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Posted: 11 years ago
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Beautiful analysis Jyothi...
Raghu has started to treat Shivani as his own..The contrast between how he treats Sumi is quite evident where with Sumi he remains very formal and almost treats her like an outsider and a stranger... But with Shi is starting to shed inhibitions but its still wrapped in duty and promise... He cant face Shivani especially if he says something that will give Shivani the indication that he wants something more from this relationship as even her touch is defying his stance.. His instant removal somehow gives him some control of his emotions...

Though he managed to dodge the questions again, there will come a time where he will have to face those questions and deal with them, however, difficult they may be...

Latha was a silent spectator and what she said was true that 3 lives are being spoiled by this mess... At the moment she seems neutral in her stance but hopefully she remains a neutral when she observes the two girls... Being a joint family, the girl will not only have to treat her husband well but also have responsibility for the entire family, especially since the girl will be the eldest bahu...

I think part of Raghu not accepting his feelings is not only because of his prejudice beliefs but Shivani's antics do not help matters... Her putting a her hand over the lamp can be seen as forcefully getting what one wants and that might not be seen 'right' in the eyes or POV of Raghu...

I was glad that there was no kitchen politics yesterday and the seriousness of the episode was broken by Jass' drunken antics.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: heera1702

Lovely analysis ..👏

Yeah it was a much much better n a surprising epi too .😕

Surprising bcz finally R is coming out of his servant mode n his ho jaayegaa babyji has now converted into yeh nahii hosakta babyji ...though still he is looking away while mouthing this authorative tone 😉😆


I just rewatched the hand burning scene after u described it so minutely n yes u were right ,Rs eyes spoke volumes n i felt he is telling her ...plz dont hurt urself like this ...it pains ..👏

Arsi were just fab yes n yes very happy to see Mansi now matching upto all the wonderful n amazing actors of the show .👏 Her hard work has paid off .



Yup .. ho jayega baby ji ka definition is now changed to yeh nahin ho sakta baby ji 😆😆 ... well this itself is a positive progress in a way as he is no more considering himself a puppet servant of baby ji but is more authorative with his tone as if he is actually talking to his wife 😉 .. he has not yet show such authority on Sumi 😛 ...

And yes in that scene his eyes spoke volumes .. its more like he felt overwhelmed seeing this act of hers as he never thought she can hurt herself for him and then he tries to convey through his eyes plss dont do this , it hurts me 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Sheena-

Beautiful analysis Jyothi...

Raghu has started to treat Shivani as his own..The contrast between how he treats Sumi is quite evident where with Sumi he remains very formal and almost treats her like an outsider and a stranger... But with Shi is starting to shed inhibitions but its still wrapped in duty and promise... He cant face Shivani especially if he says something that will give Shivani the indication that he wants something more from this relationship as even her touch is defying his stance.. His instant removal somehow gives him some control of his emotions...

Yess ... the way he speaks to Shivani and the way he speaks to Sumi .. there is a huge difference .. he gets affected with her touch and just to hide his feelings , he immediately turns his back to avoid looking into her eyes but with Sumi he does not feel that awkwardness because he does not feel anything with Sumi but with Shivani its a bit of a diff equation now 😉😛

Though he managed to dodge the questions again, there will come a time where he will have to face those questions and deal with them, however, difficult they may be...

I guess the time will come with this new entry .. he might hv to answer few questions to his own self first 😳

Latha was a silent spectator and what she said was true that 3 lives are being spoiled by this mess... At the moment she seems neutral in her stance but hopefully she remains a neutral when she observes the two girls... Being a joint family, the girl will not only have to treat her husband well but also have responsibility for the entire family, especially since the girl will be the eldest bahu...

yeah I hope she makes a fair decision or mayb tells something to Raghu like if he wants to marry Sumi then first he got to take Shivani into confidence and settle her down properly and if he wants to stay with Shivani then settle down Sumi mayb 😆 .. because right now he has simply kept both girls hanging 😆


I think part of Raghu not accepting his feelings is not only because of his prejudice beliefs but Shivani's antics do not help matters... Her putting a her hand over the lamp can be seen as forcefully getting what one wants and that might not be seen 'right' in the eyes or POV of Raghu...

I agree here .. few actions of Shivani is making Raghu feels as if this is just one of her childhish acts where she is showing her stubborn self just how in childhood she showed her stubborn self for a random doll or something .. u know those typical rich spoilt pampered girls kind of thing .. thats what Raghu feels at times and mayb thats why he is in denial too along with his prejudiced beliefs and fears .,.

I was glad that there was no kitchen politics yesterday and the seriousness of the episode was broken by Jass' drunken antics.

true .. it was a good relief with no real planning plotting but direct confrontations of characters which is what we want to see 👍🏼

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Wonderful analysis Jyoti.
It is b'coz of your posts that I started watching DDBEDS carefully. And yes. I noticed those changes in Raghu's behavior with Shivani. And you are right ..Raghu starts acting like a husband g8ving orders to his wife, arguing with her, and refusing to do what she wants. He acts with Shivani as an equal to her , not as a naukar. His expressions became more stubborn.

And I l9ved that part which you talked about when Raghu felt overwhelmed by Shivani's burning her balm. ❤️

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: awida



Wonderful analysis Jyoti.

It is b'coz of your posts that I started watching DDBEDS carefully. And yes. I noticed those changes in Raghu's behavior with Shivani. And you are right ..Raghu starts acting like a husband g8ving orders to his wife, arguing with her, and refusing to do what she wants. He acts with Shivani as an equal to her , not as a naukar. His expressions became more stubborn.

And I l9ved that part which you talked about when Raghu felt overwhelmed by Shivani's burning her balm. ❤️




Awida thanks for posting this pics here 🤗

this got to b my fav moment simply because of the way Raghu looks at her .. its hard to explain this look in words but it was not the typical Raghu's look to his malkin at all .. there was a certain admiring quality in his eyes when he looks at her .. mayb he was in disbelief that someone of baby ji's stature can actually do this for his love ... he feels so overwhelmed here yet he cannot openly express his feelings either and when Shivani looks at him , she too realises that his eyes just cannot lie 😉😳

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