Originally posted by: _Amina_
what did Devyaani do for which Singhania should be ashamed of? For god sake we are living in a 21st century!
Amina,
first of all, please get rid of digging Devyani's name everywhere for no reason. Secondly, so what its 21st century, society still plays vital and very important role at least in our country India , especially in Rajasthan state. I myself have lived in that state and is aware of the fact about the society. Having said that, this doesnt means that society is not good enough, nope, society norms and rules are also appreciable, not all rules, but some rules are really made for the betterment of the peoples living there.
Now, our show has always portrayed society in the key role right from the start where Rajshree was worried for Akshara's marriage and what will society think.
Now, answer to your question is, Devyani did not done anything and there's nothing to be ashamed of. Kindly do not change the meaning of the sentence. Awkward and ashamed of are two different words.
Not devyani but her Kids who are now grown up have done the thing which is making awkward situations for her and even for them!. Again repeating here, these kids are from her first marriage and when they fixed her marriage, it was said that she have no connections with her kids and she never will and living their whole life with her was out of the box there. So how can you expect singhanias to accept them so easily? They are humans and humans take time to accept things. This is reality . Everything cannot go smooth, after all this is life.
I'm not against these kids living with their mother, but its not their right as she is now married to different man. Only if her husband, i.e Rajshekhar supports devyani in this, then only they can live, otherwise, its not legal or pleasant to live in the place of their mother, who is now married to another man for giving him companion.
Also, I think that Naman-Muskaan are getting emotional . They should talk with their dad at least once to sort their differences. After all, he is their dad and gave them good upbringing despite of the fact that he is not a good individual and have done wrong with devyani, but this doesnt means that they will leave their dad. They also have some duties towards their dad.
Kids can build healthy relationship with their mother by spending time with her and knowing her gradually. But Not for whole life, because Devyani has her own family now. Why we force Singhanias to accept her kids when they did not forced Devyani to accept Singhania kids? Devyani accepted them on own , nobody forced her and she did this for maintaining her marriage with Rajshekhar. Even she said this. Devyani was aware about Singhanias but Singhanias didnot knew that someday her kids will come to live their whole life with her. This was not said when they were fixing her marriage, otherwise, they would not had done this marriage.Period.
Edited by *Dev.* - 11 years ago