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Im not on any side. I like them both. Even though I certainly understand where they both stand. Im little disappointed to c a lot of people here understanding ragav's loneliness and love... while not so much of kalpi. i thought of sharing my understanding of kalpi's side too... I think she is just scared... She is not used to all these attention. A kid feels important and confident only and only by the mother.. Nothing can compromise mothers presence. While kalpana was feeling left out by her own mom she is probably putting herself not first too. Because that's what had been told and shown over and over ; again and again in her life.
If happens a mistake, there is no one for her who supports her unconditionally.. There is no one to say ' you messed up .. But that's okay we will fix it together'. Dads don't have emotional empathy. They are more natural in getting you ready for the real world. They will love you but it is never going to be like a mother.
I remember when I was a kid, little difference in my behaviour my mom could always find out if everything is alrite with me or not. Now as a mother of two I can too. Its like one of those super powers Gods must have installed when a women is upgraded to a mom. :D I hope someone can relate to this.
If the mother is not around.. Dead or something.. Its different. Here the mother..the greatest soul kamalabai have had a negative effect on her child.
Kalpana while longing for only her mothers support, had started feeling uncomfortable when she gets attention from anyone. She thinks it is not real. She thinks it is going to break anytime now. And she is preparing herself. In the process she is also trying to convience ragav it is not real for him too. :D makes sense?!?
I mean what else do you expect from her? But last episode I'm seeing her trying to come out of her comfort zone. I'm seeing her arguing with her own mother about that corrupt cop. Which is good.. She is on the way for a bear hug from raghav. The real question is will she be too late to reach him back.. Since he is losing patience already.
I'm not for pakhi and ragav. There are so many ways the creatives can come up with ragav and kalpi together and figure out. Bring lot more positive drama. I hate negative stories. Fingers crossed :)
I would love to hear what you guys think. I have been active with likes and comments, but my first post. Go easy please ;) Thanks
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