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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweet_gargi

Rudra has ego issues coupled with issue of falling badly for this beautiful girl. He is actually angry with himself that his heart admits the fact that he wants to be with her.

Whatever be the case but I really am worried about the project 'Tyaag' that CVs r on right now.😕 I hope they don't make Paro do another Raamdev aasan this time. If she leaves him n goes away that will be a good thing as he will realize how much she means to him.



Yeah I too hope no more one leg stands or bhookh hartals 😆😆 .. I want to see Paro taking care of Rudra , giving him medicines on time and do all that practical things to make sure he is fine soon .. no more mytho stuffs 😆😆

And yes a part of him is angry on himself for actually letting his heart fall for this beautiful woman despite all that happened in past ...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: jyoti06

So why did Rudra suddenly get angry today on Paro instead of feeling proud ?? 🤔 ..


Was it his male ego because he was told by his boss that he got his job back because of Paro , which means he himself dont get any credit for his hard work but Paro takes away all the credit and its typical male ego not to take it sportingly 😆 or was it just an unknown fear that Paro is slowly becoming an integral part of his life and his wife too in real sense who saved his job today but he is scared to accept Paro in his life due to his past baggages related to women ? 🤔



Initially when Rudra walked out in anger , I thought its a typical male ego but later when he got those flashbacks about the number of times he saved Paro and how Paro claimed that she is his wife , I thought his anger was more because his heart is beginning to accept Paro's importance in his life but he is scared that his new found emotional attachment to Paro might lead to yet another disaster in his life since Paro is another beautiful woman like his mother ...


Rudra returned back because his heart wanted to sit in that puja and do that aarti with Paro 😳 but as usual he spoke the opposite about how he wants to remove her from his life and so came to pray for the same to God just to make sure he could stop his own heart from falling into this emotional trap ; I guess he is scared of his own self now .. He is beginning to enjoy Paro's company and also accept her as his wife but that phone call of his boss was like a wake up call for him as he suddenly realised that he married Paro to take his revenge and not to fall for her 😛😆...


And Rudra finally breaks his fourth vachan today by eating the laddoo and taking the death on himself by saving his wife 😃 ; He took the vachan that whenever Paro will b in trouble or her life will b in danger , he wont b there to protect her but well unknowingly he protects her today by eating the laddoo 😉 ; He ate that laddoo because he wanted Paro to go away from his life and so took God's blessings on himself by eating that laddoo as prasad which is an interesting irony shown because he actually took Paro's death on himself today by eating the laddoo which means in his heart he actually prayed for Paro's life and well being to God while doing the aarti (though he said the opposite to Paro 😉) and thats why God granted his wish by making sure nothing happens to Paro and so in the end min he does not give the laddoo to Paro but eats it himself 😳 ...



Cant wait for tomorrow's episode now ... I m sure Paro will go out of her way to protect her Major saheb just how Savitra did for his Satyavan ... 😃 ..But no one leg stand type circus CVs 😆... I hope the track is dealt in a more practical way with Paro taking Rudra to hospital first and then nurse him 😳

Jyoti, supremely good post 👏👏👏👏and you have asked the right question on Rudra's motives for his anger. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️Your question in the heading of your post has made me think.
And this is my answer:
I think Rudra is still in the testing stage of his relationship with Paro. He is not yet sure whether he likes her, how much he likes her, whether he has become dependent on her for his happiness etc etc. See he has had such questions in his mind before regarding all his relationships - with his father, with his mother, with everyone in his near circle ... he is still having these same questions in his mind about Paro also ...
... but the one and only thing he has always been sure of is his love for his job. There he has had no doubts that he is in the right place for all the right reasons and his heart is in his job.
I think now it doesn't sit well with him at all that his boss and boss's wife etc are all getting more friendly and protective of Paro and his job is a thing that is dependent on paro doing the right things ...getting his job back for him is now in her power and not because of the things he does right in his job. His job is being given to him not for his service recognition but for the quality of his relationship with paro!
I think he wants desperately not to mix up his marriage with his job. He is not comfortable that his boss has grown close to paro and that she has started pleading with the boss to give his job back etc. It is like one loop has formed between the boss, his wife and Paro in which Rudra is a bystander, a spectator and they are all deciding his fate for him.
I wouldn't say it is entirely a question of ego alone. It could be the discomfort of his not knowing what relationship he has with Paro, and yet despite this uncertainty she is entering the part of his life that used to be his one and only certainty. She is throwing his mind and heart upside down and now her entry into his job sphere threatens more than his peace of mind.
Not only is Paro getting pro-active on the job front, the boss is also getting too close to paro, asking about her on the phone etc etc. And here, Paro is taking his job so seriously that she puts his uniform in his place for the puja.
Jyoti, it is my feeling that Paro should not get into his job spehere and she should remove herself from it. How would we feel if our spouses started directly hitting it off with our workmates and bosses and we are outside of that loop?
Other than this point, your symbolism of the fourth vachan is fabulous. That Prasad eating and the anticipation of her tending for him is making me all excited.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: skanda12

Jyoti, supremely good post 👏and you have asked the right question on Rudra's motives for his anger. ⭐️Your question in the heading of your post has made me think.

Actually CVs dint exactly give the reason of his anger and has left it open for interpretation deliberately 😉
And this is my answer:
I think Rudra is still in the testing stage of his relationship with Paro. He is not yet sure whether he likes her, how much he likes her, whether he has become dependent on her for his happiness etc etc. See he has had such questions in his mind before regarding all his relationships - with his father, with his mother, with everyone in his near circle ... he is still having these same questions in his mind about Paro also ...

Exactly .. he is actually not sure of his relationship status with Paro .. during Jaipur trip he enjoyed her company as if he was in a fairytale land but that phone call of his boss brings him to reality and suddenly he remembers how he married her for revenge because he almost lost his job because of her
... but the one and only thing he has always been sure of is his love for his job. There he has had no doubts that he is in the right place for all the right reasons and his heart is in his job.

yess .. I guess thats the only place where he fully accepts his love and loyalty towards his job ..
I think now it doesn't sit well with him at all that his boss and boss's wife etc are all getting more friendly and protective of Paro and his job is a thing that is dependent on paro doing the right things ...getting his job back for him is now in her power and not because of the things he does right in his job. His job is being given to him not for his service recognition but for the quality of his relationship with paro!

yeah and that relationship is something he is yet to accept and because he got his job back for this same relationship which he considers fake in his mind , its affecting him more

I think he wants desperately not to mix up his marriage with his job. He is not comfortable that his boss has grown close to paro and that she has started pleading with the boss to give his job back etc. It is like one loop has formed between the boss, his wife and Paro in which Rudra is a bystander, a spectator and they are all deciding his fate for him.

I agree ... Paro is considered a part of Rudra's family now where his boss and his wife r fond of her and its all getting tangled into complex circle of relationships where emotions r attached .. this is scaring him I guess .. he dont want to fall into the trap of these relationships once again
I wouldn't say it is entirely a question of ego alone. It could be the discomfort of his not knowing what relationship he has with Paro, and yet despite this uncertainty she is entering the part of his life that used to be his one and only certainty. She is throwing his mind and heart upside down and now her entry into his job sphere threatens more than his peace of mind.

Yes he is used to lead a loner's life .. so suddenly this responsibility of a wife plus the wife given the credit for saving her husband's job , all this is sort of weird for him to accept when he himself is not sure of his relationship status with Paro
Not only is Paro getting pro-active on the job front, the boss is also getting too close to paro, asking about her on the phone etc etc. And here, Paro is taking his job so seriously that she puts his uniform in his place for the puja.

I guess the boss and everyone thinks they r leading a happy married life .. they dont even know how the whole marriage happened ... I guess its a sort of guilt too from Rudra's side as he knows how he foricbly did the marriage in drunk state
Jyoti, it is my feeling that Paro should not get into his job spehere and she should remove herself from it. How would we feel if our spouses started directly hitting it off with our workmates and bosses and we are outside of that loop?

Mansi from Paro's POV , I feel she thinks she is guilty for Rudra loosing his job because of her public confession and that one-leg stand ... so I think thats the only reason she is so desperate to go and beg to all .. otherwise she never really interfered in his job .. I hope from here on she dont interfere in it ..
Other than this point, your symbolism of the fourth vachan is fabulous. That Prasad eating and the anticipation of her tending for him is making me all excited.

I guess she will nurse him now and once he is all fine , she might decide to leave to fulfill his wish of going away from his life but mayb this time he will stop her 😳

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Posted: 11 years ago
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