New Definition Of Hatred .Quite Lovable

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Shalok announced from the top of his voice that he hates Astha and poor Astha has heard this broken record playing now every day but now it has softened . i really laugh when i see Shalok and his hatred for Astha . Where is it , in his eyes , not his expressions not even in his actions ? , He himself is living in fool,s paradise . yes he may not be in love with Astha but has something for her . Both looks like normal couple , behave like that . Astha she has become her old self but was there any change came in between in her ? I am confused . If your one life is spent peacefully , happily , that is quite big thing in todays world . In our Hindi shows Heroines wants the same guy for seven lives . Please come to real world . Now astha does not meed to announce her love every second to the person . If this is called hatred then i think many girls will be asking shalok kind of guy just minus the wedding night behavior

Why she does not feel hurt , listening to shalok that he does not love her , Its high time she should take control of her emotions and give some space to shalok . Shalok is her addiction and vice verse .
She will never leave Shalok on her own , will go on waiting for him to stop her . Love says is blind but for six months ? She does not need to degrade herself every time proclaiming her emotions to him and then his ridicules remarks , making fun of her . She should stay there but should now become mature .

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Agree absolutely. Love, rejection , heart-breaks ( past or present),

marriage and divorce - all these are pretty serious matters.

It's fine to be delirious with joy at first realization of first love but

to laugh and joke about a mature , second round of love- love that is

still being rejected/denied by the other party !!!!😲

Of course love is still beautiful but certainly not the same.😕




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Posted: 11 years ago
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one week left what miracle is going to happen for astha to stay or not happen and astha leave
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: LoneSoldier

Absolutely. Love, rejection , heart-breaks ( past or present),

marriage and divorce - all these are pretty serious matters.

It's one thing to be delirious with joy at first realization of first love and

another to laugh and joke about a mature , second round of love- love that is

scarred with pain , deceit and regret.
What shalok did with her , was unforgivable , marrying a innocent girl just to take revenge and for your some personal motive . Marriage is supposed to be second life for a girl in our Indian society .i do not think shalok ever regretted what he did with her , but Astha is lost case where she has to bring happiness in Shalok,s life .
Of course love is still beautiful but certainly not the same.😕
Have seen many people coming out of this dream world after some time of marriage






Its the TV world where love definition , comes from fairy tales , feeding people fiction , far away from the real world . I try to find out Astha kind of girl , totally smitten by Shalok despite his rejection . but unable to find . Love flies out of the window when you are faced with reality . Astha is still in her bubble world , no doubt there is change in Shalok,s behavior . i feel sad for her when she just goes on degrading herself with no response from the concerned person .
She has to learn to give space to a person .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post. yeah ,it will be ideal if aastha start to think about herself but all she cares is about him and his words doesn't faze her any more. I guess
this is the heights of her love for him n now ball is in his court.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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nice post, I wonder what will happen next week
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Neelum.drashti


Nice post. yeah ,it will be ideal if aastha start to think about herself but all she cares is about him and his words doesn't faze her any more. I guess
this is the heights of her love for him n now ball is in his court.



Neelum do not you feel sad for her , she is behaving lika crazy person when the other person gives a damn about her feelings . yes change is there in shalok . He is not Niranjan , has humanity and would have done to save anyone as he did for Astha . Why she goes on waiting in wings for his love declaration . I do not want her to leave him but should take control of hrer life and stop making fool of herself . She is behaving like meena kumari of Sahib Bibi Aur Gulam , just song came to my mind . Na jao saiya. Time has changed she grew up in liberal family with values . Love does not majke you to not respect your self . Do you think , is there any hatred now anywhere . both like a normal couple .
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love is blind ...notion belongs to Ashlok
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Originally posted by: srilotus

love is blind ...notion belongs to Ashlok



SORRY I DO NOT AGREE , HERE ITS ONLY GOES WITH ASTHA WHO WAS BLIND FROM THE STARTING COULD NOT READ WHAT WAS STARING AT HER FACE . sHALOK IS QUITE COMPOSED PERSON , KNEW WHAT HE WAS DOING . HE MUST HAVE LOVED SWATI BUT DUE TO UNKNOWN REASONS MISUNDERSTANDINGS WERE CREATED AND SWATI LEFT HER . SH HERE SHALOK IS NOT BLIND . SHE STILL IS , YOU CAN NOT BEHAVE LIKE CRAZY AND JUST GOING ON PESTERING HIM WITH HER DECLARATIONS . WHY ? SHALOK IS NOT UNAWARE ,HE KNOWS WHAT ASTHA FEELS FOR HIM .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Neerjaa



Neelum do not you feel sad for her , she is behaving lika crazy person when the other person gives a damn about her feelings . yes change is there in shalok . He is not Niranjan , has humanity and would have done to save anyone as he did for Astha . Why she goes on waiting in wings for his love declaration . I do not want her to leave him but should take control of hrer life and stop making fool of herself . She is behaving like meena kumari of Sahib Bibi Aur Gulam , just song came to my mind . Na jao saiya. Time has changed she grew up in liberal family with values . Love does not majke you to not respect your self . Do you think , is there any hatred now anywhere . both like a normal couple .


she knows that he will never say it, n he is her husband than where is the harm in proclaiming her love? there is this saying katra katra pani pathar ma b surah kar deta hai. i have no problem with her confessing love to shlok or baring herself to him because that is aastha's nature and i like her openness. Now, she is opening up to a person who is wary of even his own shadow but that's shlok. i think aaastha is taking control of her life, she has few days left there,so she want to spend it with him, collecting happy memories so that in future when she looks in past,there will be something which will make her smile.

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