Originally posted by: deejagi
The question here is not who influenced his thoughts & words, the question is why could yield to such plots. How he failed to trust her. Ok, today it is Maham and tomorrow if he says something and blames someone else for that, what will she do?
Jaya and Kaana (sorry, writing to both together because both of you have raised same point)
I agree with you that it looks like an excuse. also it's not important who influenced him, what matters is that he got influenced. Till here, we are in sync.
Jaya, you have mentioned how going forward, they should tell each other everything. No holds barred. This is how trust develops.
I feel he should be open with Jodha about everything, here on. Even if it sounds like an excuse to her or she feels that earlier he trusted MA and tomorrow he may trust someone else, he should honestly tell her what had happened. When a couple is separated by someone, both of them must know the reality of the person who tried to separate them. I would want to know who had caused an MU between me and my husband. It may not serve any purpose at the moment. But it gives me an assurance that my husband is open with me. And it makes me alert to that person in future.
If I know Jodha correctly, she will not take it as an excuse by Jalal. She knows about MA and she will realize that Jalal too was a victim of circumstances just like her. Even recently, she was telling dadisa that how could he suspect her? She is still unable to see things from his POV. She thinks he is solely responsible for his actions that night. But if she learns that he was manipulated by MA, she will be able to see things from his POV also. This is very important for her to overcome her present hurt state of why did he suspect her.
It's not a simple case of MA said and Jalal threw Jodha out. MA had to spin a devious plot this time. So Jodha will understand that it was not a case of Jalal misunderstanding her deliberately and trusting MA blindly. If she knows the entire sequence of events, she will understand to what length MA went this time to separate her from Jalal.
My belief is that Jalal was also a victim of MA's plotting like Jodha. So it is not fair for him if Jodha keeps on thinking he suspected her on his own. She has to know that he was forced to suspect her because such circumstances were created by MA. He had not put any blind faith in MA this time. He had kept his faith alive in Jodha till the end when he saw Sujamal in Jodha's room. So it is very important that Jodha should know why he acted the way he did. Only then will she be able to resolve the hurt inside.
I know now that Jodha is coming back. But she has still not resolved this hurt. She is only happy about the repeal of the tax on pilgrims. If the hurt isn't resolved, it can keep raising its head from time to time. Just like Jalal still remembers the dhakka from time to time. (He needs someone to read the paigam for him to resolve his hurt completely.)
Another thing is that MA is still around. And she is still actively plotting. Last night I saw the spoiler on Ela's thread that said Ruq will declare to be pregnant when JJ are planning to have their SR. And some of us had felt this may be another Ruq/MA plot to separate JJ again.
So Jodha has to know the real face of MA so that she can be careful of her after returning to Agra. Or she may again inadvertently fall for her plots.
If not Jalal, I hope at least Salima should tell Jodha everything on her return.
What do you two feel?
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