I Cant Believ Ths-Maithli & Pranay Sleeps - Page 5

Originally posted by: friskysam

Only after marriage.......then wht will be the difference between us humans n animals.😡

Doing such stuff before marriage is a sin.............whether u accept it or not.

I am sorry but having sex is not a sin before marriage...its a physical need and there is nothing wrong in it...and please what do u mean by values and sanskars? people killing people and people raping people is not against culture...but 2 people sleeping together and making love is a crime? this is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard.

It's really weird how people end up pulling their shirts off after a few drinks. In fact alcohol actually causes a dampening in your sexual desire. It's just a myth that people become sexually active after drinking. That's just not true scientifically, and Ekta should realize that and stop over using this cliched situation in all her serials. As for the deal about sex before marriage, let's just leave that to the individuals. Come on people some of us here are ok about the idea, while the rest of us aren't. There's no point fighting over sanskaars or killing people. Now the latter is definitely a crime which we all agree with. But on the issue of pre-marital sex, one man's food is the other man's poison. We can't change the ideals and values of other members in this forum. So instead we should respect their perspective and accept that this issue is sensitive as well as subjective and let everyone decide what is right for them and what's not. After all we are all entitled to our own opinion... 😊

Originally posted by: ishan2003

I am sorry but having sex is not a sin before marriage...its a physical need and there is nothing wrong in it...and please what do u mean by values and sanskars? people killing people and people raping people is not against culture...but 2 people sleeping together and making love is a crime? this is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard.

Who said in this forum that killing and raping is right?! Nobody said that. And maybe since u dont stay in india, u are not close to the indian culture so its ur opinion that sex before marriage is a need and not a sin. But do realise that majority of the members in this forum reside in India and in their opinion, this is not part of the Indian culture, so as someone said, this is just ur opinion which u are entitled to.

Originally posted by: ishan2003

I am sorry but having sex is not a sin before marriage...its a physical need and there is nothing wrong in it...and please what do u mean by values and sanskars? people killing people and people raping people is not against culture...but 2 people sleeping together and making love is a crime? this is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard.

i never mentioned tht killing people n raping are not sins............they are in the same category.

May i remind u tht "Lust" is one of the deadliest sins known to man. And for the so-called physical need, A man shld have self-control or perhaps this word doesnt exist in ur dictionary.

And plz do refer to the holy scriptures of various religions to see whether it is a sin or not.

wow ahaha...i wna say sumting now lol..i feel that its bwad if u av sex b4 marriage!das all i have to say lol..bu they rest is wha u lot think lol

Hey people, what's the point of fighting over what constitutes to be a sin and what is ok? We all agree that killing people is a sin...and as for pre-marital sex, it just depends on the individual....everyone has their own version of the sanskaars whether they live in india or not, is irrelevant....maybe this discussion is getting too heated up...

This topic is getting out of hand.

People, you must remember that all of you come from different backgrounds, different upbringings and different schools of thought. There are as many opinions in this world as there are people. Stating your opinion in an assertive manner does not make it a fact. An opinion is just that, and everyone is entitled to their own.

In the 21st century, people have to reconcile their culture and upbringing with their own ideas of morals, rights and wrongs. It is an individual's own vision that constitutes their morality - no one else has the right to "teach" someone else about values.

And to all those people who are arguing that "Indians living in India are closer to their culture" etc - give me a break. I take major offence to that - I live in England and I have no problem reconciling my British (and, I am proud to say it, forward-thinking) upbringing with my Indian culture. And trust me, the Indians who live in India are no better than the rest of the world. You only have to look at the kind of movies that are successful these days to know what the Indian youth is about. Films like Murder, Jism etc would not be super-hits if at least a section of the demographic didn't appeal to them. So please, don't generalise and categorise people into groups that segragate us into: Indians living in India = pure, sanskaari and Indians living outside India = devil children.

That said - there is no reason to attack ANYONE's beliefs, opinions or views. This topic will now be closed. No follow-up topics, please!