Originally posted by: john909
what i dont get is people angry at kabir for his actions. agreed he is responsible for LN's condition and he is also responsible for the rift between danny-saras (which got cleared). all his life, he grew up with a lady like menka and people expect him to be as good as saras? so far LN is concerned, i dont have one ounce of pity for him coz of how be has been behaving wid saras all his life and also how easily he doubted his wife. kabhi na kabhi to gunaah ki sazaa milni thi so mil gayi apne hi bete ke haathon. so far danny-saras rift was concerned, he did it coz he hates gumaan and at that point for him son of gumaan also should be like gumaan. he didnt know danny properly. no matter how many times he has manipulated everyone around him, he has never directly harmed saras or desai family regardless of his intentions. before leaving he was honest and genuine about returning those papers. he didnt have to do that if he was so bad and gumaan's parchai. kabir is a victim of circumstances and his own fate. so yes a third person, i would judge him but putting oneself in his shoes, i dont blame him for his actions.
so far saras is concerned, i m sure kabir never had any ill feelings for him. the main prob wid kabir is he didnt know where to draw the line for taking revenge against gumaan and that is quite clear when he planned to kill her. he didnt think twice of what would happen to his life. that shows how bitter and lonely his life is. so expecting kabir to be selfless like saras is illogical. atleast saras had some love from his mom, and if even if it was painful, his mother's love was alive in him and he never let go of his memories of his mother unlike kabir who never knew what a mom's love is and also he knew the real reason behind his mom's death. wonder if saras knew the real reasons behind his mom's death, he would have been like this. he was ready to kill gumaan the moment he knew the truth.
Dear,this anger is not really at kabir, he is negative character! And accepted as that from the start.
See whatever the reason, we are responsible for our acts. Every criminal will have someone to blame for his or acts, yet that doesn't take away their responsibility for their actions
So menaka poisoned him from childhood and turned him into a grey character, but then that's what he is a grey character, a man who has manipulated others, endangered lives, schemed and plotted and dabbled in illegal activities etc.
So that he is not a positive character was very painstakingly established
Now why talk of sanskars and Saraswati ka beta being all good - the anger is against the cvs for this 180 degree turn around, and pretending that all the things that kabir did never happened !
So the anger is with cvs for suddenly painting him white, after making him do so many bad things
Seher Hone Ko Hai
Mannat Har Khushi Paane Ki
