Whould't you hate Kamla if she was your mother?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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She was beyond mean today. How can you hit your adult daughter like this...in front of everyone at such a grand event?! No child regardless of age deserves this though. Kamla is just an example of really bad parenting. Its sad that the show portrays her as a protagonist. Really what type of a protagonist is this? Not only is she slowly becoming the epitome of smothering bad parenting but she's also very dumb (saying the latter since she trusts Neetu, like hello lady, when was Neetu ever nice?!).
Anyways, Kalpi has had enough. I hope they introduce a track where Kamla can realize she has failed as a mother. She gave Kalpi immense sorrow and insecurity to her as a child and now that she finally has her share of happiness Kamla slaps her and asks her how she could be in love with Raghav as Pakhi loves her? Really? Would you be asking that. I would have understood the slap alone (I suppose at some level), but "how can you love Raghav, Pakhi loves him"...simply what the hell is that suppose to mean? Pakhi baby is so special that she'll always get what she wants, be it a toy or a person.

And, is Kalpi not Kamla's daughter? I have always hated the fact that Kamla has always viewed Kalpi as an investment that will reap great benefits. I'm not saying its wrong to expect from your child, but to only expect and smother them with incessant ranting about education, career, riches is just horrible. And, what she did today was beyond limits. Hate this woman.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Kamla was going to react this way only that was given but her reason she gave was hurtful just coz pakhi loves ragz kalpi cannot love him and when did this kamla even bother to tell pakhis secret to kalpi
Had ever pakhi mentioned kalpi that she loved ragz was kalpi supposed to guess
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Oh I am with u on this hate rage for her. I have a big "HATE" on my dictionary for her. She doesn't even deserve to be called a mother. I think the word "mother" is such a precious word and above every word or name in the universe but I really hate to call her a mother. I think it's an insult to motherhood for calling Kamla a mother. The more I think about Kalpi & Paakhi, I feel bad for both of them. Kamla couldn't be a good mother to either one of them because she never paid attention to Kalpi, where Kalpi always left without her mother's love. On the other hand she paid too much attention to Paakhi where Paakhi's behavior became of a spoiled child. In my opinion Kamla failed as a mother to both girls. Thank god my mom is not like Kamla otherwise I don't think I would have ever been able to live under the same roof as her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Good point! She hasn't been a good mother to both of them. Too much of everything would spoil anyone and Pakhi is pretty spoilt..it'll be interesting to see the extent she goes to get Raghav. Anyways, back to Kamla, I agree, she has ruined the definition of motherhood.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well I know like Kalpana feels hurt and that's because she's too nice but honestly if Kamla were my mother I wouldn't really like her that much.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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For some reason she treat kapi like she is not her child and paki is just a brat it always for paki thank god she is not my mother she is the worst mother ever her only concern was paki she did not care that raguv love kapi and they both loved each other very disgusting
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Posted: 11 years ago
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If kamla was my mother I would stop speaking to her the woman prove today that she love pookie that she is her daughter and kalpi is not her daughter if it was me I would consider myself motherless and get on with my life only a father and brother!! Marry my love and never look at her again!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sb1410

If kamla was my mother I would stop speaking to her the woman prove today that she love pookie that she is her daughter and kalpi is not her daughter if it was me I would consider myself motherless and get on with my life only a father and brother!! Marry my love and never look at her again!!


I agree. In fact, any sane person would do that. I hate that on TV, women, in the role of a mother, daughter or in other roles are idealized. They are morally too perfect to be practical. Anyways, I hope Kalpi does that though..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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firstly thank god she is not my mother...and I have a sister and my mother has always treated us fairly..anyway that is besides the point...kamla if paki 's dream was to marry salman khan what would you have done...say yes paki loves him ...come on we all have dreams but dreams must be attainable.
I HATED the part when she said that paki's dream was to marry raghav and paki loves raghav...and while raghav was telling her who he loves and that is kalpi she still refuse to believe...kamla has not realize that she took everything kalpi had in her and give it to paki...vithal was right when he pointed out those issues to her and exactly when did she give birth to paki...so u give her too car of her but guess what u were her sitter/maid and they have never treated u well even in the celebrations for kalpi neetu insulted u...and instead of defending ur daughter u insulted her more...kamla u are no ones hero you ar LESS THAN ZERO...as for the writers this is the part of the step mother not your real mother...real mother's don't do that...
I am glad raghav told kamla he will never marry paki...so take that kamla...as for being unable to decide whose happiness is important...always remember kalpi was ur daughter not paki...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Kamala is not ready to accept ragna. She worries about Paakhi, this is very irritating. How cud she say ," how cud u luv Raghav?". Luv just happens, it cannot be planned. When will Kamala understand this?

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