3/28 - On the step of Trust

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yup. I think after Nok Jhok ka step, and Flirting ka step, they are now standing on the step of "Trust". Or should I say, the next stepping stone is Trust.

Zain has indirectly admitted about his feelings about Aliya. That it was not her naivete or her simplicity that attracted him to her or made solid feelings within him. It was her spunk, the spark, the defiant behavior, her every answer to his every question, their kit kits. Oh and I guess she understands that as well. And he twisted it to his convenience by making it another challenge, saying how he wants to keep doing all that and not let their relationship become incomplete by letting her leave. He can be a winner only if the other half is there to let him be.
And looks like his very chindi sa confession triggered the old Aliya back, who again has an answer to his statement. How she would have had her happily ever after if she left him.

Zain is not one to back down. He keeps asking her wont she go back home with him. Its like music to my ears everytime he says "Ghar nahi chalogi?" Home! Home is not anywhere. There is always only one home and according to him, Aliya's home is with him. (I hope am not over imaging stuffs here😆)

Chalo all good dialogues done.

Finally comes the part where Aliya has brought their big misunderstandings in the open. No more secrets, no more lies between them. Only the truth. And it happened just like how it started. "Vaada". Have they completed the circle? So many feelings went past through them between the 2 promises. Its for us to wait and watch. Thus, they jumped onto the next step in their relationship, Trust. They have decided to trust each other, to never try to doubt each other. I hope this trust develops and is here to stay forever between them.

Rest of the episode went completely entertaining. I loved how Zain was sooo Logical! Thank you CVs, thank you. I loved how Zain took control and Aliya trusted him and followed with his instructions.

The casual ice cream feeding scene was one of the most natural, cute, adorable scenes I have seen between 2 people ONLY because they dint make it a big deal with eye locks, bg songs and slow motions. The simplicity of the feeding scene made it so special.

And with that, I look forward to what is their next stepping stone on their journey to love. What comes after Trust I wonder? Anyone?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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she did ask for a vaada but broke it within minutes by hiding suraiya's involvement in convincing her to leave him. I get a feeling tht she has said vaada but when it comes 2 suraiya, aliya will not disclose the evil plans suraiya makes against her 2 zain.
I loved zain in 2days epi as always he was brilliant... the dialogues I liked the most were "hum ek dosre se bhag nahi sakhte" - its true they can fight and do what ever but they can never run away from 1 another... there is always something which brings them back together. and the other 1 I loved was "zain usman Abdullah aur mamu ki bhanji ki kahani adhoori reh jayegi... aur main tumhare saath ye kahani poori karna chahta hoon" awww that was my fav line...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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^^ My fav part was "Adhoori reh jaayenge". It echoed perfectly. That's how far he is ready to reveal at this point, which is BIG considering Zain said that.

And yup, when Zain asked her about Suraiya, it kept ringing in my head, is she gonna lie? She omitted. Omission is also part of breaking what she promised him, but lets see how that goes on from now. But even when Suraiya asks Aliya about the calendar, she only said "Mere jaane ki dhin gin raha tha", not the one month challenge. She omitted it. I guess if asked directly or if he pushed her to know it at any cost, she would have told him? We'll never know.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: nandini27

^^ My fav part was "Adhoori reh jaayenge". It echoed perfectly. That's how far he is ready to reveal at this point, which is BIG considering Zain said that.

And yup, when Zain asked her about Suraiya, it kept ringing in my head, is she gonna lie? She omitted. Omission is also part of breaking what she promised him, but lets see how that goes on from now. But even when Suraiya asks Aliya about the calendar, she only said "Mere jaane ki dhin gin raha tha", not the one month challenge. She omitted it. I guess if asked directly or if he pushed her to know it at any cost, she would have told him? We'll never know.

I dunno knowing aliya she wouldn't... becos it risks causing problem between zain and suraiya and she's not the 1 to do tht...she's a bit like shabana in the sense tht she knows her mami dislikes her but refuses 2 inform usman or zain abt it, similarly shabana knows tht suraiya doesn't like her yet never complains abt it 2 her brother and jus lets the matter go.
yeh I loved tht entire scene...zaya scene r always amazing, but lately zain's dialogue n character has jus grown so much... compare today's zain to the zain we saw at the beginning - there has been so much growth... and development... I hope they do the same with Aaliya... I feel aliya's growth is very restricted compared to zain's character growth.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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First of all a big thank you for writing this post emphasizing on the turning point of Zaya relationship. Entertainment in the later part of the episode is overshadowing this part at the moment.

Zain expressed so much today and it is surely a great progress. He has come a long way with mkb from the walima episode. From saying free me from this bondage to lets complete the story together. Wow. I guess its life only which gives you the opportunity to grow like this and change being the ultimate factor in it. He spoke from his heart and he wants happily ever after by defeating Aaliya. But how will she loose? May be by loosing herself in the love of her idiot only. I loved the part where he said yes we can do kitkit, we can try to outshine each other, we can fight all the time, but can we try to escape each other, nope we cant. What an ultimate truth about human relations. When you are bound by destiny, by choice, by disagreement, by approval, the biggest truth is you are now associated with each other and all the consequences will have to be faced by you only. Leaving only means physical absence but memories do remain.there is always remnant part of every thing happening in life. So ek dusre se bhagna bada mushkil hai.

Aaliya asking for a promise and Zain agreeing to it was beautiful. Now it will focus on biggest binding force in a marital relation ie trust. Its like glue which helps to fix two individuals. But why do I feel this time promise will be broken and that too by Zain. It will be like drawing parallel to Aaliya breaking the promise on marriage. Her breaking promise brought them together by destiny, what will happen this time?Will Zain try to justfy his deed in future regerring to Aaliya only? Lets wait and watch. Hope nothing like this happens.

The makets are brilliantly portraying the steps in their growing relatioship. Hmm, what comes next after learning to trust each other- is it complete emotional dependence on each other and being secure in relationship? Lets see what happens with Zain and Aaliya.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Yuvika_15

I dunno knowing aliya she wouldn't... becos it risks causing problem between zain and suraiya and she's not the 1 to do tht...she's a bit like shabana in the sense tht she knows her mami dislikes her but refuses 2 inform usman or zain abt it, similarly shabana knows tht suraiya doesn't like her yet never complains abt it 2 her brother and jus lets the matter go.

yeh I loved tht entire scene...zaya scene r always amazing, but lately zain's dialogue n character has jus grown so much... compare today's zain to the zain we saw at the beginning - there has been so much growth... and development... I hope they do the same with Aaliya... I feel aliya's growth is very restricted compared to zain's character growth.



I guess, unlike breaking a promise that she will break the marriage, this hiding about Suraiya was done so that Mother and Son do not have problems. Also what would she get by telling him about Suraiya? They have only promised to "Start" to trust each other. She is not even sure how he will react, if he will even believe her? Her insecurity. Trust is always earned. This promise was about giving a shot at that. To give each other the chance to earn one another's trust.

I don't know what type of growth can be brought in Aliya's character at this point of the story. She has been acceptable to this marriage from day 1. Where as Zain was not a lot of things, which he is right now. I understand why we want her character to have a growth, but what I wonder is, with the present track moving on the path of a truce between them, how will Aliya have to change from what she was? What is the growth we are expecting in her role? Should she be spunky? She already is. Should she be jealous? She already was. She has been only making mistakes for the past few days, but if she dint make them, they would not be able to give a character growth for Zain right? If she handled Aayat's case perfectly with no drama from her side, we would never have seen Zain's mature, supportive side?

I think, Aliya's turn will come, once their romance starts. She has this problem of nervousness, when he gets closer to her. May be later, they will explore and make her a little bolder? Who knows!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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what can i say about the epi Nandini...it was truly amazing!
and you have summed it fabulously in your post already...
you know i'm really grateful that cvs are kind of showing us a step by step journey of ZaYa towards love...its like they are building their castle of dreams bit by bit...😳
we've seen things like understanding, care, possessiveness and now trust developing between them...but the beauty of it all is that the cvs have taken their time to build each of these feelings...i dunno if i'm making any sense...armm😆
its not like they wake up one morning and BAM they're in love...i reckon the simplicity yet the meaningfulness of this show keeps us hooked...
you don't see overly dramatic sequences between the two...but their feelings for each other are so real, so relatable that never has the need for endless eyelocks and random dupatta flying arisen!

the post it getting longer...damn i need to control my verbal diarrhea😆
Edited by -Ammie- - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: nandini27

I guess, unlike breaking a promise that she will break the marriage, this hiding about Suraiya was done so that Mother and Son do not have problems. Also what would she get by telling him about Suraiya? They have only promised to "Start" to trust each other. She is not even sure how he will react, if he will even believe her? Her insecurity. Trust is always earned. This promise was about giving a shot at that. To give each other the chance to earn one another's trust.

I don't know what type of growth can be brought in Aliya's character at this point of the story. She has been acceptable to this marriage from day 1. Where as Zain was not a lot of things, which he is right now. I understand why we want her character to have a growth, but what I wonder is, with the present track moving on the path of a truce between them, how will Aliya have to change from what she was? What is the growth we are expecting in her role? Should she be spunky? She already is. Should she be jealous? She already was. She has been only making mistakes for the past few days, but if she dint make them, they would not be able to give a character growth for Zain right? If she handled Aayat's case perfectly with no drama from her side, we would never have seen Zain's mature, supportive side?

I think, Aliya's turn will come, once their romance starts. She has this problem of nervousness, when he gets closer to her. May be later, they will explore and make her a little bolder? Who knows!

haha bold aliya... I can't imagine tht...there was a topic abt how it would be if aliya starts to flirt...but I guess like u said, tht might happen when they have fallen in love. as of now I just cant imagine aliya flirting or being bold... but it will be interesting 2 c changes in her character.
I guess u have a point, but I also think tht zain would have believed her becos he does know how his mom is and how she doesn't hesitate in making aliya n her family feel bad for the forced marriage... I mean zain was disappointed in suraiya when he found out tht she told shabana abt the walima divorce track. here's hoping she does build a level of trust and is able to confide in him in the future but even then a part of me believes she wont disclose every truth relating 2 suraiya for the reason u mentioned above...the risk of it damaging a mother n son's relationship. aliya is very considerate when it comes to relationships, she isn't the 1 to break them or be the reason for a rift between them.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Yuvika_15

haha bold aliya... I can't imagine tht...there was a topic abt how it would be if aliya starts to flirt...but I guess like u said, tht might happen when they have fallen in love. as of now I just cant imagine aliya flirting or being bold... but it will be interesting 2 c changes in her character.

I guess u have a point, but I also think tht zain would have believed her becos he does know how his mom is and how she doesn't hesitate in making aliya n her family feel bad for the forced marriage... I mean zain was disappointed in suraiya when he found out tht she told shabana abt the walima divorce track. here's hoping she does build a level of trust and is able to confide in him in the future but even then a part of me believes she wont disclose every truth relating 2 suraiya for the reason u mentioned above...the risk of it damaging a mother n son's relationship. aliya is very considerate when it comes to relationships, she isn't the 1 to break them or be the reason for a rift between them.



Yup! We are all sure Zain would have believed her. Also because he knows how Aliya is not very capable of lying. As audience we know that, as a wife and a daughter in law in a different house, I guess Aliya is not confident about him. Should that be Aliya's character growth? Added to trust, develop the confidence to share her worries with Zain believing he will stand by her side? Hopefully the CVs can explore that. I hope she chooses well in the future.
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Originally posted by: pinkeye

First of all a big thank you for writing this post emphasizing on the turning point of Zaya relationship. Entertainment in the later part of the episode is overshadowing this part at the moment.

Zain expressed so much today and it is surely a great progress. He has come a long way with mkb from the walima episode. From saying free me from this bondage to lets complete the story together. Wow. I guess its life only which gives you the opportunity to grow like this and change being the ultimate factor in it. He spoke from his heart and he wants happily ever after by defeating Aaliya. But how will she loose? May be by loosing herself in the love of her idiot only. I loved the part where he said yes we can do kitkit, we can try to outshine each other, we can fight all the time, but can we try to escape each other, nope we cant. What an ultimate truth about human relations. When you are bound by destiny, by choice, by disagreement, by approval, the biggest truth is you are now associated with each other and all the consequences will have to be faced by you only. Leaving only means physical absence but memories do remain.there is always remnant part of every thing happening in life. So ek dusre se bhagna bada mushkil hai.

Aaliya asking for a promise and Zain agreeing to it was beautiful. Now it will focus on biggest binding force in a marital relation ie trust. Its like glue which helps to fix two individuals. But why do I feel this time promise will be broken and that too by Zain. It will be like drawing parallel to Aaliya breaking the promise on marriage. Her breaking promise brought them together by destiny, what will happen this time?Will Zain try to justfy his deed in future regerring to Aaliya only? Lets wait and watch. Hope nothing like this happens.

The makets are brilliantly portraying the steps in their growing relatioship. Hmm, what comes next after learning to trust each other- is it complete emotional dependence on each other and being secure in relationship? Lets see what happens with Zain and Aaliya.



Hahaha...I went through 5 pages in the forum to check before posting if anyone has made any thread related to this. Your welcome. 😃 And yea, when the episode was done and I had laughed at most parts, the promise came to my mind.

@breaking: Its entirely possible Zain might end up hurting her this time by breaking a promise. From my side, I was looking forward to a test of their trust. Obviously the 3 devils are gonna do stuffs against them. So will their newly promised trust be tested? Will Zain or Aliya be accused of something? Caught in some act that is scandalous? Will one trust the other? That will be a test of their promise. I want to see how that progresses more than a track about Zain breaking a promise. Either way, its the cvs choice, what they decide to show. I personally would love the testing part.

After trust, emotional dependence and secure. Possible. How do we develop our friendships? We have fun, slowly we trust them. Next comes, sharing I think. Heartfelt sharing of feelings and emotions. So looks like it could be emotional dependance.

Edited by nandini27 - 11 years ago

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