections with her kids and she never will and living their whole life with her was out of the box there. So how can you expect singhanias to accept them so easily? They are humans and humans take time to accept things. This is reality . Everything cannot go smooth, after all this is life.

I'm not against these kids living with their mother, but its not their right as she is now married to different man. Only if her husband, i.e Rajshekhar supports devyani in this, then only they can live, otherwise, its not legal or pleasant to live in the place of their mother, who is now married to another man for giving him companion.

Also, I think that Naman-Muskaan are getting emotional . They should talk with their dad at least once to sort their differences. After all, he is their dad and gave them good upbringing despite of the fact that he is not a good individual and have done wrong with devyani, but this doesnt means that they will leave their dad. They also have some duties towards their dad.

Kids can build healthy relationship with their mother by spending time with her and knowing her gradually. But Not for whole life, because Devyani has her own family now. Why we force Singhanias to accept her kids when they did not forced Devyani to accept Singhania kids? Devyani accepted them on own , nobody forced her and she did this for maintaining her marriage with Rajshekhar. Even she said this. Devyani was aware about Singhanias but Singhanias didnot knew that someday her kids will come to live their whole life with her. This was not said when they were fixing her marriage, otherwise, they would not had done this marriage.Period.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Since when did singhanias start thinking abt what society thinks,... If they could accept a woman who had a past they can accept her kids.
No one is telling them to accept them with hugs in a couple of days that will of course take time but why can't they try like akshara...seeing her expression when she found out that they wanted to stay forever showed she wasn't delighted either but she wasn't rude, was She?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Dev, I got no interest in arguing with you coz yours and mine view will never match! Think as a new generation where people are more concerned about the happiness of their families then thinking about what the society will think! What will make singhania's awkward in front of the society?
Singhania's should learn from Vishwamber. Who thought about the happiness of his family more tyen the society during the Anshu and Jas issue!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Amina_

Dev, I got no interest in arguing with you coz yours and mine view will never match! Think as a new generation where people are more concerned about the happiness of their families then thinking about what the society will think! What will make singhania's awkward in front of the society?
Singhania's should learn from Vishwamber. Who thought about the happiness of his family more tyen the society during the Anshu and Jas issue!


Amina, same here, I get no happiness in arguing with you here because I know that our views will not match most of the times, but this doesn't means that we always argue!.


I can totally understand what you are trying to say here amina as I as well belong to same new generation who is more concerned about happiness of the family rather than society But this show is more society oriented which you also know. Singhanias were always shown as orthodox in comparison to Maheswaris'.
They accept new things gradually. They are the real examples of how people cope up with things when they see change around.

Now, awkward factor is the relation of Naman-Muskaan with Rajshekhar and his kids and family. They are not blood related nor they have adopted by Devyani , nor they were with her when she was getting married to Raj shekhar!. They came there suddenly without informing them so it becomes a awkward condition for any family and they are behaving more real with them. Naman and Muskaan need to talk to their father and sort their problems as he have their custody! and not devyani.


yes, singhanias should learn from vishambhar, I agree. But it will take time, gradually it will happen. Remember they taken time to accept chikki as well, so if at all these kids are staying here, then they will take their own time. Give them the time they need.


Well, Anshu and Jass issue was completely different so how can you compare the two? but here the scenario is different. Naman and Muskaan are adults and they know what they are doing and how this will create havoc in other's life. They should move back to their father after spending their time with mother and they can continue their relation by meeting time to time with devyani. Even living at Devyani's father's place is good option for them but not with Singhanias, at least not for now as things are not settled. Devyani should talk with them , both with singhanias and her kids.

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